Athro wrote...
This is the thing I don't get about the whole "Kaidan shouldn't be gay!" brigade. His sexuality is linked to YOUR story. So if you play as a straight female and romance Kaidan - he's straight in your story. And to be honest, the fact that Kaidan doesn't romance mShep until the third game makes the bi/gay Kaidan storyline so different it's a different character and story altogether.
There seems to be this weird notion that the characters are set in stone. But they are guided by the story they are in.
I really noticed this watching my flatmate playing femShep in ME3 and talking to Kaidan. In that version, Kaidan came across as kind of whiny and weak next to femShep. But in my playthrough, he was competent, intelligent and very much mShep's equal. Conversations with him had a very different tone and feel to them.
Because, as you say, in MY story he was a different character.
They both work. It just seems to me that some people have trouble separating their story from others.
You see here's the only problem with this, I'd liked to first say that I enjoy that Kaidan is a S/S option, is that Kaidan is not your Shepard nor are any of your squadmates.
What makes the characters great is their personality, motivations, and behavior. You can't simply alter that because it's part of "your story". Yes, who you romance is part of your story, but their sexuality isn't.
When things such as sexuality and personality of a squadmate become nothing more than variables for the player to decide than it diminishes the character themself.
The characters in the game become nothing but playthings for the player do whatever they please with.
"Want Liara to become a renegade? Just click this button."
"Want Garrus to change classes to a biotic? Just click this button."
"Want Wrex as an LI? Just click this button."
Shepard is a plaything, but not his squad. When they do things or change due our actions it should be due to a choice with unintended consequences. An example is the fate of Mordin depending on what choices you made.
You decide the destiny of Mordin, but it wasn't a simple "Click this button to change Mordin's motivations so he doesn't do this." It was an organic process throughout the three games that led up to that moment.
Kaidan should be S/S.
Jack should have been S/S
Thane should have been S/S
And that's it. The only reasons those character should be available as S/S options is due to the fact that it was originally intended, and it fits for each of them. I would have been fine if Thane was an S/S option in 3, because it was intended from the start.
What Bioware needs to remember though, is that no aspect of a character's personality should be up to the player unless it's a well crafter system such as the fate of Mordin. If Kaidan is interested in men in a male Shepard playthrough than his interest in men should at least be recognized in a female Shepard playthrough.
Kaidan is who he is, and it shouldn't change based on Shepard's gender. That should apply for all characters if Bioware cares about the integrity of the artistic importance of their characters.
Although considering the way they ended the trilogy I'm not sure if Bioware really understands art anymore...