Ended as a lvl21 ranger...played through the Landsmeet/last battle 5 times now and finally got an ending I was satisfied with
-Loghain executed by me
-Alistair married Anora and they ruled together
-Leliana went after the Urn of Sacred Ashes
-Shale went to Orzammar to fight the darkspawn
-Wynne stayed in Denerim and became part of the Royal Court
-Morrigan disappeared with Alistair's god-child
-Oghren decided to stay on the surface
-Sten went back to his homeland
-I ended up deciding to travel for a time, and Zevran, my romantic interest, came with me.
-The Alienage got a new bann
-My cousin, Soris, ended up getting married to a human girl and they moved to Highever, where they were married and had kids
-Bhelen became king of Orzammar
-Lanaya became the Dalish Elves' new keeper
-Arl Eamon stayed in Denerim to help Alistair, and so Bann Teagan became the new Arl of Redcliffe
-Circle of Magi was rebuilt