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Why Bioware Should Ditch "All Bi" Companions/Romances and How They Can Improve LGBT Standing in Other Ways


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TJX2045 wrote...

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This is illogical to me because that is an ATTITUDE towards someone.  Cortez was gay, he never hit on Shepard until he was hit on himself.  If Cortez was straight, he wouldn't hit on FemShep until she hit on him herself.

Morrigan would be the same character if she was bi.  Kaidan is still the same character, and actually he was originally written to be bi so everyone claiming he was originally supposed to be straight should look back at the content in ME1.  Given the year ME1 was released and considering the controversy that the straight romances got alone, the s/s male one would've been like a field day with Fox.

What am I not getting?  Or is everyone just trolling because the last few pages I've seen are "Everyone can't be all-bi or herosexual because 'diversity' even if it restricts the player from making the game their own story" in certain aspects like Bioware intended.


Cortez would respond to females advances with interest if he was bi. he doesn't do that in the game. His personality would be no different but his actions would be. If they were interested, they simply wouldn't be the same character as they are now, because they would perform different actions.


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Weren't we talking about personality and characterization?  How do these miniscule actions determined by his sexuality affect his characterization?

The only different actions he would have is that he would either a) also consider getting into FemShep's pants or B) only consider getting into FemShep's pants.

That really can't be THAT immersion/character breaking for people, can it?  I mean really...that isn't much to stand on.


Characterization yes, personality no. At least I wasn't, sexuality doesn't automatically determine your personality.

Like I said his actions could change from his current activity, and while it wouldn't be a world-shattering change(unless you work at Fox News) it would still be a change from what he does now. So I believe he would not be the same character, similar yes, but not exactly the same.

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I'm interested in what Allan thinks of this.

The way I see it by that same idea Jack is a characterization breaking factor because if Shepard does the Renegade line just once in one of the final dialogue choices she gets extremely pissed at him even though he's Paragon romanced her.

And the new Jack would break character too because ME2 Jack wouldn't ever be caught dead teaching students or working military.

Modifié par TJX2045, 12 juin 2012 - 06:55 .


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TJX2045 wrote...

I'm interested in what Allan thinks of this.

The way I see it by that same idea Jack is a characterization breaking factor because if Shepard does the Renegade line just once in one of the final dialogue choices she gets extremely pissed at him even though he's Paragon romanced her.

And the new Jack would break character too because ME2 Jack wouldn't ever be caught dead teaching students or working military.


Here. This is on page 27 I think.

Sexuality can be a distinct part of a character's identity and appeal,
and has a value that shouldn't be ignored. As much as some people didn't
like STEEEEEVE!!! in ME3, I feel that the fact that he was a gay...
widower? He-Widow?, point is, his homosexuality put a rarely seen
approach on the character. Both my fem-Shep and male-Shep got along
great with him from different directions, but had Steve been just as
open to a romance with Fem-Shep it just wouldn't have been the same
Steve.


Fair point.


Modifié par wsandista, 12 juin 2012 - 06:59 .


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wsandista wrote...

Here. This is on page 27 I think.

Sexuality can be a distinct part of a character's identity and appeal,
and has a value that shouldn't be ignored. As much as some people didn't
like STEEEEEVE!!! in ME3, I feel that the fact that he was a gay...
widower? He-Widow?, point is, his homosexuality put a rarely seen
approach on the character. Both my fem-Shep and male-Shep got along
great with him from different directions, but had Steve been just as
open to a romance with Fem-Shep it just wouldn't have been the same
Steve.


Fair point.



So the idea that he's not a typical gay character is why everyone should still be restricted?  Because characters are not a stereotypical (insert sexuality here) man/woman?  What's stopping that from being a truth in somene's playthrough then?

Are you upset because that aspect of said character will not be true if you play a straight PC over a gay PC?

I personally feel like I shouldn't have to see someone defined as "gay" or "straight" to come to terms with the fact that there are people who do not fit the stereotypes or double standards.

Modifié par TJX2045, 12 juin 2012 - 07:04 .


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TJX2045 wrote...

wsandista wrote...

Here. This is on page 27 I think.

