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Why Bioware Should Ditch "All Bi" Companions/Romances and How They Can Improve LGBT Standing in Other Ways


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As long as he doesn't fall into being a villian because he's gay and that being one of his "evil" traits I wouldn't mind. And no depraved bisexuals please. I've seen enough of those to last a lifetime.


Of course not, he would just be evil(or at least opposed to the PC) and gay. Only a dumb@ss thinks that the two are not mutually exclusive.

As far as the depraved bisexual, Dethmold in TW2 was bad enough.:sick:

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Of course not, he would just be evil(or at least opposed to the PC) and gay. Only a dumb@ss thinks that the two are not mutually exclusive.

As far as the depraved bisexual, Dethmold in TW2 was bad enough.:sick:


Sadly Some Anvils Need To Be Dropped with some people. They would need for someone to flat out say the two are unrelated to realize that. Not talking about anyone in this thread but some people are that damn dumb.

And yeah I...I had enough of them in the manga and VNs I read. No more. Please no more. :crying:

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Good. Even though I think your concern homogenizes LIs.:police:

BTW, what does everyone think about a homosexual villain?


Will never understand how Merrill, Isabela, Fenris, and Anders all standing together could ever be seen as "homogenous".  If all you see is sexual preference when looking at those characters, you're missing out.

Why do villains need to express a sexual preference?  Jon Irenicus had a lost love, Flemeth seduced men...it's nice to get this backstory, but that's just a part of their history, not a definitive declaration of their sexual orientation.  For all we know, Irenicus had plenty of boyfriends before settling down with a woman, and Flemeth has a "one that got away" story that involves a woman.  We don't know anything but what we're told, and that's okay.  

Would Meredith have been a better character if we got some sad backstory about a past female lover?  Or what if we had known that Orsino and Quentin had a relationship?  I think the impact of either revelation would depend completely on the writing, just as any heterosexual relationship a villain could have.

How exactly do you imagine a homosexual villain would behave differently from a heterosexual villain?

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LolaLei wrote...
He has a theme tune that plays whenever you talk to him as well LOL. To be honest I've never been able to romance or rivalmance Fenris (not for want of trying) for some reason I can never get him to stay with Hawke when he visits her estate, I think maybe it's glitched for me.


Fenris is *very* picky. 

1. Make sure you don't romance ANYONE. I managed to sleep with Izzy once before him but I tried a second time and it didn't work. So to err on the side of caution keep your Hawke from knocking boots with anyone. You can flirt freely though. Just don't sleep with anyone. Flirt with him enough that he suggests sleeping together. I believe that's what triggers his romance. I'm not 100% sure though.

2. Try to get his questioning beliefs BEFORE you do a bitter pill (yes it sounds off but yes you can do this), it's best if you keep him in your party for all of act 1 or 2 and be CONSISTENT in dealings with mages/slavers (If you want to rival him be very pro mage and set every mage you can free, if you want to friend him do the reverse. Be pro slavery for rivalry and anti slavery for friendship (though this honestly isn't needed he has enough rivalry points to make up for the friendship points you get for being anti-slavery). Try to be very diplomatic in dealings with slavers (even if you're not going to let them go simply not attacking them instantly gets you rival points), do the reverse for friendship points. If you take him around in act 1 you should be able to trigger his QB very early on in Act 2. Even before you do a bitter pill.

3. If you can't trigger his QB before a bitter pill get enough friendship/rivalry points to trigger it. Encouraging his anger gives friendship, discouraging it gives rivalry, if he leaves your house after you pick the heart go back to his home and see if the QB triggers. If your F/R is high enough it should and go back to Hawke's house and the romance scene should trigger then.


Tried all of that but he's having none of it LOL!

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syllogi wrote...

Will never understand how Merrill, Isabela, Fenris, and Anders all standing together could ever be seen as "homogenous".  If all you see is sexual preference when looking at those characters, you're missing out.


All of them are intrested in Hawke with no restrictions. I would like to see extremly defined NPCs, and sexuality is a large part of what defines who characters are. With all-bi, I see a continuing trend to make LIs be more accepting of the PC, which would end up where LIs are nothing but virtual playmates who are completely subject to the layers will.

Why do villains need to express a sexual preference?  Jon Irenicus had a lost love, Flemeth seduced men...it's nice to get this backstory, but that's just a part of their history, not a definitive declaration of their sexual orientation.  For all we know, Irenicus had plenty of boyfriends before settling down with a woman, and Flemeth has a "one that got away" story that involves a woman.  We don't know anything but what we're told, and that's okay.  

