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#126
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DuckSoup wrote...

Nathan: It’s my w@nk sock.

Kelly: Aw no! Use a tissue!

Nathan: Well that requires planning, man. Look, you just knocked one out, right? Poom-byo! You’re lying there, you’re feeling cheap and deflated. There’s a pool of rapidly cooling spunk on your stomach. You’re looking round for something to mop up with. Oh, hello. What’s this? It’s a sock. Job done. Thank you.

Kelly: Maybe that’s your power!

Nathan: I am very good at it.


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JasonRocker wrote...

DuckSoup wrote...

JasonRocker wrote...

You assume much.


Then do not tell only half a story Image IPB


You want the full unedited entire story? Fine here it is.

I placed an AD on craigslist for whole "No Strings Attached" she messaged me and we got to talking. Turns out out of all the women I met, she seemed to be the most fun. She confided in me about how she felt depressed at her house because her husband never liked to do anything. I asked her why she was replying to my AD. She then responded that her marriage was pretty much over she just didn't get the divorce papers saying so.

I start to talk to her even more and learn that ..she allowed a semi open marriage. Because her husband wasn't performing his..manly dutys. She wanted permission to mess with a person. Her Husband in exchange did agree as long as he got permission to do with the same with a frienf of hers. It was supposed be a one time no strings attached.

But slowly ever since then that girl and her husband have gotten more closer. To the point they were seeing and talking to each other behind her back. Oddly enough on FaceBook she was still friends with this person. I was upset and raged at her friend in a message. She was boldy defending the guy(girl's husband) at which point I made a thread about if commiting adultury and in the army is legal.

I talked to let's call her his wife even more so. We spoke for hours everyday, one time we even spent the entire night talking and I mean till 5 am. In all those hours of topic. I did bring up moving in but that wasn't even to be considered at the time because her husband wasn't doing anything drastic.

However.

Now it seems her husband had asked her for a divorce. I assume so he could be with her friends of two years. He slowly started to cut money from her credit card. (Money she uses to feed herself and child) he even placed the other girl on his American Express and gave her a 200 credit limit. Now he's trying to take what he can out of their place slowly.

He very rarely see's his wife. When they do see each other they don't even speak. The only reason supposedlly she was married to him in first place because they both were in the army and it would got them more money. Now on to the final thought.

Final Thought

Yes. I did send her pictures of my pad and it wasn't my pad but I do know the person. I did plan to move her in at this point but she's been living here since 2008. I known her a total for a month. I've been living single for years. Now I'm to take her in which I would have done..had I gotten to know her even more so..

I may or may not plan to bring her in but she is by no means without friends. She is a very popular person. I called her just this week and she was hanging out with two of her friends while trying get me to come over.

So there you have it.


If I were you, I'd avoid her like the plague. Don't come within 200 feet of a divorced woman unless you are divorced yourself.

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This is either A: made up (OP is an admitted liar) or B: nobody's business but the OP, this woman and her husband. 'Girl problems'?! Gimme a break. Deal with this on your own, 'loner'.

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JasonRocker wrote...

DuckSoup wrote...

JasonRocker wrote...

You assume much.


Then do not tell only half a story Image IPB


You want the full unedited entire story? Fine here it is.

I placed an AD on craigslist for whole "No Strings Attached" she messaged me and we got to talking. Turns out out of all the women I met, she seemed to be the most fun. She confided in me about how she felt depressed at her house because her husband never liked to do anything. I asked her why she was replying to my AD. She then responded that her marriage was pretty much over she just didn't get the divorce papers saying so.

I start to talk to her even more and learn that ..she allowed a semi open marriage. Because her husband wasn't performing his..manly dutys. She wanted permission to mess with a person. Her Husband in exchange did agree as long as he got permission to do with the same with a frienf of hers. It was supposed be a one time no strings attached.

But slowly ever since then that girl and her husband have gotten more closer. To the point they were seeing and talking to each other behind her back. Oddly enough on FaceBook she was still friends with this person. I was upset and raged at her friend in a message. She was boldy defending the guy(girl's husband) at which point I made a thread about if commiting adultury and in the army is legal.

I talked to let's call her his wife even more so. We spoke for hours everyday, one time we even spent the entire night talking and I mean till 5 am. In all those hours of topic. I did bring up moving in but that wasn't even to be considered at the time because her husband wasn't doing anything drastic.

However.

