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Why is Shepard so cold to Tali?


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SergeantSnookie wrote...
Him dieing wasn't the problem for most (well, me at least.), it was the fact that his death scene was exactly the same for someone who romanced him and someone who didn't. It doesn't even give you Paramour. It's as if BioWare forgot about his character.


Now that's a real problem with development, and different from my observations. My 'complaint' is that Shepard just says "thanks" and "i know" as responses to something very sentimental from Tali, whereas with other LIs in the same dialogue situation, he says something much more meaningful. 

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Dont Kaidan Me wrote...

Deuterium_Dawn wrote...

SergeantSnookie wrote...

Look at Thane's romance and tell me Tali's was underdeveloped.


Look at Jacob's and complain about Thane's. They all need work, some more than others. That doesn't no one else can complain because you think your favorite was worse.

Fact. Not speculation. The Seargent is not saying it's worse, but pointing out that lack of connect and story is apparent in more characters than just Tali. So that goes for Jacob, too, yes. It goes for all the characters and how Shepard relates to them regardless of how you shaped your Shepard.

I feel the need to butt in and tell you I love your name. "Don't Kaidan me!" was his best line ever. 

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Miphious wrote...
Oh so you're just whining. Got it. Well have at. 


Sigh...

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SergeantSnookie wrote...

lordofdogtown19 wrote...

Dont Kaidan Me wrote...

Dude.
I have another post floating around addressing this issue. ME3 Shepard is a psychopath. No empathy, no remorse. It's not just Tali. It's all characters in the ME franchise. And it makes for a lovely disconnect and inability to relate to your Shepard at all. You don't even have the choice to respond differently.

SergeantSnookie wrote...

Look at Thane's romance and tell me Tali's was underdeveloped.

+1000 points of war assets for you. Here here.


Ok come on. We all knew Thane was gonna die. He straight up tells you when you first meet him. Don't get me wrong Thane is one of my favorite characters, but it was pretty obvious he was gonna die


Him dieing wasn't the problem for most (well, me at least.), it was the fact that his death scene was exactly the same for someone who romanced him and someone who didn't. It doesn't even give you Paramour. It's as if BioWare forgot about his character.


Wait so he'll call a FemShep Siha even if she didn't romance him? Ok thats lame.

Although one thing that was cool was that Thane actually send the death email from LotSB. At least thats what I've read

Modifié par lordofdogtown19, 06 mai 2012 - 05:57 .


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Dont Kaidan Me wrote...

Deuterium_Dawn wrote...

SergeantSnookie wrote...

Look at Thane's romance and tell me Tali's was underdeveloped.


Look at Jacob's and complain about Thane's. They all need work, some more than others. That doesn't no one else can complain because you think your favorite was worse.

Fact. Not speculation. The Seargent is not saying it's worse, but pointing out that lack of connect and story is apparent in more characters than just Tali. So that goes for Jacob, too, yes. It goes for all the characters and how Shepard relates to them regardless of how you shaped your Shepard.


That is pretty much exactly what he is saying. Not "Yeah, Thane's was pretty bad too, here's why" "Look at Thane's and then complain" implies that the OP should just deal because Tali didn't get shafted quite as badly.

Miphious wrote...

Deuterium_Dawn wrote...

SergeantSnookie wrote...

Look at Thane's romance and tell me Tali's was underdeveloped.


Look
at Jacob's and complain about Thane's. They all need work, some more
than others. That doesn't no one else can complain because you think
your favorite was worse.


The problem is the one
being complained about right now isn't actually underdeveloped. It just
didn't serve every single point that the OP wanted. And you can't please
EVERYONE with every romance. So you have to give a little and headcanon
your own "I love you" and your own sex scene if those are your only
beefs. 

Hell, Jack romancers didn't get any love scene at all.
Garrus romancers were forced to profess love (I didn't like that; I
liked him and wanted to stay in the relationship but I didn't want to
confess love to him, don't see me whining it was too fast, do you?).
Miranda romancers didn't get an I love you from her unless she was
dying. 

There are way bigger complaints with romances than the
little bitty problems with Talis. They all had minute problems. You just
get over it unless there was a huge problem (Jack, Thane and Jacob;
those people have a right to complain). 


Just because the issue in question isn't your pet peeve doesn't mean people don't have a right to complain.

Modifié par Deuterium_Dawn, 06 mai 2012 - 06:00 .


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Faded-Myth wrote...