Would Meredith have been a better character if we got some sad backstory about a past female lover?  Or what if we had known that Orsino and Quentin had a relationship?  I think the impact of either revelation would depend completely on the writing, just as any heterosexual relationship a villain could have.

How exactly do you imagine a homosexual villain would behave differently from a heterosexual villain?


I would like to see a homosexual villian who isn't horribly campy or depraved.

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wsandista wrote...

I would like to see a homosexual villian who isn't horribly campy or depraved.


LOL well, it might be set in Orlais so hell knows what we could end up with if the villian is an Orlesian homosexual... I'd like to think they'd avoid stereotypes!

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LolaLei wrote...

wsandista wrote...

LI's should be hard to romance, and if the PC does something they don't like, they should react accordingly.


Now THAT I agree with!

I definitely felt that the love interests in DA2 were too easy to woo/seduce, to the extent that they felt more like an excuse for Hawke to get laid, rather than a nice little optional addition to the story to enhance our game play experience, I feel like perhaps the friendship/rivalmance thing was partly to blame for that because some of the companion rivalmances seem really out of character. For example, I can understand someone like Isabela rivalmancing Hawke because she enjoys a little conflict in her relationships to keep things interesting, BUT for someone like Merrill who is known to be sensitive to even consider dating a Hawke who has opposed and insulted her during the course of 10 years seems odd to me, especially considering how rude Hawke can be when you pick his/her more aggressive dialogue options. Another example is Anders dating a pro-Templar Hawke, if he's as dedicated to his cause as he evidentally is, I expected him to be completely disgusted at the thought of dating anyone that agrees with the captivity of Mages.

... It almost seemed a waste to give the romanceable companions such strong beliefs if they weren't going to come into play during potential romance persuits. I had hoped that it would give us pause for thought in the way we played our game beyond just getting a telling off from your love interest for not agreeing with them lol.


I agree here.  Some of the Rivalmances MIGHT get away with it if the character was the type to let people walk all over them.  However, I am sure Fenris and Anders would've killed someone like Hawke before even letting them get that close.  I doubt Anders would even be in love like he waswith a rivalmance Hawke.  I'm pretty sure he would've probably...oh, can't say anything withouot spoiling the end of DA2.  But I'm sure THAT would've happened with Hawke there with them. :lol:

What I found the strangest is Anders at the end and his response to the climax to a friendship Hawke vs rival Hawke...it seemed reversed...I didn't like it AT ALL now that I think about it.  I really wish this was in a spoiler forum so I could go really in depth about how it seems so far from his character on the friendship path when he accepts what happened as opposed to his rival path where he is in denial.  :blink:

With that said, I do not mind if a romance gets LOCKED OUT because you REALLY REALLY pissed off a character.  Maybe some characters you can work on rebuilding the broken pieces but there's some uncertainty still and if you screw up again you're done (second chance type thing), it's done for good.

Though I'm sure that if you said something that pissed off a character a whole bunch you were probably pissed by something they said and chose the option to smack them with a dose of harsh reality.  LOL

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wsandista wrote...

BTW, what does everyone think about a homosexual villain?


Irrelevant to being a villain.

As a character who is a villain, could be a valid aspect to a backstory.

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iakus wrote...

wsandista wrote...

BTW, what does everyone think about a homosexual villain?


Irrelevant to being a villain.

As a character who is a villain, could be a valid aspect to a backstory.


Already addressed that.;)

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Tried all of that but he's having none of it LOL!

Really? Youch. I find it easy to romance Fen according to that guide. D: I'm not sure how to help I'm afraid.

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TJX2045 wrote...

LolaLei wrote...

wsandista wrote...

LI's should be hard to romance, and if the PC does something they don't like, they should react accordingly.


Now THAT I agree with!

I definitely felt that the love interests in DA2 were too easy to woo/seduce, to the extent that they felt more like an excuse for Hawke to get laid, rather than a nice little optional addition to the story to enhance our game play experience, I feel like perhaps the friendship/rivalmance thing was partly to blame for that because some of the companion rivalmances seem really out of character. For example, I can understand someone like Isabela rivalmancing Hawke because she enjoys a little conflict in her relationships to keep things interesting, BUT for someone like Merrill who is known to be sensitive to even consider dating a Hawke who has opposed and insulted her during the course of 10 years seems odd to me, especially considering how rude Hawke can be when you pick his/her more aggressive dialogue options. Another example is Anders dating a pro-Templar Hawke, if he's as dedicated to his cause as he evidentally is, I expected him to be completely disgusted at the thought of dating anyone that agrees with the captivity of Mages.

