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[android654]

chunkyman wrote...

 I strategically avoid these kind of problems by never talking to girls. 

How's that working out for you?

[chunkyman]

android654 wrote...

chunkyman wrote...

 I strategically avoid these kind of problems by never talking to girls. 

How's that working out for you?

Wonderfully, why do you ask?

[android654]

I'm genuinely inquisitive. It's in my nature.

[Chromie]

android654 wrote...

I'm genuinely inquisitive. It's in my nature.

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[Gotholhorakh]

billy the squid wrote...

I also have a problem, I lost a sock. Now I have an odd sock.

Yeah, loss of a partner can have deep psychological effects on a sock. I guess all you can do is be there for it, and let it get the unusual behaviour out of its system.

Modifié par Gotholhorakh, 17 mai 2012 - 08:09 .

[Homebound]

Gotholhorakh wrote...

billy the squid wrote...

I also have a problem, I lost a sock. Now I have an odd sock.

Yeah, loss of a partner can have deep psychological effects on a sock. I guess all you can do is be there for it, and let it get the unusual behaviour out of its system.

Its ok Billy, even though today one foot will be colder than the other, know that tomorrow is another day. A new sun will dawn and a new chance to find another pair will present itself.

[C9316]

Ok OP here's what you do. You go down to the local pharmacy, you ask for something called viagra, and it'll help you go f*ck yourself.

[Melra]

I haz gurl problemz too! The only ones I laik reside on the interwebz. Should I make some pie?

[billy the squid]

Melrache wrote...

I haz gurl problemz too! The only ones I laik reside on the interwebz. Should I make some pie?

Pie, everything is better with pie! You can't beat a nice pie. Apple pie is my favorite, with tea. Actually I'm going to go find some now.

I'll keep an eye out for my sock too. If anyone has seen a missing sock I'm going to put out posters of it, please contanct me. ASAP

[Melra]

I get it to Duckie, after I had stuffed it with some stuff..

[C9316]

Hey! Only I get to enjoy apple pie! >

[Dreadstruck]

Pathetic.

[android654]

DuckSoup wrote...

JasonRocker wrote...

Alright, so I met this girl that I really clicked with online, I talked to her for about a month. We talked on the Phone about everything. She told me what a jerk her ex husband was. I comforted her in moment of need. It wasn't all sexual. We just connected on a personality level which matters to me the most.

I make a brave bold move and ask her to move in joking about it when I first talked to her. Now her ex husband is kicking her out of her house and she's with a kid. She's having a mental breakdown because of that, her ex was paying her rent for place she was living.

So the problem is, I'm sorta a loner when it comes to moving in and secondly, I kinda sent her pictures of my pad, expect pictures were of someone else house. I have a place but alot smaller...so should I come clean and just talk to her or deny..and ignore her calls pretend i'm out of town?

Wow, OP.

I think the very first point to make here is that you aren't even remotely serious about this woman. Not only did you fabricate the truth in the first place (by sending pictures of a different "pad" - why would you even do that? Are you that insecure?) and then when she does end up having a serious issue, you freak out and consider "ignoring her calls" (what kind of rat are you?) Whether "joking" or otherwise, you suggested she move in and now she may legitimately have to, you don't want that. Lesson learnt perhaps?

Here's a tip; if you have no genuine interest in getting involved with someone with a kid, DON'T. You should have walked away the moment you found out about it. Clearly you aren't mature enough to deal with a woman with baggage (i.e. Ex-husband and a child).

If you were any kind of man at all (I'm assuming you're a man- though I feel I'm being too generous) then you'd come clean and tell her the absolute truth. Tell her that you don't want her to move in. Tell her that you don't think you want it to turn into anything beyond a bit of internet/cyber chat. It'll hurt like hell because she's probably put her trust in you now, but at least she'll have it in plain English and she'll be able to make the decision whether to bother with you again. She won't be left wondering where the hell you vanished to. You're in the wrong here not her and you should let her call the shots.

Grow up, accept that you must take a large chunk (if not all) of the responsibility and be honest.

Oh, and don't do it again.

DAMN!

[The Jackal]

You assume much. Let's remove the whole "Sending her pictures of another person's pad" it's been a single month since I started talking to her combined. I am to let a woman, I knew for an entire month just move in after I been a loner here for several years.

Maybe I did actually have legit plans to have her move in but because of her tragic situation. She may have to move in sooner because her soon to be ex-husband has slowly stopping supporting her finically. I'm not that cold to just ignore her calls but perhaps find a reasonable excuse or a way to buy more time.

I have a "thing" about being overly direct with someone because I am filled with tons of compassion so I don't enjoy saying thing's directly at risk of hurting their feelings. How was I supposed she know she had a month or less left at that house.

