Yoshiyuki Ly wrote...
Did you visit her in the hospital? Give her any gifts? Were you nice to her most of the time?
If your answers to all three questions are no, then I'm not surprised.
How exactly do they know how "nice" you were to the VS?
I'm inclined to believe you, but was it something in the ME1 import? Because it makes sense to me for Kaidan with my canon Shep, not sure why Ash didn't put the gun away for femshep though, don't remember being bad to her.
Also, didn't get this from Ash when Troll!Shep shot her, and I remember vividly being mean to her in ME1.