Sexuality can be a distinct part of a character's identity and appeal,
and has a value that shouldn't be ignored. As much as some people didn't
like STEEEEEVE!!! in ME3, I feel that the fact that he was a gay...
widower? He-Widow?, point is, his homosexuality put a rarely seen
approach on the character. Both my fem-Shep and male-Shep got along
great with him from different directions, but had Steve been just as
open to a romance with Fem-Shep it just wouldn't have been the same
Steve.


Fair point.



So the idea that he's not a typical gay character is why everyone should still be restricted?  Because characters are not a stereotypical (insert sexuality here) man/woman?  What's stopping that from being a truth in somene's playthrough then?


Dude seriously WTF. I think you're wildly misreading the point.

Are you upset because that aspect of said character will not be true if you play a straight PC over a gay PC?


No

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wsandista wrote...

TJX2045 wrote...

wsandista wrote...

Here. This is on page 27 I think.

Sexuality can be a distinct part of a character's identity and appeal,
and has a value that shouldn't be ignored. As much as some people didn't
like STEEEEEVE!!! in ME3, I feel that the fact that he was a gay...
widower? He-Widow?, point is, his homosexuality put a rarely seen
approach on the character. Both my fem-Shep and male-Shep got along
great with him from different directions, but had Steve been just as
open to a romance with Fem-Shep it just wouldn't have been the same
Steve.


Fair point.



So the idea that he's not a typical gay character is why everyone should still be restricted?  Because characters are not a stereotypical (insert sexuality here) man/woman?  What's stopping that from being a truth in somene's playthrough then?


Dude seriously WTF. I think you're wildly misreading the point.

Are you upset because that aspect of said character will not be true if you play a straight PC over a gay PC?


No

Yes, I am missing the point because the quote you posted pretty much reads that way to me.  What is the point?  Why are you upset that everyone is hero-sexual?

The reason I asked that last question is because it seemed like you would be bothered if a character like Cortez was an all-bi option because he would no longer be a rare __sexual character that doesn't fit the stereotypes and would no longer be a "
rarely seen approach on the character."

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As someone who quit TOR because of it's lack of SGRA all I can say is, don't you even dare think about doing this.


Do you think it would have made as big of a difference had TOR not had any romances at all?

I never picked up TOR because there were no same-sex romances.

If there had been no romances at all, I would have probably gotten it.

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TJX2045 wrote...

Yes, I am missing the point because the quote you posted pretty much reads that way to me.  What is the point?  Why are you upset that everyone is hero-sexual?


I would like LIs with clearly defined sexualities. This includes Bi and Gay as well as straight. i don't like the idea of the vanilla world changing to fit the PC.

The reason I asked that last question is because it seemed like you would be bothered if a character like Cortez was an all-bi option because he would no longer be a rare __sexual character that doesn't fit the stereotypes and would no longer be a "
rarely seen approach on the character."


That is part of it i guess. I like interesting characters and it is nice to see homosexuals get a place in the game. if Cortez was bi, he would be like Liara or Allers.

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wsandista wrote...

The reason I asked that last question is because it seemed like you would be bothered if a character like Cortez was an all-bi option because he would no longer be a rare __sexual character that doesn't fit the stereotypes and would no longer be a "
rarely seen approach on the character."


That is part of it i guess. I like interesting characters and it is nice to see homosexuals get a place in the game. if Cortez was bi, he would be like Liara or Allers.

Ah ok here we go.  I think I get what you mean now.  Is the other the first part of the other quote, where a defined sexuality is more appealing than a non-defined one?  That is interesting.

I think in this current generation it's impossible to do that with the resources without making an unequal LI treatment (look at ME3).  I might not mind the idea of 8 LIs total with 4 s/s options, but that is also very subjective.  It still doesn't solve the problem that people are still going to complain "Why is __ straight" or "Why is ___ gay?"

I still feel that all-bi is the best solution and do not believe Cortez would be like Liara or Allers if he was bi.  However I will say that there is an appeal to knowing a character's sexuality and identifying with them and, in that same repesct, I only think it applies when the game establishes that it matters in terms of who you can romance like the ME3 Love Interest System does.

Modifié par TJX2045, 12 juin 2012 - 07:28 .


