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ParkBom

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bob2.0 wrote...

*sigh*
ITT: People who a part of a particular demographic trying to build a social community within a multiplayer game they collectively like to play.

Also ITT: Other people, who are probably considered the majority in every way, lecturing that first group of people.

So if you aren't interested in having your name added to the compiled list, and have nothing constructive to add, don't post in this thread.



#1377
brettc893

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Well, I don't specifically Give a **** about who people choose to love, but I'm also not a Homosexual.

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*Plays any difficulty, but doesn't play too often, usually in Week Long bursts, right after DLC comes out.

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Gay players are always welcome to join me in a game. The only words of hate you'll ever hear from me are reserved for Reapers/Geth/Cerberus, and I have no interest in speculating on their sexuality or using homophobic slurs to describe them.

Xbox GT is passafist19. Feel free to send me a FR or game invite whenever I'm on, if I'm not already in a match/lobby I'll be happy to join. I'm a very casual player, but a useful teammate in Bronze and Silver; if you're okay with carrying me a bit in Gold, I'm happy to give that a shot as well.

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Shad Croly

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Could I get my gamertag tossed up on that list as well?

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Would have been easier to create a group from the outset rather than run a thread . BSN members are normal people with their own prejudices just like the wider community so you were always going to create a drama with this post. It was always destined to become a debate that was going to upset people. Personally no prob with gays and I don't give a **** whether someone is gay but just feel that this was the wriong way to go about forming a group.

Modifié par stricko, 16 juillet 2012 - 10:49 .


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xyzmkrysvr

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stricko wrote...

Would have been easier to create a group from the outset rather than run a thread . BSN members are normal people with their own prejudices just like the wider community so you were always going to create a drama with this post. It was always destined to become a debate that was going to upset people. Personally no prob with gays and I don't give a **** whether someone is gay but just feel that this was the wriong way to go about forming a group.


I was relatively new to the forums when I created this thread and wasn't even familiar with groups... sorry!
Having said that, I am fairly certain that this thread has generated more interest than any group ever could have. A fellow forumite eventually did create a group (called the Rainbow Brigade) but the fact that this thread is still going strong after 50+ pages, and new people are adding their names to the list regularly shows me that starting this thread was exactly the right thing to do. ^_^

Modifié par xyzmkrysvr, 16 juillet 2012 - 11:08 .


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I know that you already stated this in your original post, OP, however there should never be a division. I am straight, however I would never not play with someone of another sexual orientation, nor do I have issue with their preferences, as long as they are nice people.

Without reading through all 56 pages (time constraints) I hope that you don't receive negative comments/abuse from players in game or on the forums. Shame on them if this does happen, especially in the Mass Effect community given the nature of the Single Player stories.

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So because people call something in the game gay, you don't like them?
Get used to it, a LOT of people use terms like that, though they don't use them in a homophobic way. If you REALLY can't deal with people who say things like that, you're gonna have some problems in your life.

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BlackoutOmega wrote...

So because people call something in the game gay, you don't like them?
Get used to it, a LOT of people use terms like that, though they don't use them in a homophobic way. If you REALLY can't deal with people who say things like that, you're gonna have some problems in your life.


1/10

Also xyzmkrysvr you are my hero.

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Our_Last_Scene wrote...

Oddly one of the biggest name places for some reason.

I've managed to snag 3 days off work thanks to all my overtime, and because everyone else is at work during the week it means I'll have plenty of time for Xbox, so I just want good players to play with.

I score highly in matches, it's rare for me not to be top of the leaderboard, but I actually enjoy it when I'm outscored because it means I'm playing with good players and frees me up to expeiment with new classes. Add me if you want, my GT is:

Afro Tyler

Send me a message too to tell me that you saw my GT in this thread on BSN, otherwise I'll probably reject your request.


No replies, thought I'd find people due to saving for credits + operation.

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BlackoutOmega wrote...

