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[Siansonea]

bleetman wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...

Here's the thing: It's really not that difficult to get a man to have sex with you. As a woman you really just have to show up with a vagina and a willingness to say "yes", and they're up for it. Not all of them, surely, some of them have standards, but guys of the average age you're likely to find on the BSN, let's just say that "fish in a barrel" is not an altogether inappropriate metaphor.

Generalising is so much fun. It's my favourite kind of ising.

You've met guys before, right? AM I WRONG?

[Siansonea]

greengoron89 wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...
Here's the thing: It's really not that difficult to get a man to have sex with you. As a woman you really just have to show up with a vagina and a willingness to say "yes", and they're up for it. Not all of them, surely, some of them have standards, but guys of the average age you're likely to find on the BSN, let's just say that "fish in a barrel" is not an altogether inappropriate metaphor. 

LOL. I think you overestimate men - not all of them will drop their pants the moment an opportunity to get laid comes up. I'm willing to bet a lot of them would actually chicken out - assuming they're not so socially inept that they don't know how to communicate with you properly (or at all), or catch on to the fact that you're interested in them to begin with.

My whole point was that it's not a rare occurence for a man to be willing to have sex with a female, even an "average looking" female (whatever that means). But for some reason, a lot of gals seem to think it's some kind of rare and high compliment when a guy is hot for them. Well, duh, of course they are. It's a biological imperative for them that is MUCH stronger than ours is, and I don't think a lot of young women realize that. They think that the male "urge to merge" is about on par with our own, or just a little bit stronger. No, ladies, it is a MUCH stronger instinct for males than it is for females, and that's just a matter of the endocrine differences between males and females. Testosterone is the hormone that controls sex drive in men and women, and women only produce a small amount of it in our adrenal glands and ovaries. It's not a stereotype, it's a well-documented biological principle.

[slimgrin]

Sian speaks the truth, not a pretty picture either. If I had to rate 'urges' it would be:


Male: ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------->102,475,789

Female->10

It's biology, no getting around it.

[Russalka]

Isn't the influence of society also a factor? Or is that influence influenced by biology?

The topic changed again.

[android654]

slimgrin wrote...

Sian speaks the truth, not a pretty picture either. If I had to rate 'urges' it would be:


Male: ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------->102,475,789

Female->10

It's biology, no getting around it.

Honestly, I think that assumption is misunderstood and blown out of proportion. People that are always "on" are a real rarity, trust me.

[Homebound]

slimgrin wrote...

Sian speaks the truth, not a pretty picture either. If I had to rate 'urges' it would be:


Male: ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------->102,475,789

Female->10

It's biology, no getting around it.

This constant suppression and dehumanization of the male populace shall not be tolerated.

EDIT: Im a man AND a person too. Not just a walking penis as some of you keep insisting.

Modifié par Hellbound555, 12 avril 2012 - 11:17 .

[weltraumhamster89]

Well, some do, some don't. Isn't it like that with everybody?

[spirosz]

weltraumhamster89 wrote...

Well, some do, some don't. Isn't it like that with everybody?

Some people think they need to have everything single person attracted to them.

But I agree with you.  

[Blood-Lord Thanatos]

Men......Men are weak.......frail......but Relationships are powerful things, yes....

[ThePinkFoxx]

I did not post my picture to fein humbleness or fishing for compliments, it was more for fun after posting a hideous picture I found on google. It was good to have a bit of a joke around, just a bit of fun. Some people posted photos because they can have a laugh too or are just sharing their lives with us. Now people are being beraded for doing so.

I believe I am average, I believe I have a right to be humble as I have no control over how I look - the way I look is simply a gift, or luck. I don't think I can boast about something like that. Not saying it's wrong too, but I personally couldn't. I did not come to get my ego stroked, most days I am happy with myself... If people think I am attractive then good for them. It's a nice compliment and I appreciate the thought. Anyone who says they don't is lying.

Modifié par ThePinkFoxx, 13 avril 2012 - 12:03 .

[rolson00]

my ego needs feeding on a daily basis if it isnt fed people are in danger of not knowing how super awesome i truly am.

Modifié par rolson00, 13 avril 2012 - 12:11 .

[Arch1eviathan]

I attract all the guys.... If only I had the same effect with girls.

[Megaton_Hope]

slimgrin wrote...

Sian speaks the truth, not a pretty picture either. If I had to rate 'urges' it would be:


Male: ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------->102,475,789

Female->10

It's biology, no getting around it.

See now, that I don't believe. These are culturally transmitted values. The supposed lack of a female sexual drive particularly. If one wishes to insult a woman, what does one typically say? Most of the words I am aware of connote free availability of her sexual favors.

[Arch1eviathan]

rolson00 wrote...

my ego needs feeding on a daily basis if it isnt fed people are in danger of not knowing how super awesome i truly am.

You sound needy.

[rolson00]

Smecky Kitteh wrote...

rolson00 wrote...

my ego needs feeding on a daily basis if it isnt fed people are in danger of not knowing how super awesome i truly am.

You sound needy.

 maybe but as least i attract girls and not guys, dont hate me coz im pretty

[rolson00]

greengoron89 wrote...

rolson00 wrote...

Smecky Kitteh wrote...

rolson00 wrote...

my ego needs feeding on a daily basis if it isnt fed people are in danger of not knowing how super awesome i truly am.

