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I was bothered by Kaidan being gay/bisexual in ME3


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Tali-vas-normandy wrote...

wait did Broshep who was male oriantated sexually only had the Liara option until ME3?

No, Gay BroShep had no options until ME3.

And I count Kelly as a Bi option for FemShep. I know it's not a true romance, but you could hit on her and do stuff with 
her in Shep's cabin. Oh, and FemShep can have sex with the Asari Consort in ME1 too.

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Didn't mind Kaiden being bisexual at all. I'm bisexual, but I don't go around telling everyone, and I'm marrying a woman. Didn't remember him saying in ME1 "FYI Shepard, I'm straight.". Just because he doesn't jump in Space-Pimp MSheps pants in ME1, doesn't mean he isn't gay; he might just have taken years to become aware of the fact/do something about it. Anyhoo, all was good for me.


Yeah I think that's a sensible way to approach it.

Plus a lot of people evolve over time and, after going through changes in their own life, discover feelings for others that they didn't conceive of beforehand. And without wanting to offend anyone, I think a lot of people are slightly  more bi than they can actually admit to. Wouldn't surprise me if Kaiden was in that category in ME1.

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One thing I find enormously odd, is the apparent implied assumption, that no one at Bioware, writers, animators, testers, spokes persons ect. could possibly be gay or bisexual. And that everyone at Bioware must be straight, and none of them at the very least could ever possibly have sisters, brothers, uncles and what have you, who are gay; and that nobody working at Bioware have ever thought to himself: “Gee, I wish I could share this cool thing I do with my gay baby brother, so he could experience how awesome this is”. Or that no one at Bioware ever asked somebody bisexual “Is this plausible, you think?”.

Who decided Bioware was straight making straight games? I thought Bioware was diverse, aiming at getting as many different people as possible into the thing they love the most: games.

Modifié par Hvlukas, 06 juin 2012 - 01:10 .


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Hvlukas wrote...

One thing I find enormously odd, is the apparent implied assumption, that no one at Bioware, writers, animators, testers, spokes persons ect. could possibly be gay or bisexual. That everyone at Bioware must be straight, and none of them at the very least could ever have sisters, brother, uncles and what have you, who are gay; and that nobody working at Bioware have ever thought to himself: “Gee, I wish I could share this cool thing I do with my gay baby brother, so he could experience how awesome this is”. Or that no one at Bioware ever asked somebody bisexual “Is this plausible, you think?”.

Who decided Bioware was straight making straight games? I thought Bioware was diverse, aiming at getting as many different people as possible into the thing they love the most: games.


Probably are a few gays there.  If there's 20 people in the company and they are a random sample of people, then you can expect 2 to be gay. 

That has nothing to do with making games.  You could be a 100% gay company but if you were into general sales you would be avoiding putting gay in your games...because until fairly recently it was "just not done".  Hell, ME1 caused a froufrou briefly because of implied HETERO sex!  The hammer would have come down MUCH harder if it had been clearly gay (a female shep and an asari is titillating and not quite gay - guys dig hot girl-on-girl action even if they are conservative republicans - ie, gay). 

Modifié par Getorex, 06 juin 2012 - 01:15 .


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I'm also not a fan of the massive number of bi characters.

It's definitely disproportionate to how many actual bi members a crew of that size would likely have.

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I'm also not a fan of the massive number of bi characters.

It's definitely disproportionate to how many actual bi members a crew of that size would likely have.


A crew needs more bi-females.  HOT bi-females.  Threesomes become an option, as do simple opportunities for viewing them in action with other hot bi-females.  Woot-woot! :D

Every other person you ran into was apparently right on the edge of going gay or, at the very least, bi-curious.  Too bad Ashley wasn't up for some of that in ME1 when you had to choose between her OR Liara.  Lost opportunity that was.

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Getorex wrote...

Probably are a few gays there.  If there's 20 people in the company and they are a random sample of people, then you can expect 2 to be gay. 

