Background: I sent Luc a private message asking him for a conversation over skype to talk about the current thread and the current crisis of confidence . I addressed him respectfully and wanted candidly to listen to his words and his grievences . I did so because I believed and still firmly believe that the core of REtake is one of respect and reason . I firmly believe that Retake is in the right and if we are in the right then we have no need to fear from objections or questions even from our own ranks . Thus , I engaged with him in honest and candid conversation and after hours of talk we hereby draft this joint statement for the encouragement of REtake , all of BSN , and for the firm hope that this spirit of SINCERE respect for each other spreads and continues. Thus our 6 points for our joint statement:
1. Instead of continuing on in a flame war and engaging in conversation that was going nowhere we, Luc0s and AznableChar instead sat down and had a decent human to human conversation.
2. We, Luc0s and AznableChar both listened to each other's points we both argued passionately , and we both let each other have full course to be heard unlike the fast paced nature of the thread.
3. Through respectful and fruitful discourse we realized that we both prefer BioWare to release a FREE and decent DLC that addresses the ending and that satisfied what we had come to expect from BioWare's past writing.
4. That we have both come to realize that part of the underlying frustration we all were having was due to the quick and swift negativity that can occur because of the intense pressures on the community.
5. We, AznableChar and Luc0s, both reaffirm our ardent and unyielding support the wish for BioWare to release FREE and decent DLC that addresses the ending, but we also need to realize that all the negativity going on on BSN we only provoke more negativity, resulting in people eventually just giving up and/or leaving the Retake movement, such as was the case with me, Luc0s and unquestionably several others.
6. Understanding all of these elements we have come to realize that the Retake movement is not necessarily a bad thing. The movement can and WILL yield positive results for both us, the fans and BioWare, the developers, as long as we stay positive, calm and civil.
7. We want to state that through civil conversation, Luc0s and AznableChar came to an understanding. We both realize that ultimately we all want the same thing. With this we prove and reaffirm that it IS INDEED POSSIBLE for calm dialogue and mutual respect can change minds and hearts and ultimately gain a better understanding, both among each other and hopefully also between BioWare and us, the fans.
As a personal note for myself I want to thank Luc for being willing to talk to me . I thank everyone who attempted in good faith to listen to him and I can understand being swamped by so many messages at once that it was very difficult for him to answer questions and to respond to others trying to talk to him .
I wanted to demonstrate to people that behind everyone who asks a sincere question is NOT a traitor but a MAN OF THE LINE . Heck , a SHIP OF THE LINE . This is not a time to be depressed but a time to FIGHT both harder AND SMARTER .
I am not attempting to shame or act superior to anyone who tried to post in this thread ; I recognize all of you .
Despite my disappointments with some of the rabidness of the response , I sincerely understand it . We have been betrayed SO MUCH already . The ending betrayed us , certain review websites called us names , certain events forced other events that felt like betrayal . BUT THE MOVEMENT CONTINUES . WE HOLD THE LINE STILL . And I know that for so many people first reading this thread it seemed like another betrayal , but I was determined that TRUTH and RESPECT trump doubt and anger any day .
I want to applaud everyone for their energy even if it was a bit fervent . Keep it up , but like I said , don't just fight harder , fight smarter .
BioWare snatched defeat from the jaws of victory , let us NOT repeat their example .
Modifié par Aznable Char, 24 mars 2012 - 05:54 .