So I saw some people venting their frustrations about not getting feedback, then Sialater's response to it.
Sialater wrote...
Never write for other people. You will never and I mean NEVER EVER please them. Write for yourself and improve because YOU want to. Writers can't count on an audience.
You need an audience, try acting.
Sorry to come off harsh, but I keep hearing that from writers. Writing is not a way to get people to listen to you. It's shouting into the wilderness, gaining more coherence and experience in your yelling till you attract some VERY little attention. Writing, especially fan fiction writing is thankless. You wrote because you must. Not because you expect people to hear you and listen.

Listen to this lady, she knows of what she types.
Someone did a study a while back that said people could get addicted to affirmation. It's why Facebook is so popular. You post something, someone clicks 'like', you feel good. You are validated. FF.net is no different. Who doesn't like it when someone favorites your story? Or favorites you as an author? Or you see that magic email notification of [REVIEW ALERT] pop up. It's a buzz. It's a kick. But like Sia said, if that's the reason you're writing, this is the worst hobby for it.
No one is obliged to read what we write, just like we're not obliged to write in the first place. It's all volunteer, all the time, on both sides of the fence. It's nice when both sides come together, but it shouldn't be an expectation. Even people who "just want feedback" are being a little unrealistic. You're giving away something for free, and then getting annoyed you get nothing for it.
That's the risk of creating anything: people may not like it... or worse, not even acknowedge it. But it's nobody's fault. You have to realize that while it's nice when someone does validate your art, no one is obligated to do it. And if you're depending on that to give you the buzz of writing rather than the act of writing itself, you're setting yourself up loads of disappointment...
Modifié par ElectricZ, 03 juin 2012 - 07:22 .





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