Just finished all the "clarified" endings, including "reject" ... and the clarification IS THERE. The ending still suck and their idea of clarification is to show us what happens in a boarder context with those endings. This is only reinforced by the cheesy, cheap, comic book graphic style stills carefully intermixed with the cinematic clips.
..I've lost all hope for this franchise.
On a 'less negative' note. I still believe the destroy option is the best. Best chance for Shepards survival, relays, citadel, indeed life is rebuilt and goes on. Oddly enough the citadel is completely rebuilt and no one noticed Shepard's mangled body in the rubble during the repairs.
Control just felt creepy and had this strange feeling that Shepard, was... not Shepard anymore, felt more like he was just a vessel for the catalyst.
Spacemagic -still a joke, and imposing that green tint in everyones eyes and the "computer like" graphics across the skin just makes it look how it seems, a joke. I don't take it seriously.
If I had to choose and be satisfied with what they have given us, I would have to say that DESTROY is the "canon" ending, and all others are "alternate" endings, much like that of the movie "Clue"
All in all, I am still not satisfied, half of what they gave us was cheap material probably thrown together at the very last minute by some people who definitely need to lose their jobs.
It IS better than what we got, but still not worthy of the franchise, the trilogy, or our respect and frankly I don't care if people say I am complaining, or whining because I didn't get what I wanted. What I wanted was some respect, and a quality ending worthy of the time and energy we have all put into the story. It is as much OUR story as it is theirs, and we deserve better.