Jigokou wrote...
IMO, even the happy ending should be grim. The only difference maybe would be less people dying and maybe Shepard surviving. But there should still have been a high price to pay for victory. After all, sacrifices happened during the entire game, no reason the end should be different, especially when the stakes are the highest.
Which is exactly what people mean by 'happy ending', billions dead, entire worlds lost, species on the edge of extinction, and the characters that actually matter to the player, that have any real significance to us and aren't just a nebulous concept, dying too.
Thats another problem infact, the squadmates just being fine at the end robs their involvement of any meaning. The cut scene of the two you take with you getting blasted by Harbringer would be no better.
The deaths need to matter, to have the proper time and attention they need. Like Thane, Mordin and Legion got, and most of the others can have. There's just nothing for us to connect with emotionally other than a tiny bit of Anderson in the ending, and even he is only a minor character compared to any squadmate.
A bittersweet ending, where we actually loose things we care for, but get rewarded with something uplifting after, be that the galaxy being saved or Shepard getting the girl/guy, while loosing something of equal value, would have been amazing. I wish we'd had one.