That has nothing to do with making games.  You could be a 100% gay company but if you were into general sales you would be avoiding putting gay in your games...because until fairly recently it was "just not done".  Hell, ME1 caused a froufrou briefly because of implied HETERO sex!  The hammer would have come down MUCH harder if it had been clearly gay (a female shep and an asari is titillating and not quite gay - guys dig hot girl-on-girl action even if they are conservative republicans - ie, gay). 


Yeah, I understand that a company probably has to use these characters wisely. And I *hope* we in the future see games made by a gay company, games by a Greenlandian company (how cool would that be?) and games by black companies. I hope we see the whole scope.

But until then, people shouldn't expect, that the developers are 100% straight and each individual in them might want to influence and shape the games. I wouldn't be surprised if someone at some point thought to themselves: "My brother really wants to be the hero of the universe, but no one allows him to .. Maybe I should make a game he could enjoy?"

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There's a lot of things Bioware could use a game's budget of money and time for. So I'm not quite sure why making seemingly everyone in the galaxy into a potential homosexual-- a group which surely represents a very tiny minority of its customer base-- is apparently such a priority. Surely people who, say, would like to see a return of true RPG elements is vastly larger bunch. And it might even include some homosexuals.

Also, flashes of female (and alien) buttcheeks and sideboob is verboten now; Bioware is too cowardly to include that anymore, it seems; but multiple characters being potential gay sex partners is A-OK.

Good times.

Modifié par Rhalle, 06 juin 2012 - 01:39 .


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Rhalle wrote...

There's a lot of things Bioware could use game's budget of money and time for. So I'm not quite sure why making seemingly everyone in the galaxy into a potential homosexual-- a group which surely represents a very tiny minority of its customer base-- is apparently such a priority. Surely people who, say, would like to see a return of true RPG elements is vastly larger bunch. And it might even include some homosexuals.

Also, flashes of female (and alien) buttcheeks and sideboob is verboten now; Bioware is too cowardly to include that anymore, it seems; but multiple characters being potential gay sex partners is A-OK.

Good times.


You can have a side-boob if it is securely enclosed within a brasierre...and LIKE it!

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I didn't care that they made Kaidan bi.

I cared that he was so forward with it, essentially forcing a confrontation.

He basically says that you're the only one he's interested in.

And then you're all "Nah, sorry brah".

Which made me feel like a dick for turning him down.

Modifié par Zkyire, 06 juin 2012 - 01:37 .


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This again... You play ME3 as a female, Kaidan is straight. If you you play ME3 as a male and do not have a romance locked in before the citadel 'date' then he is gay and hits on Shepard. I do not see how this is a problem at all...
If you're playing as a female it literally doesn't affect you in the slightest, and saying he's character was cheapened because of this, well that's just your close minded views.

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Zkyire wrote...

I didn't care that they made Kaidan bi.

I cared that he was so forward with it, essentially forcing a confrontation.

He basically says that you're the only one he's interested in.

And then you're all "Nah, sorry brah".

Which made me feel like a dick for turning him down.

You do know the player triggers that scene, right? He only admits his feelings for male Shepard if you buy him a bottle of whisky while he's in the hospital. If you don't give him the gift, he'll just tell you he values your friendship instead.

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Ctrl + F "Binary_Helix 1"

0 responses from the OP since the thread was opened. Why are people still responding to this obvious bait thread?

Slow news day?

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SavageNoble wrote...

Zkyire wrote...

I didn't care that they made Kaidan bi.

I cared that he was so forward with it, essentially forcing a confrontation.

He basically says that you're the only one he's interested in.

And then you're all "Nah, sorry brah".

Which made me feel like a dick for turning him down.

You do know the player triggers that scene, right? He only admits his feelings for male Shepard if you buy him a bottle of whisky while he's in the hospital. If you don't give him the gift, he'll just tell you he values your friendship instead.


I never gave him a gift. I got some bottle of booze but I'm pretty sure I shared it with Chakwas.

Must've been a bug on my playthrough.

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The fact is that Kiaden was fundamentally altered to fit the agenda, for whatever reason Bioware feels compelled to follow it.

