GuardianAngel470 wrote...
I understand that its hard for her, but to seemingly ignore that her experience has already happened to all the other races is just... socially inept.
Liara
is socially inept. I don't state that as a criticism of her; it's established fact.
She went to graduate school to get a doctorate, which is a classic social ineptitude trope itself. Before meeting Shepard, she spent decades studying the ruins of the Protheans, usually entirely by herself, with nobody around to talk to. She hadn't talked to her mother in many years before Noveria. Her comments in elevators on the Citadel make it clear she's simply not used to being around many people. And the way she expresses interest in Shepard? She clearly has no or very little experience with that sort of thing, and comes off as a bit obsessive.
Then in the second game, we see her and we find out that she's changed careers; she's now an information broker. She's cold and can barely talk to Shepard, apparently incapable of understanding that even though it's been two years for her, to Shepard its as if the Normandy blew up yesterday. This is extremely frustrating if you got together with her in the first game; I come back to life, you kiss me once, and then want me to hack terminals for you? What the hell? We later find out that she became an information broker mainly to find Shepard's dead body and prevent the Shadow Broker from getting it, which is greatly appreciated but also kind of obsessive. And if you play LoTSB, she finally breaks down and and admits she just couldn't find a way to emotionally deal with your return and becomes a big blubbering mess, but only if Shepard is really insistent on asking her "What the hell is wrong with you?"
I'll skip pointing out every instance of Liara's ineptitude in the third game, because we've all just played it. She's less inept in this game, simply because she's around other people more than she has in all of her 109 previous years, and most of the people she's around are people she already knows.
But yeah. I think if she wasn't a hot blue alien space babe, people would remember that social ineptitude is one of Liara's main character traits. If she were an overweight human wearing thick glasses, people would pick up on it right away rather than constantly label her a "writer's pet."