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Maria Caliban wrote...

Allan Schumacher wrote...

As someone who quit TOR because of it's lack of SGRA all I can say is, don't you even dare think about doing this.


Do you think it would have made as big of a difference had TOR not had any romances at all?

I never picked up TOR because there were no same-sex romances.

If there had been no romances at all, I would have probably gotten it.


Were you insulted by it, or was it just that seeing the opposite sex romances would have just driven the point home that same sex romances didn't exist, making it harder to look past that.

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Most suprising thing about this thread... I always considered BL a Japanese phenomenon.

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Allan Schumacher wrote...

Maria Caliban wrote...

Allan Schumacher wrote...

As someone who quit TOR because of it's lack of SGRA all I can say is, don't you even dare think about doing this.


Do you think it would have made as big of a difference had TOR not had any romances at all?

I never picked up TOR because there were no same-sex romances.

If there had been no romances at all, I would have probably gotten it.


Were you insulted by it, or was it just that seeing the opposite sex romances would have just driven the point home that same sex romances didn't exist, making it harder to look past that.


As someone who plays TOR, I have to say that the lack of S/S romance is very disappointing. Don't get me started on the Male Smuggler and how the game simply begs you to be heterosexual. My opinion is the same as Maria's when she says that it would be better with no romances. No matter how much of an "easter egg" romance content is in TOR, being an afterthought is never pleasant.

But then, I'm okay with all bi romances, so I guess I'm weird.

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I think another issue is are we talking sexuality or sexual preference? Because the only character with truly open seuxality is Isabela, and it's not because, or limited to, being bisexual. Some of my lesbian friends would define Aveline as "butch", but she's straight, married when we meet her, and eventually remarries, or can. I'm not sure if this can be altered, as I have a lot of fun with The Long Road, so I've never skipped it. However, none of the other characters discuss either sexual preference, or their sexuality. There is one banter that plays out with different lines between Isabela and Aveline concerning her marriage, and one about why her and Wesley had no children with Bethany, but other than that, she doesn't discuss her sexuality. Varric doesn't either, and neither do Fenris or Merrill. Anders can, under set circumstances, and even those circumstances have circumstances that must first be set.

The difference in the banter between Isabela and Aveline seems to be the gender of Hawke that is romancing Isabela, in so far as I have noticed. So this alone makes that situation unique. I have yet to see any behavior in the other companions that indicates that they are bisexual. I pointed this out earlier, but I guess it bears repeating, the only companion relationship that can happen is Fenris and Isabela, purely physical, if neither is romanced. This is a hetero relationship, so that would lead me to believe that Fenris is hetero, it would be truly convoluted to say he's bi based on that.

Oh, but any Hawke can romance him. Yeah, in any single game of a single player game, any Hawke can romance him. In a mHawke game, he doesn't suddenly develop a stereotypical inflection to indicate that he is gay, he sounds exactly the same as in a fHawke game, so his character isn't altered by gender. It is not beyond the realm of possibility that he can find Mage Hawke attractive, since he can willingly fight for the mages, despite his hatred of them, even when he's not romanced at all, let alone which gender. If you're mHawke, and romance Merrill, he'll still sleep with Isabela, if Isabela is still around, so being mHawke doesn't make him gay, otherwise wouldn't he rather sleep with Anders?

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BobSmith101 wrote...

Most suprising thing about this thread... I always considered BL a Japanese phenomenon.


Started in Japan and then spread like wildfire BB!  Unfortunately there doen't seem to be any Dragon Age doujinshi.

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slashthedragon wrote...

BobSmith101 wrote...

Most suprising thing about this thread... I always considered BL a Japanese phenomenon.


Started in Japan and then spread like wildfire BB!  Unfortunately there doen't seem to be any Dragon Age doujinshi.


Maybe now they have done an anime(of sorts).Image IPB

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BobSmith101 wrote...

slashthedragon wrote...

BobSmith101 wrote...

Most suprising thing about this thread... I always considered BL a Japanese phenomenon.


Started in Japan and then spread like wildfire BB!  Unfortunately there doen't seem to be any Dragon Age doujinshi.