... It almost seemed a waste to give the romanceable companions such strong beliefs if they weren't going to come into play during potential romance persuits. I had hoped that it would give us pause for thought in the way we played our game beyond just getting a telling off from your love interest for not agreeing with them lol.


I agree here.  Some of the Rivalmances MIGHT get away with it if the character was the type to let people walk all over them.  However, I am sure Fenris and Anders would've killed someone like Hawke before even letting them get that close.  I doubt Anders would even be in love like he waswith a rivalmance Hawke.  I'm pretty sure he would've probably...oh, can't say anything withouot spoiling the end of DA2.  But I'm sure THAT would've happened with Hawke there with them. :lol:

What I found the strangest is Anders at the end and his response to the climax to a friendship Hawke vs rival Hawke...it seemed reversed...I didn't like it AT ALL now that I think about it.  I really wish this was in a spoiler forum so I could go really in depth about how it seems so far from his character on the friendship path when he accepts what happened as opposed to his rival path where he is in denial.  :blink:

With that said, I do not mind if a romance gets LOCKED OUT because you REALLY REALLY pissed off a character.  Maybe some characters you can work on rebuilding the broken pieces but there's some uncertainty still and if you screw up again you're done (second chance type thing), it's done for good.

Though I'm sure that if you said something that pissed off a character a whole bunch you were probably pissed by something they said and chose the option to smack them with a dose of harsh reality.  LOL


They done something similar with Kaidan in ME1, if you were too ruthless he'd lose interest in you and the romance would be locked out. Then in ME3 if you "cheated" on him with someone else and you aren't honest about it he'll tell you to leave and he'll refuse to rejoin the Normandy crew even though he's still in love with you lol.

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wsandista wrote...

syllogi wrote...

Will never understand how Merrill, Isabela, Fenris, and Anders all standing together could ever be seen as "homogenous".  If all you see is sexual preference when looking at those characters, you're missing out.


All of them are intrested in Hawke with no restrictions. I would like to see extremly defined NPCs, and sexuality is a large part of what defines who characters are. With all-bi, I see a continuing trend to make LIs be more accepting of the PC, which would end up where LIs are nothing but virtual playmates who are completely subject to the layers will.

Why do villains need to express a sexual preference?  Jon Irenicus had a lost love, Flemeth seduced men...it's nice to get this backstory, but that's just a part of their history, not a definitive declaration of their sexual orientation.  For all we know, Irenicus had plenty of boyfriends before settling down with a woman, and Flemeth has a "one that got away" story that involves a woman.  We don't know anything but what we're told, and that's okay.  

Would Meredith have been a better character if we got some sad backstory about a past female lover?  Or what if we had known that Orsino and Quentin had a relationship?  I think the impact of either revelation would depend completely on the writing, just as any heterosexual relationship a villain could have.

How exactly do you imagine a homosexual villain would behave differently from a heterosexual villain?


I would like to see a homosexual villian who isn't horribly campy or depraved.

I'd like to see any villian in a BW game not be campy,depraved or silly looking.I want evil to be evil.Desire demon that change looks(female to male and vice versa)They(the villian)should be able to scare the crap out of you.

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Ihatebadgames wrote...

wsandista wrote...

syllogi wrote...

Will never understand how Merrill, Isabela, Fenris, and Anders all standing together could ever be seen as "homogenous".  If all you see is sexual preference when looking at those characters, you're missing out.


All of them are intrested in Hawke with no restrictions. I would like to see extremly defined NPCs, and sexuality is a large part of what defines who characters are. With all-bi, I see a continuing trend to make LIs be more accepting of the PC, which would end up where LIs are nothing but virtual playmates who are completely subject to the layers will.

Why do villains need to express a sexual preference?  Jon Irenicus had a lost love, Flemeth seduced men...it's nice to get this backstory, but that's just a part of their history, not a definitive declaration of their sexual orientation.  For all we know, Irenicus had plenty of boyfriends before settling down with a woman, and Flemeth has a "one that got away" story that involves a woman.  We don't know anything but what we're told, and that's okay.  