Tali: "Shepard. I give to you land from my planet to start a family, my support throughout the hardships you will face, and my undying love."
Shepard: "I give you..."
(Shepard looks around, picks up a rock.)
Shepard: "...this rock. Which I found on the land you gave me."
Tali: "But...it's not even a rock."
Shepard: "It's made of air. It's an air rock. It's rare."


Invisible rocks have many uses.

You can hit invisible people with them.

Once, this invisible burglar broke into my invisible house to steal my invisible valuables, so I hit him with my invisible rock.

I laughed.

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lordofdogtown19 wrote...

SergeantSnookie wrote...

lordofdogtown19 wrote...

Dont Kaidan Me wrote...

Dude.
I have another post floating around addressing this issue. ME3 Shepard is a psychopath. No empathy, no remorse. It's not just Tali. It's all characters in the ME franchise. And it makes for a lovely disconnect and inability to relate to your Shepard at all. You don't even have the choice to respond differently.

SergeantSnookie wrote...

Look at Thane's romance and tell me Tali's was underdeveloped.

+1000 points of war assets for you. Here here.


Ok come on. We all knew Thane was gonna die. He straight up tells you when you first meet him. Don't get me wrong Thane is one of my favorite characters, but it was pretty obvious he was gonna die


Him dieing wasn't the problem for most (well, me at least.), it was the fact that his death scene was exactly the same for someone who romanced him and someone who didn't. It doesn't even give you Paramour. It's as if BioWare forgot about his character.


Wait so he'll call a FemShep Siha even if she didn't romance him? Ok thats lame.

Although one thing that was cool was that Thane actually send the death email from LotSB. At least thats what I;ve read


Yeah, he says Siha. That's the only difference. There's a hug with a pornstar groan from Shepard earlier on, then Thane dies. That's it. 

You might have no 'I love you' responses from Shepard, but at least you got a romance. 

(God I'm lucky I'm a Liaramancer first Thanemancer second, or I'd be a depressed wreck.)

Modifié par SergeantSnookie, 06 mai 2012 - 06:02 .


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Faded-Myth wrote...

Tali: "Shepard. I give to you land from my planet to start a family, my support throughout the hardships you will face, and my undying love."
Shepard: "I give you..."
(Shepard looks around, picks up a rock.)
Shepard: "...this rock. Which I found on the land you gave me."
Tali: "But...it's not even a rock."
Shepard: "It's made of air. It's an air rock. It's rare."


This is completely unrelated, but i'm currently listening to Doomsday - Nero on youtube, and it makes your avatar so much more win.

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Sometimes I think the Talimance is wasted on people who don't even seem to understand all of it. No offence intended.

Edit: This guy below me gets it.

Modifié par Mr. Big Pimpin, 06 mai 2012 - 06:15 .


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I only ever thought the final "Thanks" bit was underwhelming (flat delivery too) for the romance night, everything else was great.

And he does say "I love you" to her when they are on earth when she asks him about remembering their exchange on Rannoch. They are basically switching roles as they repeat it.

Also, I always thought there was much more significance and meaning when Shepard said Keelah Se'lai back to Tali instead of "I love you too" because he just learned what it means and it means so much more coming from a non quarian and as an indirect way of hoping to come back to build her that home. (and live there)

There are a lot more indirect connections going on here versus some of the other romances.

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amxstyle wrote...

I only ever thought the final "Thanks" bit was underwhelming (flat delivery too) for the romance night, everything else was great.

...what you didn't like dial-a-squadmate? That sh** was deep. Fitting conclusion, methinks.

Modifié par Dont Kaidan Me, 06 mai 2012 - 06:17 .


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2. In the Geth ship, Tali pulls him up from the falling elevator and he just says "I'm alright". Not even a "thanks"? I'm sure this is the same for any other character, but it was just wierd.

You think that's bad, my FemShep's big, strong turian didn't even try to grab her. He left it to the petite Tali to hold the weight of a muscular, cybernetically-enhanced Shepard and didn't even say anything afterwards. Thanks a lot, Vakarian!

4. The post-romance pep-chat is really cold. In other romance scenes, Shepard tells the LI that the LI being there means everything, or that he'd not want to be anywhere else or something similarly touching. Shepard will say he loves the LI and kiss. But with Tali, he says he's not sure if there will be anything left, and when she says she reaches for him in times of trouble, he just says "Thanks" and walks away. WTH? Who is this guy?

Okay, that's cold.

Modifié par Aris Ravenstar, 06 mai 2012 - 06:19 .


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amxstyle wrote...

I only ever thought the final "Thanks" bit was underwhelming (flat delivery too) for the romance night, everything else was great.

And he does say "I love you" to her when they are on earth when she asks him about remembering their exchange on Rannoch. They are basically switching roles as they repeat it.