Either I have her move in or she goes out of state. It has nothing to do with her having a kid. I don't want her moving out of state and I did perhaps intend to move her in just maybe not as "quickly" I known her a total of a month and a half.

This has happended in the past so no not lesson learned. In other cases, I just ended up telling the person the truth and they moved in. When someone moves in you have cover food for yourself as well as them. I lived with someone before living on a tight budget. It's subjective to measure the entire amount of a person's worth based on one action.

Modifié par JasonRocker, 17 mai 2012 - 01:31 .

[Volus Warlord]

Melrache wrote...

I haz gurl problemz too! The only ones I laik reside on the interwebz. Should I make some pie?

Lol.  Cmon, if you only like ones you met online, odds are you wouldn't like them if you met them IRL.

And I don't have pies, but I do have cookies:

http://pective.com/m/cookie

[fightright2]

I guess the lesson learned here is that if you don't pin your socks together or place them in a mesh laundry bag...one will be abducted and sacrificed unto the sock god via the portals that exist only within clothes dryers.

[Arcadian Legend]

billy the squid wrote...

Melrache wrote...

I haz gurl problemz too! The only ones I laik reside on the interwebz. Should I make some pie?

Pie, everything is better with pie! You can't beat a nice pie. Apple pie is my favorite, with tea. Actually I'm going to go find some now.

I'll keep an eye out for my sock too. If anyone has seen a missing sock I'm going to put out posters of it, please contanct me. ASAP

Apple pie?

*BROFIST*

[The Jackal]

DuckSoup wrote...

JasonRocker wrote...

You assume much.

Then do not tell only half a story

You want the full unedited entire story? Fine here it is.

I placed an AD on craigslist for whole "No Strings Attached" she messaged me and we got to talking. Turns out out of all the women I met, she seemed to be the most fun. She confided in me about how she felt depressed at her house because her husband never liked to do anything. I asked her why she was replying to my AD. She then responded that her marriage was pretty much over she just didn't get the divorce papers saying so.

I start to talk to her even more and learn that ..she allowed a semi open marriage. Because her husband wasn't performing his..manly dutys. She wanted permission to mess with a person. Her Husband in exchange did agree as long as he got permission to do with the same with a frienf of hers. It was supposed be a one time no strings attached.

But slowly ever since then that girl and her husband have gotten more closer. To the point they were seeing and talking to each other behind her back. Oddly enough on FaceBook she was still friends with this person. I was upset and raged at her friend in a message. She was boldy defending the guy(girl's husband) at which point I made a thread about if commiting adultury and in the army is legal.

I talked to let's call her his wife even more so. We spoke for hours everyday, one time we even spent the entire night talking and I mean till 5 am. In all those hours of topic. I did bring up moving in but that wasn't even to be considered at the time because her husband wasn't doing anything drastic.

However.

Now it seems her husband had asked her for a divorce. I assume so he could be with her friends of two years. He slowly started to cut money from her credit card. (Money she uses to feed herself and child) he even placed the other girl on his American Express and gave her a 200 credit limit. Now he's trying to take what he can out of their place slowly.

He very rarely see's his wife. When they do see each other they don't even speak. The only reason supposedlly she was married to him in first place because they both were in the army and it would got them more money. Now on to the final thought.

Final Thought

Yes. I did send her pictures of my pad and it wasn't my pad but I do know the person. I did plan to move her in at this point but she's been living here since 2008. I known her a total for a month. I've been living single for years. Now I'm to take her in which I would have done..had I gotten to know her even more so..

I may or may not plan to bring her in but she is by no means without friends. She is a very popular person. I called her just this week and she was hanging out with two of her friends while trying get me to come over.

So there you have it.

[C9316]

DuckSoup wrote...

Nathan: It’s my w@nk sock.

Kelly: Aw no! Use a tissue!

Nathan: Well that requires planning, man. Look, you just knocked one out, right? Poom-byo! You’re lying there, you’re feeling cheap and deflated. There’s a pool of rapidly cooling spunk on your stomach. You’re looking round for something to mop up with. Oh, hello. What’s this? It’s a sock. Job done. Thank you.

Kelly: Maybe that’s your power!

Nathan: I am very good at it.

[happy_daiz]

^^ You make my life seem so normal.

Edit: Umm, that was for the post above this one. 

Modifié par happy_daiz, 17 mai 2012 - 01:57 .

[billy the squid]

DuckSoup wrote...

Nathan: It’s my w@nk sock.

Kelly: Aw no! Use a tissue!

Nathan: Well that requires planning, man. Look, you just knocked one out, right? Poom-byo! You’re lying there, you’re feeling cheap and deflated. There’s a pool of rapidly cooling spunk on your stomach. You’re looking round for something to mop up with. Oh, hello. What’s this? It’s a sock. Job done. Thank you.

Kelly: Maybe that’s your power!

Nathan: I am very good at it.

 Yus! Thank you for using that one!