mauro2222 wrote...
Skyblade012 wrote...
To expand a bit. This is my opinion only, and others are of course welcome to their own, but I'll try to explain as best I can.
I believe that Liara is the only perfect match for Shepard.
Tali's romance is too much of a case of hero worship. Tali can't ever see Shepard failing. Tali can't ever conceive or believe Shepard being wrong, or being weak. Liara can. Liara is always, always there, whenever Shepard wavers, and not only knows what is eating at Shepard, and why, but knows what to bring up and how to talk things around to get Shepard back in the game. Tali doesn't really think Shepard needs her. It's as though Shepard is gracing Tali with the romance, rather than a relationship of equals. As awesome as Tali is, she's just not right for Shepard.
Ashley is too guarded. Ashley can't just trust Shepard. While she would never have Tali's issue of seeing Shepard as someone above her, she still can't just take Shepard's word about what is going on. Shepard has to work way too hard for her trust. Relationships are built on trust, and Ashley just doesn't trust Shepard. Too much has happened, they've been broken apart too much, and Ashley just isn't able to rebuild what was lost.
Liara is perfect. She never questions Shepard's positions. She knows that, whatever happens, Shepard will always be Shepard, will always hold Shepard's views and morals true, no matter what (which is why the ending is a betrayal to her as well, as Shepard backs down from her own morals and accepts those of the enemy). She knows that if Shepard is working for Cerberus, it's for a dang good reason, one Shepard believes is absolutely necessary. Yet she also knows that Shepard is not infallible. She calls out Shepard for self-doubt, or for getting run down and depressed as things go to hell. And Shepard calls her out as well, for her own self-doubt, or the times when she gets too distant from the universe. The two anchor off each other. Each gives the other the eternal port in the storm. No matter where Shepard goes, Liara will always be there when Shepard needs her, and vice versa. Be that fighting through a fleet of Reapers, or just needing a hand off the floor of the cabin.
She's the only one who understands fully both Shepard, and the threat they face. She's the one who realizes the chance for failure, who plans against it, and plans to save as much as she can should everything fail. She also is the only one who understands that they need not weather this storm. That they can leave, fly away in peace, and let the galaxy die. But that they won't. That neither one would let that happen. That they are there, bearing the brunt of the storm, by choice. Liara and Shepard can both entertain the idea "why does the galaxy need me", but they both know the answer, without even having to vocalize it.
It is the only relationship with such a beautiful level of understanding. I'm probably not expressing it well, but I truly believe there have been few relationships written, especially in the gaming media, with this brilliant level of open emotion and understanding between the partners.
Haha, yeah right ... 
So perfect little miss Shadow Broker ![=]](https://lvlt.forum.bioware.com/public/style_emoticons/default/sideways.png)
Come on! <_<
I find her being the Shadow Broker is another advantage. She's the only one who has a galactic role not defined by Shepard.
Ashley is always going to be known as the second human Spectre (weird, because I thought ME2 implied that there were already more human Spectres, but we'll go with it), and a member of Shepard's crew. Always defined by Shepard, and in relation to Shepard.
Tali is Miss Tali'zorah vas Normandy. Again, see the point? She's a legend among her own people, yes, but to everyone else, she's just another member of Shepard's crew.
Liara is the Shadow Broker. She's the only one with a position that can stand apart from Shepard. She is more independent, on a more equal footing. Again, it's the whole balance thing playing out.
Not that I am in any way unbiased. As much as I love Tali's character, and voice, I've been a huge Liara fan since the first game, and I love the way the character has been developed throughout the three, but that is still the most honest appraisal I can give the romantic interests.