Also, I always thought there was much more significance and meaning when Shepard said Keelah Se'lai back to Tali instead of "I love you too" because he just learned what it means and it means so much more coming from a non quarian and as an indirect way of hoping to come back to build her that home. (and live there)

There are a lot more indirect connections going on here versus some of the other romances.


Quarians say Keelah Se'lai all the time for all kinds of reasons. Tali said it when toasting Miranda, who she doesn't like. I understand the sentiment behind it, given that he just recently learned what it meant, but it's part of the pattern, in my opinion. 

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Tali: "when I think of that, I reach for you"
Shepard: "Thanks" (leaves)

Tali: "I want more time"
Shepard: "I know"

Like I said, just comes across as cold to me. 

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Yeah, it was a bit underwhelming, and I had hoped to see Tali's actual face, since she was my LI from 2.

Most of the romances were just underdone, and it seemed like Liara's got the most attention (imported from 1).

I hated the dial-a-squad-mate, that was just cheap as hell. It just seems that a lot of the stuff, including the romances suffer from under development and recycling.

ME3 needs 6 DLCs just to make it a complete game.

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The joys of auto dialogue.

I just would have liked the choice to say "I love you" instead of "keelah se'lai" or "thanks." Not because it was cold but its not how my Shepard would respond.

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antares_sublight wrote...
Tali: "when I think of that, I reach for you"
Shepard: "Thanks" (leaves)

Tali: "I want more time"
Shepard: "I know"

Like I said, just comes across as cold to me. 

Wow! Uh....that's more like subzero narcisstic bastard! It reads like "whatever" "whatever"

..."I should go"

Wait. After pondering this for a minute. Not just cold. TOTALLY inappropriate. When would you EVER find yourself in a situation with a love interest, they pour their heart out to you and you say... thanks?

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Cold?

Dude gives her her homeworld back.

Liara loses hers. Ashley loses hers. Kaidan loses his. Garrus loses his. Jack loses hers. Miranda loses hers. Jacob loses his and dumps yours ass.  Thane's was lost ages ago, and he dies.

The Shepard-Tali romance is one of unspoken things since ME1. You remember, right? Where she's a girl out to become a woman, who learns something unfortunate which should kill her. And you save her?

Shepard doesn't need to say "I love you". Men lie. Actions don't. He gives her a planet.

A planet.

An entire planet.

If in Tali's opinion, three words were more important then a planet - then Tali would've been wrong. But she's not. She doesn't need Shepard to say one word - what we do shows who we are, and what we feel. And what he feels - well, three words don't contain it.

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Dont Kaidan Me wrote...

antares_sublight wrote...
Tali: "when I think of that, I reach for you"
Shepard: "Thanks" (leaves)

Tali: "I want more time"
Shepard: "I know"

Like I said, just comes across as cold to me. 

Wow! Uh....that's more like subzero narcisstic bastard! It reads like "whatever" "whatever"

..."I should go"


Wrex.

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antares_sublight wrote...

The relationship and dialogue with Tali in ME2 was really well done and enjoyable. In ME3, it's weak. It's already been posted that most of the relationships and romances are weakly done, at least in contrast to Liara and Ashley. But Shepard's interaction with Tali just seems especially cold to me. 

If romancing Tali:
1. Shepard never says he loves her. She says it multiple times to him, but Shepard never does. In other romances, Shepard says it to the LI, but with Tali it's like he's uncomfortably avoiding it.
2. In the Geth ship, Tali pulls him up from the falling elevator and he just says "I'm alright". Not even a "thanks"? I'm sure this is the same for any other character, but it was just wierd.
3. On Rannoch, she's talking about how great it's going to be to have a home, and when Shepard asks if the quarians will get used to living in one place and Tali responds about how they've been used to carrying their homes around with them, Shepard silently hands her a rock. Good job, Shep. Smooth. (Edit: I agree this one is on the edge, the sentiment behind it is certainly nice. It just seemed to fit the pattern)
2. Post-Rannoch, Shepard can't even bring himself to ask her to stay on the Normandy. "Because I respect you, dammit" is a horrible line, IMO. That's what people say when they just "want to be friends".
3. The romance scene is basically just a lazy fade-to-black. There's nothing there at all. This is not specific to Tali, though. However,
4. The post-romance pep-chat is really cold. In other romance scenes, Shepard tells the LI that the LI being there means everything, or that he'd not want to be anywhere else or something similarly touching. Shepard will say he loves the LI and kiss. But with Tali, he says he's not sure if there will be anything left, and when she says she reaches for him in times of trouble, he just says "Thanks" and walks away. WTH? Who is this guy?
5. In the final good-bye, the only redeeming part is Tali woefully saying she wants more time. But Shepard can't say anything of any value or sentiment even at this point. Just "I know". Seriously? What a cold ass.