So because people call something in the game gay, you don't like them?
Get used to it, a LOT of people use terms like that, though they don't use them in a homophobic way. If you REALLY can't deal with people who say things like that, you're gonna have some problems in your life.


Because if it doesn't bother you it shouldn't bother anyone who are actually affected by it? Makes sense to me. Yes it happens a lot, yes gay people have problems in life because of it. Hence this thread.

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I don't understand. Do I write here that I love you too, who ever you are? As long as you're not a ****ing extremist moron, like the idiots I had the honor of growing up with? Anyway, I'm signing up. Love to you all. Except you Thomas!

(Totally worth messing with all the Thomas' in the world ^^)

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PSN name on my sig. I've a mic and play gold.

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xyzmkrysvr

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BlackoutOmega wrote...
So because people call something in the game gay, you don't like them?
Get used to it, a LOT of people use terms like that, though they don't use them in a homophobic way. If you REALLY can't deal with people who say things like that, you're gonna have some problems in your life.


I never said I don’t “like” people who use the word “gay” to mean “stupid”.
If anything, I pity them for being so woefully unintelligent.
The word gay once meant “happy” but it never meant anything close to “stupid”. So using it in a derogatory context is just plain silly. You may not find it homophobic, but I happen to find it ANNOYING. Which is why I’d prefer to play with people who don’t talk like that. I’m flattered that you’re so concerned with my life and whether or not I will have problems later on, but my humble suggestion to you is to go do something more productive with your life than respond to a thread that doesn’t affect you in the slightest.
:wizard:

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Our_Last_Scene wrote...
Oddly one of the biggest name places for some reason.
I've managed to snag 3 days off work thanks to all my overtime, and because everyone else is at work during the week it means I'll have plenty of time for Xbox, so I just want good players to play with.
I score highly in matches, it's rare for me not to be top of the leaderboard, but I actually enjoy it when I'm outscored because it means I'm playing with good players and frees me up to expeiment with new classes. Add me if you want, my GT is:
Afro Tyler
Send me a message too to tell me that you saw my GT in this thread on BSN, otherwise I'll probably reject your request.

No replies, thought I'd find people due to saving for credits + operation.



My GT is the same as my username and I will happily play with you if you’re going to be on sometime in the next couple of hours! ^_^ Sorry I haven’t added you, yet! I haven’t added any of the new Xbox players, actually, but I planned on doing it in time for the release of the new DLC!

Modifié par xyzmkrysvr, 16 juillet 2012 - 11:49 .


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I play on PC. For the most part, no one on PC cares who you are, we don't talk much anyway. I have a mic, but I don't like to be the only guy in the match chatting. While I am not gay, it makes no difference to me who is. This is a game, just play to the best of your ability. Maybe this has already been written, I didn't much feel like reading the first 50+ pages.

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After maybe 4 months of being on the list, I finally played with xyzmkrysvr as well as frostedwing. It was fun! Hope to do it again after the DLC hits. :D
P.S. Sorry my friends joined it. It got awkward... fast. ._.

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Are we seriously going to post threads about specific stereotypes? This doesn't seem right to me.

EDIT: I don't mean to be rude, but I just frown against stereotyping in general. I don't think that homosexuals should be mistreated because of that fact, but I don't think they should recieve special treatment either. I am an equal rights person and don't appreciate it when people feel forced to make things like this. Just to get my opinion out of the way and make sure there are no misunderstandings.

I am interested however, to remain on topic, with the motive behind this. To the OP, your original post didn't really tell me much. Why did you decide to make this thread?

Modifié par AgentStark, 17 juillet 2012 - 04:09 .


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*sighs*

I love seeing all the critism (and relentless already-asked questions, for that matter) you guys receive for wanting to play with players who you can relate to in the subject of sexual orientation. :pinched:

I'd give my own Origin ID, but my friends list is already full. I'll take a look here when there's room... you guys seem like nice people.

Modifié par Chriss5688, 17 juillet 2012 - 04:04 .


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Infinity83

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Add me to the list, this is just the type of thing I was looking for.