Maybe now they have done an anime(of sorts).Image IPB


True, but it lacks the BL I CRAVE. <3

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slashthedragon wrote...

BobSmith101 wrote...

slashthedragon wrote...

BobSmith101 wrote...

Most suprising thing about this thread... I always considered BL a Japanese phenomenon.


Started in Japan and then spread like wildfire BB!  Unfortunately there doen't seem to be any Dragon Age doujinshi.


Maybe now they have done an anime(of sorts).Image IPB


True, but it lacks the BL I CRAVE. <3


Dragon Age was all but unknown in Japan and they have a lot to choose from. I miss the days when you could innocently google terms like Naruto and Sasuke without needing to wash out your eysImage IPB At least you know what role he plays Image IPB

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The only thing I can find is:
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wsandista wrote...
I'm not arguing any of that either.

What I'm arguing that his actions could change. He would be willing to have sex with a female Shepard, while as it stands now he would not do that. that is a change. not a world-breaking one(unless you're a host on Fox News) but a change in behavior nonetheless.


Yeah no more than Leliana being hardened Morrigan being softened, Sten being friends with the Warden and so on. It's not significant enough to justify restricting content to me.

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I've read the first, and last post of this thread. I believe in equal rights for all variations of sexuality. I l enjoy romance based relationships. That being said, that should not eliminate varying relationships for the minorities. They should have equality.

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I wanted to respond to this:

wsandista wrote...
Cortez would respond to females advances with interest if he was bi. he doesn't do that in the game. His personality would be no different but his actions would be. If they were interested, they simply wouldn't be the same character as they are now, because they would perform different actions.

Using that argument, wouldn't the ability to harden characters in DA:O be a "change" of the companion that would subsequently allow for him/her to perform different actions? 

The ability for a character to be hardened is something written into the character - that he/she can be influenced by the PC's actions and/or dialogue. The personality of the character is intrinsically the same, the core persona is there, but the views and attitude have shifted somewhat.

I can't say for certain if any of the characters were written as "bisexual" - as in the writers said to themselves "this character would declare his/herself to be bisexual." What they were written as was "romanceable" - meaning they will respond to the actions/dialogue of a Hawke that flirts with them. They react to the PC and are essentially willing to pursue a romance with him/her (provided that further actions/dialogue from the PC occur - flirt options are still used, gifts are given, quests and conversations take place, etc). This doesn't necessarily mean a fluid sexuality/sexual identity. It's merely a matter of that aspect of identity not being openly declared, not being obvious in any sort of statement from the companion. There is no "I am not interested in men/women." 

A few characters discuss their past loves, but the events of their past do not necessarily dictate who the character is now, how he/she perceives his/herself and what he/she may want from their beloved in return.

You have asked before "do the LIs have a say?" - if they were to have such a say, is it certain that they would each declare a particular identity? Would they define themselves in a certain manner? We can guess, we can make assumptions, but can we really, truly know? To be able to say that a character would, without a doubt, respond a certain way may be metagaming right there, because if we are to treat them like complex individuals (as they seem very much to be written as), then how can we truly account for every attitude or thought? How can pin down how the heart works for one individual, and what may move him/her? It's very possible that each character has the ability, and the desire, to respond to who Hawke is - not the gender alone, but the sum total of a refugee from Fereldan made into a Champion of Kirkwall. Sometimes the heart works that way - sometimes it defies convention, or all of its previous history. Sometimes love, even as written in fiction to reflect our mortal familiarity, works in unpredictable ways.

The writers would be in a better position to state how any character would react/answer questions regarding how they feel, or who they want to be with - the companions are their creations. We are left to assess who the companions are by taking an active role in getting to know them, each playthrough, via our PC. Because we can pursue different dialogue options, we may not always hear the whole of what they have to say - that doesn't make them any less viable of characters because we may not know or learn something. They remain complex characters, unique in their view of their own world.

It's about perspective. I personally don't walk into the game, either with metaknowledge or by just focusing on a playthrough thinking "Oh, he/she responds to the flirting of my PC, therefore he/she is straight/gay/bi." I approach having my PC romance a character as "who is it that I think would best suit my PC, who is it that I think is all sorts of awesome and would be someone that I want to know more about, who I think would make for an interesting romance." There isn't the conscious "well, he/she seems gay/straight/bi, therefore I don't want to engage that character, and because he/she is gay/straight/bi, that character should act in x manner."

