Nimrodell wrote...
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I'll be honest - I don't have an easy answer for you. I'm familiar with your country and the conflicts it's been through... and it's really one of the most complicated conflicts in recent times.
My own country for instance has suffered through colonialism and imperialism, albeit I never experienced it on such a level to make it personal. I can only understand what you went through on a very superficial level.
As a rule however, I've made it a point to always just people by who they are, rather than what country they belonged to. There is always some degree of cupability (i.e. Americans elected the president who bombed your country), but by and large most people are so far away from these actions that it is neither healthy nor productive to judge them by the actions of their government.
Similarly, it's difficult to judge a soldier's culpability in a war. If they violated orders and bombed civilians gleefully, then they should be charged as war criminals - which is why we have an International Criminal Court. If they simply followed orders, then the Nuremberg standard is to charge those above them as well.
But reality is not so simple, or clear-cut. And people DO get away for doing bad things oftentimes. Evil prevails more often than not. It's no longer simply about seperating apples from oranges. It's trying to figure out the merits and faults of each individual apple in an enormous barrel.
So all I can say is that in the real world - unlike in video games, where villain can be easily made into one-dimensional machines following one-liner maxims like "We are your salvation through destruction" - one should really make an effort to find out the truth from all parties, because the truth is far more complicated in real life.
One thing that I try to stress, for instance, is that while people should all acknowledge that "killing is wrong", there are various degrees of it. Killing in self-defense is different from killing for sport or pleasure. Genocide is a completely different level of evil from simple murder.
On a personal level, I truly believe that there is an emerging universal set of core values that civilized humanity subscribes to - which involves peace and goodwill to all, and placing a premium on forgiveness over hatred, and the rejection of the use of violence except as a last resort.
From an objective level, I know that some people will disagree. For instance in any conflict there will be some nationalists demanding blood on one side, and other nationalist on the other side demanding the same. So all I can really do is to put forward what
I believe in, and hope that we can someday more forward in that direction.
Anyway, I think I'm rambling now and I'm not entirely sure if I answered your question directly. But I hope that you'll forgive me because real life truly is much more complicated than the realities of a story or a videogame, and therefore it deserves a far more considered and respectful answer than simple apples and oranges.
It is one thing to talk about the flawed factual logic of fictional crab monsters from outerspace. It is entirely another to talk about the complexities of a real world conflict such as the one your experienced, and of the real people who went through it.
Modifié par Zine2, 16 avril 2012 - 09:06 .