You sound needy.

 maybe but as least i attract girls and not guys, dont hate me coz im pretty

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[ADLegend21]

Siansonea II wrote...

greengoron89 wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...
Here's the thing: It's really not that difficult to get a man to have sex with you. As a woman you really just have to show up with a vagina and a willingness to say "yes", and they're up for it. Not all of them, surely, some of them have standards, but guys of the average age you're likely to find on the BSN, let's just say that "fish in a barrel" is not an altogether inappropriate metaphor. 

LOL. I think you overestimate men - not all of them will drop their pants the moment an opportunity to get laid comes up. I'm willing to bet a lot of them would actually chicken out - assuming they're not so socially inept that they don't know how to communicate with you properly (or at all), or catch on to the fact that you're interested in them to begin with.

My whole point was that it's not a rare occurence for a man to be willing to have sex with a female, even an "average looking" female (whatever that means). But for some reason, a lot of gals seem to think it's some kind of rare and high compliment when a guy is hot for them. Well, duh, of course they are. It's a biological imperative for them that is MUCH stronger than ours is, and I don't think a lot of young women realize that. They think that the male "urge to merge" is about on par with our own, or just a little bit stronger. No, ladies, it is a MUCH stronger instinct for males than it is for females, and that's just a matter of the endocrine differences between males and females. Testosterone is the hormone that controls sex drive in men and women, and women only produce a small amount of it in our adrenal glands and ovaries. It's not a stereotype, it's a well-documented biological principle.

The science, it burns!!!!

Seriously though, 5 star post right here.

[Plinkett]

I've been said to look alot like Tobey Maguire, who think he's attractive?

Modifié par Plinkett, 13 avril 2012 - 12:54 .

[Megaton_Hope]

'Bout testosterone, the normal adult male level is still only about three times the normal adult female level. It's not a jump from 1 nanogram per deciliter to 1000 nanograms per deciliter or some crap like that. Its role in promoting muscle development would rule that right out.

[TEWR]

Siansonea II wrote...

DuckSoup wrote...

This thread is still going?

I thought people would have got bored of all the stroking by now.

People never get tired of being told how pretty they are. And they think if they characterize themselves as "okay looking" we'll be fooled into thinking that they're humble, or unaware of their own appeal. We're not fooled, we know when people just want to be told that they're pretty. Some people are only too happy to oblige such obvious fishing, so whatever. Both parties get what they want, I s'pose. 

I think it's wrong to assume that everyone that says they're average on here is lying and just hoping to be told again and again they're gorgeous. That might apply to some people sure, but I don't think it should be cast on everyone that posted a picture of themselves here.

To me, it doesn't matter how many people tell me I'm attractive. I'll always see myself as being okay looking. Will I be happy to hear I'm attractive to other people? Sure. I'd be lying if I said that wouldn't make me happy. But that's not going to change my opinion of myself.

Not saying I lack confidence. I'm confident. I just don't consider my physical appearance as having any real effect on who I am and as such I don't really care about seeing myself as attractive. I'm average in my mind and I'm comfortable with that perception.

happy_daiz said something that actually pertains very well to this thread. Posting pics isn't entirely about receiving validation on what we look like. It's also nice to let the other posters know the real person behind the account, since we may have gone "I bet so-and-so looks like....".

Or hell, just to post funny and absurd pictures of ourselves.

I don't need to be told I'm attractive. I didn't post an image of myself to get my ego stroked. I posted an image of myself that allows people to better see who I am as a person, rather then just what I look like -- since the original ones I posted were just boring pictures.

I said it before many pages ago. What I think I lack in looks I like to think I make up for with my personality.

[Rhaigun]

I've been said to look alot like Tobey Maguire, who think he's attractive?

Strange. Same here. In fact a little girl at Walmart asked if I was Spiderman. Perhaps we're lost brothers.

On another note, I'm married, so apparently I'm attractive to someone. (admired by thousands)

Modifié par Rhaigun, 13 avril 2012 - 02:34 .

[ThePinkFoxx]

The Ethereal Writer Redux wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...

DuckSoup wrote...

This thread is still going?

I thought people would have got bored of all the stroking by now.

People never get tired of being told how pretty they are. And they think if they characterize themselves as "okay looking" we'll be fooled into thinking that they're humble, or unaware of their own appeal. We're not fooled, we know when people just want to be told that they're pretty. Some people are only too happy to oblige such obvious fishing, so whatever. Both parties get what they want, I s'pose. 

I think it's wrong to assume that everyone that says they're average on here is lying and just hoping to be told again and again they're gorgeous. That might apply to some people sure, but I don't think it should be cast on everyone that posted a picture of themselves here.

To me, it doesn't matter how many people tell me I'm attractive. I'll always see myself as being okay looking. Will I be happy to hear I'm attractive to other people? Sure. I'd be lying if I said that wouldn't make me happy. But that's not going to change my opinion of myself.

Not saying I lack confidence. I'm confident. I just don't consider my physical appearance as having any real effect on who I am and as such I don't really care about seeing myself as attractive. I'm average in my mind and I'm comfortable with that perception.

happy_daiz said something that actually pertains very well to this thread. Posting pics isn't entirely about receiving validation on what we look like. It's also nice to let the other posters know the real person behind the account, since we may have gone "I bet so-and-so looks like....".

Or hell, just to post funny and absurd pictures of ourselves.

I don't need to be told I'm attractive. I didn't post an image of myself to get my ego stroked. I posted an image of myself that allows people to better see who I am as a person, rather then just what I look like -- since the original ones I posted were just boring pictures.

I said it before many pages ago. What I think I lack in looks I like to think I make up for with my personality.

^this