Tali: I love you!
Shepard: Thanks, I'm alright.

Edit: To be clear, #s 4, and 5 are the ones I dislike the most. And of course, there are others that are incomparably underdeveloped. I'm in no way meaning to diminish any complaint about any other relationship with my observations. 


Well, no, it's not perfect. But I'm fine with most of it, and I was happy it was different.

1.) That seems to be something to do with perception. To me, "Keelah Se'lai" seemed more unique and meaningful than the nauseatingly overused "i love you" in everything in any form of media ever. Luckily, "By the homeworld I hope to see again" could be interpreted as their future home. Again, it's something unique to symbolize the bond between the two characters.

2.) Really now?

3.) I thought it was a nice gesture, except when the rock vaporized into nothing. 

2.[again?]) She already told him no before, that her people were too important for her to abandon them, and asking again could be taken as annoying begging from Shepard. Not the best line, but it makes some sense when you think about it.

3.[again?]) No argument there. 
 I wasn't expecting any crazy skin shows, but the fade to black was pretty abrupt. Compared to Liara and the VS, everyone got shafted. For the other ME2 romances besides Garrus, they withheld the lube.

4.) When compared to the other romances, yes, it seems rather lacking. Taken by itself however is another matter entirely, and I actually think it's more realistic and less "fairy tale romance". Shepard just woke up from a pretty ****ed up dream, and at this point in the game the weight of the whole world (galaxy) is on his shoulders. In short, he has quite a bit on his plate, and probably feeling pretty numb. I know of times when I've woken up from some of my ****ed up dreams, or gotten some really ****ty news I've reacted the same way to people I've cared about. Normally I'm pretty amiable, but things like this change your thought patterns. Is it the most romantic/nice thing to do? No, but it is what it is. I found it actually realistic from my perspective. 

5.) Think Han Solo. Again, you don't need to say the words "I love you" to express it.

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Cold?

Dude gives her her homeworld back.

Shepard doesn't need to say "I love you". Men lie. Actions don't. He gives her a planet.

A planet.

An entire planet.

It doesn't matter if Shepard's LI is Tali or not. She still gets a planet. Male or female Shep, LI or not. No matter. So. Free planet regardless of status.

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Keelah Se'lai probably doesn't carry much meaning in ME3 - assuming Shep ain't an idiot. "By the home world I hope to see one day." carries a lot of weight for ME3 Shep, under the circumstances.

It's far more interesting for Legion.

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Yeah, I kind of understand where people are coming from. Though it's not like the game didn't have indicators that Shepard is sort of in a close relationship with Tali. You don't necessarily have to say "I love you" to show that you do. Although it would be nice to get that option to say it.

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Dont Kaidan Me wrote...
It doesn't matter if Shepard's LI is Tali or not. She still gets a planet. Male or female Shep, LI or not. No matter. So. Free planet regardless of status.

 

That's like arguing that since the other you in an alternate universe got a new car for graduating highschool, but you didn't, something is wrong.

It's an alternate universe. Why should you care?

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Dont Kaidan Me wrote...

Phatose wrote...

Cold?

Dude gives her her homeworld back.

Shepard doesn't need to say "I love you". Men lie. Actions don't. He gives her a planet.

A planet.

An entire planet.

It doesn't matter if Shepard's LI is Tali or not. She still gets a planet. Male or female Shep, LI or not. No matter. So. Free planet regardless of status.


No.  She doesn't.

Would like like to me link videos?

If I didn't care about Tali....well, maybe she takes a rockets to the face on the collector base because Grunt could prove himself leading squad 2.  Maybe she shoots herself on Rannock because Shep wouldn't save her people from their own genocidal madness simply because Shep loved her.

There are some paths where Tali gets a homeworld even Shepard does not care - that isn't equivalent to all paths.  And even where he loved her and stilll tool that path - would he have done it if he didn't care?  It's an awful lot of trouble.  Some Shepards take the hard route - but not all.  Can she tell the difference?

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Tali has always said that interests of the quarian people (even the minor ones) are above anything else, including Shepard. That's where the problem comes. Other LIs are not so attached to their race's as Tali is. Garrus, Kaiden and Liara are ready to abandon their homeworlds and sacrifice a lot of things in the name of their love, while Tali is not. For her quarians will always be more important than Shepard. I see why Shepard is cold.