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#1395
AgentStark

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I apologize for editing my post after the fact, but it's just hard to take a sensitive topic and be able to say what I want to say without saying it the wrong way. My original question is in the edited version reworded so as not to disturb what shouldnt be disturbed.

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AgentStark wrote...

Are we seriously going to post threads about specific stereotypes? This doesn't seem right to me.

EDIT: I don't mean to be rude, but I just frown against stereotyping in general. I don't think that homosexuals should ever have a process of "coming out of the closet" or be afraid of saying their gay. It's their interest and not my buisness.

I am interested however, to remain on topic, with the motive behind this. To the OP, your original post didn't really tell me much. Why did you decide to make this thread?


lol, yeah it would be great if society worked that way. Unfortunately the world is as it is and not how we wish it to be. Coming out is a burden that GLBT individuals shoulder vis-a-vis every person they meet for their entire life, and which no heterosexual person ever has to experience. It's not an "interest" that one enjoys (although it does have a unique significance and the GLBT community has repurposed it as a cornerstone of its identity).

Your use of "stereotype" is also very slippery and, honestly, a bit telling.

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I edited my post again because before I saw this but alright.

And if you don't wish to use the word stereotype, than would classification be a better term?

Add me to the list. May as well be supportive if people don't feel comfortable. Origin ID is the same as on here.

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Please add me to the list. Xbox gamertag same with my forum id (or v3ntril0quist).

Favourite character to use: GI, AJ, HE, DA. Difficulty: Gold. Play style: Versatile, depends on team. Can be damage dealer or supportive. Not much a talker but enjoy listening to group chat (example they chat about games, car, food, etc while being chased by couple of banshees..)

Enjoying speed run lately (FBGCG), Not really mind if farming at FBWGG. Please send me a message first so i know you are from BSN. Thanks

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Open minded player here, please add me to the list. Xbox gamertag: NemesisDivina13

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xyzmkrysvr

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JusticarFlareon wrote...
After maybe 4 months of being on the list, I finally played with xyzmkrysvr as well as frostedwing. It was fun! Hope to do it again after the DLC hits. :D
P.S. Sorry my friends joined it. It got awkward... fast. ._.


I'm glad we finally got to play together, too! And I look forward to future matches where we kick Cerberus's collective butt together! ^_^
(and yeah, the reason I left the party was cause one of your friends said the "F" word... That's just not the sort of thing I wanna hear when I'm trying to have fun, you know?)

AgentStark wrote...
Are we seriously going to post threads about specific stereotypes? This doesn't seem right to me.
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I am interested however, to remain on topic, with the motive behind this. To the OP, your original post didn't really tell me much. Why did you decide to make this thread?


AgentStark, not only have I explained myself thoroughly numerous times (I've probably answered your question, or some version of it, on every other page of this thread) but I've also kept my cool despite being trolled to no end. 

But honestly, I'm getting a bit fed up.

Quite frankly, I don't owe you an explanation. 
Do you know how many pointless, repetitive, or asinine threads I see pop up on this forum EVERY DAY? 
And what do I do? Nothing. 
I suppose I *could* go into those threads and whine and complain and ask the OP why they decided to make ANOTHER thread about how the Krysae needed to be nerfed or some nonsense but I DON'T because I believe in live and let live.

I don't know why you singled out me and my thread; I didn't break any forum rules by creating this and the moderators have expressed their support for the purpose of this thread. 

You want to know why I created this thread?
Because for the past four hours, I was having a blast playing Mass Effect with some cool people (JusticarFlareon, Frostedwing, Blkrose Kitty and Afro Tyler) who I met BECAUSE OF THIS THREAD.
That, alone, makes it all worth it and validates my original purpose. 

Maybe instead of wasting your time posting in this thread you could play some Mass Effect?

Either way, I hope you have a nice life (and thanks for the bumps!) ^_^

Modifié par xyzmkrysvr, 17 juillet 2012 - 02:29 .