To paraphrase @Nyoka from several pages back, the ability to romance a LI regardless of PC gender is about being able to link your PC with the character you find most awesome and intriguing. The characters do not lose anything, or become different creatures, based on this accessibility - they remain who they are at their core. Their sexuality/sexual identity is simply not the sole aspect that defines them. And while dialogue responses may change, those responses still take direct influence from the PC, just as persuasion/coercion and hardening worked in DA:O. The PC has always been influencial, in some degree, on how the companions, LI or not, are going to react/respond. And that is something that is actually indicative of RL - we can be influenced or inspired from friends, family, people on the street on all manner of topics or subjects - from the type of music we enjoy, to books we may read, to how we may view social or political issues. Conversation, and the elements of respect and trust, do much to make small shifts in how we may think or feel about certain things. I would argue that the same can be said for the heart.

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Ryzaki wrote...

wsandista wrote...
I'm not arguing any of that either.

What I'm arguing that his actions could change. He would be willing to have sex with a female Shepard, while as it stands now he would not do that. that is a change. not a world-breaking one(unless you're a host on Fox News) but a change in behavior nonetheless.


Yeah no more than Leliana being hardened Morrigan being softened, Sten being friends with the Warden and so on. It's not significant enough to justify restricting content to me.


What about his background?

Part of Steve's story is his mourning his dead husband.  How would that change with a "hero-sexual Steve".  Would he instead be mourning a really really close friend who only turns out to be a husband in certain playthroughs? 

I think his tale would lose a lot of its impact that way.  The dangers of leaving details about characters amorphous

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What about his background?

Part of Steve's story is his mourning his dead husband.  How would that change with a "hero-sexual Steve".  Would he instead be mourning a really really close friend who only turns out to be a husband in certain playthroughs? 

I think his tale would lose a lot of its impact that way.  The dangers of leaving details about characters amorphous


Why would they have to change that part of his story to make him bisexual/herosexual?  Leliana and Zevran both had female lovers in the past whom they mention, that seemed to be fine with most players who romanced them. 

I think that if DA2 love interests don't talk as much about past lovers, it's more that the writers didn't want more complaints about "Carth Syndrome" and the like, not that they were hiding anything about the potential sexuality of the LIs. 

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Dhiro wrote...
As someone who plays TOR, I have to say that the lack of S/S romance is very disappointing. Don't get me started on the Male Smuggler and how the game simply begs you to be heterosexual. My opinion is the same as Maria's when she says that it would be better with no romances. No matter how much of an "easter egg" romance content is in TOR, being an afterthought is never pleasant.

But then, I'm okay with all bi romances, so I guess I'm weird.


The real injustice is that male and female smugglers alike don't get to experience Akaavi.

That said, I don't agree that the game would be better without romances at all - I think they add a lot, and I'm just hoping they kick s/s romances out the door soon. It's keeping me from playing some characters I really want to (like my trooper - death before Jorgan).

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syllogi wrote...

iakus wrote...

What about his background?

Part of Steve's story is his mourning his dead husband.  How would that change with a "hero-sexual Steve".  Would he instead be mourning a really really close friend who only turns out to be a husband in certain playthroughs? 

I think his tale would lose a lot of its impact that way.  The dangers of leaving details about characters amorphous


Why would they have to change that part of his story to make him bisexual/herosexual?  Leliana and Zevran both had female lovers in the past whom they mention, that seemed to be fine with most players who romanced them. 

I think that if DA2 love interests don't talk as much about past lovers, it's more that the writers didn't want more complaints about "Carth Syndrome" and the like, not that they were hiding anything about the potential sexuality of the LIs. 


I specified hero-sexual there.  Leliana and Zevran are both bisexual.  With hero-sexual, the existence of past spouses or significant others would likely end up in some nebulous in-between place to avoid giving the character needless definition.  Thus you'd lose stories like Steve's (which I actually enjoyed.  But then, I like Carth too)

Also, Karl.