TookYoCookies wrote...
Kunari801 wrote...
What movies, books, TV series, have successful bitter-sweet endings to you?
- Mordin's death curing the genophage. That was a good heroic ending our Shepard's were denied.
- Babylon 5's last episode "Sleeping in Light"
- Return of the King (the movie) the book also ends well in bitter sweet sense.
I'll think of more
Saving Private Ryan. Best 'bittersweet' ending ive ever seen. You see the sacrifice, and see the reward firsthand, and the reason for the sacrifice was for the individual character, not the war effort as a whole. The film asks how would you feel risking your life for one man, in the middle of a war - where hundreds/ thousands of men deserve to go home. As you get to know Ryan, and see the reaction of Hank's characters' squad toward him, you get the feeling that 'Yea, this is worth risking my life for.'.
The connection is made to one individual character; ME3 i think tried to make shepered have some sort of connection to the war as a whole, rather than emphasize the personal connections we already had with characters in the story. We had our versions of "private Ryan" if you will, but we didnt get the chance to save them. 
The reason why stuff like Saving private ryan have good bittersweet ending is you know that the main person you have been rooting for did not die in vain, nor did anything they do fall short of worthwhile. Its more then just closure in terms of a literary sense, its what every person on this planet wants to know before they die. No one wants to know they are marching off to their deaths, watching their friends get slaughtered and having to endure hell and back just to have all of that mean nothing. The deaths of every one of your squad mates in ME3 is followed up with a sense of closure, or at least a reason why they did that
Mordin - if you let him go up top, he dies knowing he redid the mistake of causing uncountable suffering on a speices. He's smiling knowning he got the job done as the lab blows up
Thane - dies knowing he prevented an assassination of a galactic leader. Dies a hero and a warrior
Legion- dies giving his people freedom of thought and uplifting them to the level of organic life. If you save both the quarians and the geth, hes pretty much Geth jesus.
And even take the crew that done die "nobel" deaths. Wrex falls on his swords *via shepard*and ali jumps to her death knowing she allowed the destruction of her people. They died because they where a part of something that doom'd their race. As some one stated, every one who dies other then shepard died for a pretty good reason. In stead of going out in a blaze of glory, shepard goes out like a chump....