Would Meredith have been a better character if we got some sad backstory about a past female lover?  Or what if we had known that Orsino and Quentin had a relationship?  I think the impact of either revelation would depend completely on the writing, just as any heterosexual relationship a villain could have.

How exactly do you imagine a homosexual villain would behave differently from a heterosexual villain?


I would like to see a homosexual villian who isn't horribly campy or depraved.

I'd like to see any villian in a BW game not be campy,depraved or silly looking.I want evil to be evil.Desire demon that change looks(female to male and vice versa)They(the villian)should be able to scare the crap out of you.


I agree, but I would also like to see a villain that you can sympathize with as well. DA3 doesn't have to have only 1 villain.

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All of them are intrested in Hawke with no restrictions.


Which makes Leliana and Morrigan homogenous in comparison considering they are interested in a male Warden with no restrictions beyond that.

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First sorry for the douchy tone but I was pissed off for not being able to join a lobby in me3mp. First point is Ashley is a character on her own merits... and then she has a gender lock. The modded romance for Ashley works very well. So characters don't stop being characters when they're made into subjective sexuality, as you said. Just untrue. My way of showing that in the most clear way possible is to ask you if Ashley changes in any way in your playthrough the day you learn she's available for Femshep. No she doesn't. Therefore Shepard doesn't bend reality.

Another example, I didn't know Anders had a past with Carl if you play Manhawke, because I never play Manhawke. To me, Anders had a friend named Carl, that's all. Then, a year after purchasing the game, I read on the forums that Manhawke players say Anders had a thing with Carl. Oh well. That's Anders for them, and it's equally well. Carl is either a friend or a past relationship. Such a small detail doesn't affect Ander's characterization, who he is in the game (he has far more important things to show and be remembered by in the game); and that's more than the changes Ashley would get. I don't get affected in any way by Carl. Likewise you aren't affected in any way by my Ashleymance. If you are defending that subjective sexuality necessarily makes characters hollow or in any way worse, then Ashley became hollow or worse the day I modded her romance and it worked well. But she obviously didn't. Romance should be a major part of her characterization for that to work, and it's never been that way in these games.

The siblings thing.

For Femhawke you have Merril, Fenris, Anders and Isabela. Manhawke, same. Warrior hawke, same. Mage hawke, same. Whatever, always the same choices for you to pick. The game lets you decide. Now, with the siblings, warrior/rogue Hawke gets Bethany and mage Hawke gets Carver. No choice. That's the difference. You don't decide. You can't support one or another in that fight. The game decides for you. Back to romances: I think Merrill is a good character with a good story and background and all the rest, not hollow or bad or cheap, and still after all these pages I see no reason why she should be only available for romance if you play Manhawke, or Femhawke, or rogue Hawke, or whatever other arbitrary restriction you might want to put there.

If you're going to put a restriction, let it be an action that goes against her character. Break her mirror. Hand her over to the templars for being a blood mage. Something related to her, as a character. It's logical that Merrill won't want you if you denounce her. She'll hate you. And that locks the romance path. Is that more hollow or cheap than making her available exclusively to, say, Femhawke for the sake of... something? I think it isn't.

Now onto choices.

"The player has the choice to romance who the writers decide you
can romance.  The writers can go wild and make eight romances, four o/s
and four s/s.  Does anyone have any more or less choice than if they had
the same four LIs to choose from?  Or go 2/2/2 and everyone still has
four, does that still deny choice?"


You have money for 8 well written romances - with subjective sexuality you have 8 potential love interests regardless of your Hawke, plus the extra cost of minor line variations, like pronouns (the Carl thing, or Cortez's dead husband are unnecessary additions in my opinion. Ashley didn't need it for the romance to be wonderful. Still, those details are small enough to make a variation: Carl-the-friend and a dead wife instead of husband. Problem solved). This is the way to maximize choice with a given set of resources. There is no way around it. If you like to make different Hawkes to romance different people because replayability, you can make 8 Hawkes if you want. That's replayability right there. I personally prefer to make 1 Hawke, and replay the game 8 times with the same Hawke. Because the game lets me do that. Your game, your choice. Possibilities are open for you to decide. The game doesn't tell you you can't romance this one or that one because of the Hawke you made. The game lets you decide that. Only games can do this. Movies and books and comics and TV shows can't do it because there's no interactivity. That's why I said on page 1 that subjective sexuality is a unique advantage of this medium and it should be seized for greater role playing possibilities.

