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Tazzmission wrote...

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DEATH GLARES FTW! :D


other thing i do is i get real creative verbally and frankly i prefer to go that route instead of a pysichal altercation




It depends for me. I usually give them the death glare, then I warn them, then I usually grab them and threaten them. And if they do anything else I just punch in the face.

And if it's another female I don't deal with "talking smack" I just throw a punch and they won't get back up. No hair pulling bulls**t. :bandit:

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"Cruel hobbits hurts us :("

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Garrus calibrations wrote...

Tazzmission wrote...

Garrus calibrations wrote...


DEATH GLARES FTW! :D


other thing i do is i get real creative verbally and frankly i prefer to go that route instead of a pysichal altercation




It depends for me. I usually give them the death glare, then I warn them, then I usually grab them and threaten them. And if they do anything else I just punch in the face.

And if it's another female I don't deal with "talking smack" I just throw a punch and they won't get back up. No hair pulling bulls**t. :bandit:



ill always remember back in highschool i would just keep to myself until one day another student in my class stabbed me with his pencil.

so what i did was i got up and pretended to turn my school work in and bam just bombed on him

funny thing is the school called his dad asking if he wants to file charges and he stated no because his kid probably deserved it

after that people got the idea to not step on the scrawny mans toes and think of him as a sucker


another story is literally when 911 happened this one kid of arab decent started saying usa sux w/e myself and basicly 50 other people jumped him stuffed him into a locker and left

god i miss those days cause at least back then i can get away with it

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Tazzmission wrote...

Garrus calibrations wrote...

Tazzmission wrote...

Garrus calibrations wrote...


DEATH GLARES FTW! :D


other thing i do is i get real creative verbally and frankly i prefer to go that route instead of a pysichal altercation




It depends for me really.



ill always remember back in highschool i would just keep to myself until one day another student in my class stabbed me with his pencil.

so what i did was i got up and pretended to turn my school work in and bam just bombed on him

funny thing is the school called his dad asking if he wants to file charges and he stated no because his kid probably deserved it

after that people got the idea to not step on the scrawny mans toes and think of him as a sucker


another story is literally when 911 happened this one kid of arab decent started saying usa sux w/e myself and basicly 50 other people jumped him stuffed him into a locker and left

god i miss those days cause at least back then i can get away with it


:lol: that's funny.

I rarely get that upset about something. It takes A LOT to offend me, but when I do get offended prepare for destruction. :ph34r::ph34r::ph34r:

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Sajji wrote...

"Cruel hobbits hurts us :("


Lulz

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I don't care what other people think of Me. If someone was going around and talking **** about Me I'd be annoyed and maybe even pissed, but about it.

I love the contradiction here.:lol:

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Mostly a "Your mother" response. Yeah, I'm that mature.

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"Im sorry i have trouble hearing you, im getting a lot of bull**** on this line"

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I'd just laugh and say something along the lines of the joke being on them.

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Depends. If it was on accident, then I'll talk to them and explain how what they said or did was hurtful, and ask them to keep that in mind in the future.

If it was very serious and on purpose, I won't say anything to them. Ever. They aren't worth my time, and I refuse to give it to them.

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I hug my teddy bear and cry myself to sleep.

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bmwcrazy wrote...

I hug my teddy bear and cry myself to sleep.

Get a dog.  They are like teddy bears that love you back!:happy:

People in high school picked on me quite a bit.  I was the shy emotional quiet kid, so I was vulnerable.  One girl sexually harrased me every time she saw me.  Then someone made a joke about how they shouldn't pick on me  because i could turn out to be one of those school shooters.  They laughed.  Then I started laughing.  They got a little nervous....

If they'd ever bothered to get to know me they'd know I was a fricken pacifist who's been told I'm to nice for my own good.  But it was fun to see them sweat like that for a minute.

Another time, this couple kept making out at my friend's locker, so that he couldn't get to his books before class.  So we, a bunch of dudes, started telling the girl that her boyfriend was hot.:devil:

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Blastback wrote...

bmwcrazy wrote...

I hug my teddy bear and cry myself to sleep.

Get a dog.  They are like teddy bears that love you back!:happy:

People in high school picked on me quite a bit.  I was the shy emotional quiet kid, so I was vulnerable.  One girl sexually harrased me every time she saw me.  Then someone made a joke about how they shouldn't pick on me  because i could turn out to be one of those school shooters.  They laughed.  Then I started laughing.  They got a little nervous....

If they'd ever bothered to get to know me they'd know I was a fricken pacifist who's been told I'm to nice for my own good.  But it was fun to see them sweat like that for a minute.

Another time, this couple kept making out at my friend's locker, so that he couldn't get to his books before class.  So we, a bunch of dudes, started telling the girl that her boyfriend was hot.:devil:


Lol nice story, except for the part where you were picked on. Fortunately that never happened to me but I had friends who were. It sucks. 

-Polite

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"YOU WANNA GO?"

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That sad look on his face....:lol:

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Despite their talk, a certain someone it turns out didn't care about the feelings of those closest to her, those she professed to "love."

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You sorry you damaged the limbic system, you deserve to be torn asunder.

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Johnnie Walker wrote...

Image IPB Created 7 months ago It's in their eyes and on their minds. 

You see it every single time, it's everywhere that you go. 

People running here and there and barely coming up for air.

Yeah, everyone that you know needs a way to get away.

Grab somebody you love. 

Unwrap a little bit of happiness. 

Just a little time is enough. 

To take a break from all of the craziness. 

Make today your day to get away.


That is all..


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JasonRocker wrote...

 Just curious.


I say "What of it?" and then walk off.

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Usually I shrug it off.

If it hurts deeply, I'll go into a deep depression it seems.

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This.

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It depends on the person. My husband, who would never intentionally hurt my feelings would get a logical/heartfelt, "Hey that bothered me." and then we'd discuss it. Same goes for my best friends.

Family members - forget it. I don't say anything to them. If I approach them even with a logical/heartfelt response, they gaslight me into thinking *I* have the problem. (Which is untrue. Gaslighting is a common method to emotionally manipulate people. Someone hurts you, then they say you're crazy/sensitive. That's gaslighting and it's emotional abuse.)

As for strangers - I either ignore them, or if they catch me on the wrong day I will admittedly tell them to jump up inside their own ass and die.