Now it seems her husband had asked her for a divorce. I assume so he could be with her friends of two years. He slowly started to cut money from her credit card. (Money she uses to feed herself and child) he even placed the other girl on his American Express and gave her a 200 credit limit. Now he's trying to take what he can out of their place slowly.

He very rarely see's his wife. When they do see each other they don't even speak. The only reason supposedlly she was married to him in first place because they both were in the army and it would got them more money. Now on to the final thought.

Final Thought

Yes. I did send her pictures of my pad and it wasn't my pad but I do know the person. I did plan to move her in at this point but she's been living here since 2008. I known her a total for a month. I've been living single for years. Now I'm to take her in which I would have done..had I gotten to know her even more so..

I may or may not plan to bring her in but she is by no means without friends. She is a very popular person. I called her just this week and she was hanging out with two of her friends while trying get me to come over.

So there you have it.

you seem to be wearing rose-colored glasses. first thing, take em off and see how much youve screwed this up. Im getting the impression this is some romeo and juliet crap to you but its not. This is a mess.

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Fortlowe wrote...

This is either A: made up (OP is an admitted liar) or B: nobody's business but the OP, this woman and her husband. 'Girl problems'?! Gimme a break. Deal with this on your own, 'loner'.


Okay Bill O Riley from Fox News, where am I an admitted liar. Remember the defined meaning of admitted is actually admitting. Show me a link of this..

First for 5 pages you nearly blast me for the choices I make. Now that I entered everything in detail it's now "My business" my guess is, it isn't nearly as fun to throw stuff at someone when you figure out the entire story. Thanks for telling me, it's my business..while in the same breath blasting my choices.

You don't care about this, but you cared enough to respond to detail you don't care?

Modifié par JasonRocker, 17 mai 2012 - 02:11 .


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Are you serious? You sent her a picture of a home you don't own (or that was BS, too).

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^ Yeah I'm pretty sure that counts as lying.

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Fortlowe wrote...

Are you serious? You sent her a picture of a home you don't own (or that was BS, too).


Are you serious? I thought you were going to back track my forums posts or something and try point out something. Everyone LIES, and yes I do mean EVERYONE at some point. Even white lies is still a lie. I am a admitted liar to her because I sent her pictures of another persons house.

And you never lied, about your height, resume, you never inflated anything at all. I must forget you must be the person who never lies. I think you are confusing me with a compulsive liar. I lied to her directly, yes. But I haven't lied to the forum people. Why would I need to..you are over anazling the information or overly generaling it.

You must me the person who never lied about anything ever, if you ever lied about one thing. Then you are an admitted liar? I think that describes nearly every person in office right now.

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^ Yeah I'm pretty sure that counts as lying.


Lying is a vital relationship skill. You need to be good at lying to cover for all the times you lied. 

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JasonRocker wrote...

Fortlowe wrote...

Are you serious? You sent her a picture of a home you don't own (or that was BS, too).


Are you serious? I thought you were going to back track my forums posts or something and try point out something. Everyone LIES, and yes I do mean EVERYONE at some point. Even white lies is still a lie. I am a admitted liar to her because I sent her pictures of another persons house.

And you never lied, about your height, resume, you never inflated anything at all. I must forget you must be the person who never lies. I think you are confusing me with a compulsive liar. I lied to her directly, yes. But I haven't lied to the forum people. Why would I need to..you are over anazling the information or overly generaling it.

You must me the person who never lied about anything ever, if you ever lied about one thing. Then you are an admitted liar? I think that describes nearly every person in office right now.

irrelevant. this is all irrelevant to the problem at hand.
due to your actions, a single mother who was completely dependent on her husband's income will be homeless within a certain amount of time, carrying a child in tow with her. What do you intend to do about it?

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No, no you didn't lie, you just neglected certain truths. Only later giving more details. In the legal fraternity we call that a lie of omission, guess what, it's still a lie.

Modifié par billy the squid, 17 mai 2012 - 02:27 .


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That's like saying,.."How was your day"...and then if the person fails to remember a certain part of their day. "You lied, neglected certain truths" I think that's an extreme way of looking at it. In fact I believe the people who openly admit when they lie. That's called being honest. Is more honest then the person who never admits they lie...because they are a liar.

As time wears on. I'm not exactly sure what I will do. I could tell her to make plans with her friends meaning she would have to leave the state. She has friends who are offering her places and such but it's far outside the reach of this city or state.

Again, how was I supposed to know I'd have a little under a month? I thought in my head honestly I could at least push this back four months and then once I've gotten to know her, confide in her. However I won't lock my door and pretend I don't hear her calls.