With your approach, however, any given Hawke will get 4 potential love interests. You will be able to notice eight options for any given Hawke are more than four. And then I will have to mod the game to remove an arbitrary gender lock that the game put there for an arbitrary reason, like in Jade Empire and ME1 and DA:O, so I can have the option to romance the character I think best suits my character.

Modifié par Nyoka, 10 juin 2012 - 03:44 .


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Nyoka, I couldn't have said it better myself. Thank you for that.

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jlb524 wrote...

wsandista wrote...

All of them are intrested in Hawke with no restrictions.


Which makes Leliana and Morrigan homogenous in comparison considering they are interested in a male Warden with no restrictions beyond that.


Maybe youu should look at some previous posts where I said that was a problem.

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...sexuality is a large part of what defines who characters are...


Bullshit.

It can be, as with Isabela or Morrigan (whose romance is uncomfortably couched in gender roles). Or it can not be, as with Merrill or Fenris.

If you want more characters to be sexually defined, then fine! But I have yet to read any argument that doesn't ultimately boil down to "I'm just more comfortable with straight people."

I'd like companions who are defined by things OTHER than sexuality. It's fine to have companions whose sexual preferences are at the forefront, but I don't think someone for whom, if asked to define them in five words or less, you would answer with "straight" is a very interesting character at all, let alone an interesting romance.

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In this thread: A crowd of flimsy strawmen - against efficient inclusiveness - that rivals the Terracotta Army.

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ishmaeltheforsaken wrote...

wsandista wrote...

...sexuality is a large part of what defines who characters are...


Bullshit.

It can be, as with Isabela or Morrigan (whose romance is uncomfortably couched in gender roles). Or it can not be, as with Merrill or Fenris.

If you want more characters to be sexually defined, then fine! But I have yet to read any argument that doesn't ultimately boil down to "I'm just more comfortable with straight people."

I'd like companions who are defined by things OTHER than sexuality. It's fine to have companions whose sexual preferences are at the forefront, but I don't think someone for whom, if asked to define them in five words or less, you would answer with "straight" is a very interesting character at all, let alone an interesting romance.


I actually have made that argument. SEVERAL GOD DAMN TIMES. If you think being sexuality is a choice or doesn't effect who you are that is bullsh!t. I have also gone on and on and on and on about how every NPC needs to be very defined in every way possible only to have someone jump in and tell me I just don't like gay people.

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wsandista wrote...

 If you think being sexuality ... doesn't effect who you are that is bullsh!t. 


Prove how it does in Thedas.  Show your work, provide examples.

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Upsettingshorts wrote...

wsandista wrote...

 If you think being sexuality ... doesn't effect who you are that is bullsh!t. 


Prove how it does in Thedas.  Show your work, provide examples.


Does human nature somehow function differently in Thedas?

First of all let us put the whole sentence here

If you think sexuality is a choice or doesn't effect who you are that is bullsh!t


Admittedly I made a grammatical error. I think "being" is a vestigial part of a sentence I intended to write but felt it did not fit.

Anyways, your sexuality isn't some choice you make, like what to wear or something, it is part of who you are. Similarly to how you can't make yourself like something, you can not convince yourself what gender(s) you are attracted to.

Secondly, sexuality does define who you are. It doesn't determine your entire life or dominate your preferences, but it is part of who you are.

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wsandista wrote...

Does human nature somehow function differently in Thedas?


Okay, we need to go back a step then.

Define your position on what constitutes "human nature" with regards to sexuality.

Then see previous post.

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Upsettingshorts wrote...

wsandista wrote...

Does human nature somehow function differently in Thedas?


Okay, we need to go back a step then.

Define your position on what constitutes "human nature" with regards to sexuality.

Then see previous post.


I believe that sexuality is generally defined as which gender(s) you are atracted to. There is more to it than that but for the purpose of a consise reply I will assume that sexuality regards only attraction.

I define Human Nature as the general behavior of individuals. We generally respond to certain stimuli in similar ways, although our ways of handling those responses will differ. Who we are attracted to is part of our nature. A variety of factors influence that attraction and sexuality is among them. If someone prefers something for what ever reason, then that is part of their nature.

Already responded to previous post.

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You don't understand the question I'm trying to get you to answer.

I am not looking for definitions, I'm looking for practical consequences to a particular sexuality as regards to a character's perceptions and behavior in Thedas.

Modifié par Upsettingshorts, 10 juin 2012 - 05:07 .