I don't think it's fair though I'm pinned as this girl's only hope and she will be homeless because she has freinds she can go with if it came to that. She's been married to this man for several years and because I made a friendly advances. I am now debated to her after knowing her a month total.

I have until early/late June to figure it out. She want's to do it ASAP because she wants to have everything secured. I don't want to drag it out too late that give her husband time to try take stuff out of their house..TV...PS3 but I'm supposed want to do this right away?

In any case. I'll allow you to debate among yourself s while I consider my options because further replying only increases the flame bait this thread offers.

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Ah. I see. This really is a bunch of BS. I hadn't gone through the whole post until you mentioned it. You only reply to posters that challenge the validity of your claims or your judgement. Not once have you discussed any of the suggestions posters have made to solve your problem, accept to argue that you are not lying or that your judgement is sound. Quite the methodical and committed troll. Well done.

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Fortlowe wrote...

Ah. I see. This really is a bunch of BS. I hadn't gone through the whole post until you mentioned it. You only reply to posters that challenge the validity of your claims or your judgement. Not once have you discussed any of the suggestions posters have made to solve your problem, accept to argue that you are not lying or that your judgement is sound. Quite the methodical and committed troll. Well done.


Dur. But rather than challenge him, it is more entertaining to feign as if we believe him and offer crude and horrid suggestions.

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Fortlowe wrote...

Ah. I see. This really is a bunch of BS. I hadn't gone through the whole post until you mentioned it. You only reply to posters that challenge the validity of your claims or your judgement. Not once have you discussed any of the suggestions posters have made to solve your problem, accept to argue that you are not lying or that your judgement is sound. Quite the methodical and committed troll. Well done.


I said, I wouldn't reply but replying to this only to de-bunk these claims.

One poster hammered me hard about the issue. I hinted maybe I made the issues so I can see the poster's reaction or maybe they are true. I am obviously being very coy. I never said...it wasn't true.

Secondly, just because I don't go on here and debate with every little poster, does not mean I don't read the comments or claim. Obviously I knew some people's reaction would be to "Just tell her the truth and your scum" replying to a certain poster takes away from other people replying to the general topic.

Now their attention is focused on replying to the poster. It's called misdirection.

Now not discussing the suggestions, does not make me a liar or the claims false. Just because you believe it to be a lie. Does not make it one. If this is lie, then it's by far the most complex lie I have ever told and for what benfit? I could be playing TOR right now instead of debating about a fantasy girl(if she is a lie)

Let's review? not replying to certain poster's right away...does not make a person a troll ..that's pretty much what your saying in a Nutshell but wording it differently. So grasping at straws much? Okay if you believe it's a lie just stop replying simple as that.

While it's truth. I shouldn't have to convince you.

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That's like saying,.."How was your day"...and then if the person fails to remember a certain part of their day. "You lied, neglected certain truths" I think that's an extreme way of looking at it. In fact I believe the people who openly admit when they lie. That's called being honest. Is more honest then the person who never admits they lie...because they are a liar.

As time wears on. I'm not exactly sure what I will do. I could tell her to make plans with her friends meaning she would have to leave the state. She has friends who are offering her places and such but it's far outside the reach of this city or state.

Again, how was I supposed to know I'd have a little under a month? I thought in my head honestly I could at least push this back four months and then once I've gotten to know her, confide in her. However I won't lock my door and pretend I don't hear her calls.

I don't think it's fair though I'm pinned as this girl's only hope and she will be homeless because she has freinds she can go with if it came to that. She's been married to this man for several years and because I made a friendly advances. I am now debated to her after knowing her a month total.

I have until early/late June to figure it out. She want's to do it ASAP because she wants to have everything secured. I don't want to drag it out too late that give her husband time to try take stuff out of their house..TV...PS3 but I'm supposed want to do this right away?

In any case. I'll allow you to debate among yourself s while I consider my options because further replying only increases the flame bait this thread offers.


I'm going to be serious for a second here.

No it's not the same, you knowingly decieved. There's a difference. And really, if there is a grain of truth to any of this. I'd advise the woman in question to stay the hell away from you, you're a walking disaster and monument to narcissism. You were daft enough to get into this mess, so I've no sympathy for you.

If you want to actually have a relationship with someone act like a man and take some responsibility for your actions. I'd rather not be tarred with the same brush, because you act like a prat.

Modifié par billy the squid, 17 mai 2012 - 03:12 .


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billy the squid wrote...

I'm going to be serious for a second here.

No it's not the same, you knowingly decieved. There's a difference. And really, if there is a grain of truth to any of this. I'd advise the woman in question to stay the hell away from you, you're a walking disaster and monument to narcissism. You were daft enough to get into this mess, so I've no sympathy for you.

If you want to actually have a relationship with someone act like a man and take some responsibility for your actions. I'd rather not be tarred with the same brush, because you act like a prat.


Well said. Here here

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billy the squid wrote...

JasonRocker wrote...

That's like saying,.."How was your day"...and then if the person fails to remember a certain part of their day. "You lied, neglected certain truths" I think that's an extreme way of looking at it. In fact I believe the people who openly admit when they lie. That's called being honest. Is more honest then the person who never admits they lie...because they are a liar.

As time wears on. I'm not exactly sure what I will do. I could tell her to make plans with her friends meaning she would have to leave the state. She has friends who are offering her places and such but it's far outside the reach of this city or state.

Again, how was I supposed to know I'd have a little under a month? I thought in my head honestly I could at least push this back four months and then once I've gotten to know her, confide in her. However I won't lock my door and pretend I don't hear her calls.

I don't think it's fair though I'm pinned as this girl's only hope and she will be homeless because she has freinds she can go with if it came to that. She's been married to this man for several years and because I made a friendly advances. I am now debated to her after knowing her a month total.

I have until early/late June to figure it out. She want's to do it ASAP because she wants to have everything secured. I don't want to drag it out too late that give her husband time to try take stuff out of their house..TV...PS3 but I'm supposed want to do this right away?

In any case. I'll allow you to debate among yourself s while I consider my options because further replying only increases the flame bait this thread offers.


I'm going to be serious for a second here.

No it's not the same, you knowingly decieved. There's a difference. And really, if there is a grain of truth to any of this. I'd advise the woman in question to stay the hell away from you, you're a walking disaster and monument to narcissism. You were daft enough to get into this mess, so I've no sympathy for you.

If you want to actually have a relationship with someone act like a man and take some responsibility for your actions. I'd rather not be tarred with the same brush, because you act like a prat.


I disagree.

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Gosh, some of us are smart AND we have decent morals/principles! It restores my faith in humanity a little bit (OP excluded)

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OP if this is how you act when you get in trouble maybe you should just let this woman down gently and go back to being a loner. Make it easier for the both of you..

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Guys lets just leave this alone, he clearly wants some of us to say what he does is A-okay, and he wants a pat on the back and well wishes. And you know I tried to sarcastically attempt to spin that and give him what he wants.

Just couldn't. So he'll keep on saying we are wrong as this isn't about our opinions, this is basically like someone whos action resulted in bad crap, and they want a pat on the back and told its not there fault when it is.


You sir Can't face the truth, and well frankly this thread has costed me at least 30 minutes of my life. I won't get that back god knows I won't waste more of it. Everyone else can do what they want but, I got better things to do than scream at a wall all day.

You sir are a waste of time and a shinning ray of the sins of humanity.

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Gosh, some of us are smart AND we have decent morals/principles! It restores my faith in humanity a little bit (OP excluded)


This

Is exactly why I don't respond to my own thread's sometimes. It's the same boring generic repeated "Your scum, a walking conterdiction"

Blah, Blah. You really call that informed educated advice or senseless bashing. You know less then nothing about me rather then what I told you. But based on one situation you are able to know how I am morally and ehtically as a person. You can somehow sense what makes me ..."me"

Simply mind blowing. Actually, no it's not. It's just random empty insults. ..as for the being smart, you are saying smart people don't lie...poltics anyone?..just because your smart and have morals, doesn't mean you won't ever lie. Have you ever lied, if you say no then your a liar.

If you say yes. I will judge you harshly on that one situation and regardless. This is a product, a fine example of the reason I don't reply as quickly to these threads. It leaves you only to bicker among yourself's because it's easier to cast the person to heck.

If you are smart, and so morally right, and self righeous then why can't you get a point across without trying to tear the other person down. It must be comfortable to sit in your arm chair and judge someone on the internet you know nothing about. Well I didn't ask you for a moral meter...

I asked about a situation so regardless now I'm going end up doing what I want to. For now I'm going leave this thread as if and not be pulled back into "Be a man..arugment"...how about you "Be a man"..not throw empty words.

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DuckSoup wrote...

Gosh, some of us are smart AND we have decent morals/principles! It restores my faith in humanity a little bit (OP excluded)


.....? :blink:....:huh:...:?........:o

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If you don't like it that much OP why did you bother posting this topic?

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