In ME1 Kaiden was the sort of shy and mysterious and sad and in-pain"dude (aww..he's cute) for female gamers to focus their interest on.

That was his purpose.

Modifié par Rhalle, 06 juin 2012 - 01:46 .


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Icinix wrote...

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I felt like it was really out of place. Kaidan was the most mature character in the trilogy and he was firmly established as straight in ME1. Despite whatever he was originally designed for that's not what made the final cut. I felt like the sudden change in ME3 really cheapened him and detracted from his established character.


I like how you're essentially implying that homosexuality is immature and cheap.


The change in Kaiden is just as cheap as making Ashley sexier.

My issue, is, and always will be - keeping characters the same.

You can introduce as many new straight, homosexual, monogendered, tall, short, fat, thin, angry, friendly characters as you want.

Just don't change existing characters.


But that's the thing, you can still keep your existing characters the same if you wish (although you'd have to mod Ashley if you want her looking the way she was). If you want Kaiden to remain a straight character in your Shepard universe, then you simply do so by never approaching him romantically.

It's like someone arguing that they don't like the fact that their Shepard can be a renegade in their playthrough when they prefer him/her to be more altruistic. Just because the options are there doesn't mean you have to choose them.


I said it earlier but one of the things I love is the immutable nature of a world and its characters, where only the avatar and the avatars choices in the world alter it.

Seeing how the worlds differ with the same NPCs is fascinating. Its something that draws me into the world.

Having the NPCs themselves change depending on the players presence takes that away. If Alistair could be the king or not based on player conversation - would it take something away from the character? If Wrex was affected by the genophage or not based on player conversation - would it take away the feeling of having influence in the world?

I think the characters, like some aspects of the world, need to be immutable. If a character can change so readily based on the players dialogue, I think it affects the characters integrity.

Wrex, Alistair, Kaiden, Ashley - they're not Wrex, Alistair, Kaiden, Ashley.

There thousands of variations on those characters. I don't like that. I think that is one of the things lacking from the DA2 characters. Because they needed to account for those variations, they all felt so flat and somewhat empty. I can only speak from my personal experience here, but the strongest characters who I felt were the best were ones that were openly the same in everyones game.

Bethany, Carver, Isablla and Aveline. They were characters who in their own special way were immutable.


I do see what you are getting at. I mean in real life you can steer the course of your own actions and change your own persona but not necessarily others. If I talk to a person I can influence them to a certain degree but I can't mold/program them into a character as I see fit. For example: I can't say to someone, "You like cheesecake"  and they'll reply without counteraction "Yes, I like cheesecake".

What I'm getting at, is I understand your point that if the player can choose what the NPC's personal persuasion is then that charcater can never surprise you. But by that same token if a pre-determined character stays the same based on our initial impression of them then we have the same problem.

Ashley originally came across as more of a tomboy in the first and second games, whereas now she appears more glamorous. This doesn't stop her from being the same person, it's just another side to her we didn't see before. By that same token, Kaiden can be bi/gay and still be the same character you like and respect, it's just now we've seen another layer to him.

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Zkyire wrote...

SavageNoble wrote...

Zkyire wrote...

I didn't care that they made Kaidan bi.

I cared that he was so forward with it, essentially forcing a confrontation.

He basically says that you're the only one he's interested in.

And then you're all "Nah, sorry brah".

Which made me feel like a dick for turning him down.

You do know the player triggers that scene, right? He only admits his feelings for male Shepard if you buy him a bottle of whisky while he's in the hospital. If you don't give him the gift, he'll just tell you he values your friendship instead.


I never gave him a gift. I got some bottle of booze but I'm pretty sure I shared it with Chakwas.

Must've been a bug on my playthrough.

Chakwas buys the bottle of booze you share with her. Remember, she said in ME2 she was buying next time? 

The booze you buy in ME3 is for Kaidan.

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SavageNoble wrote...

Zkyire wrote...

I didn't care that they made Kaidan bi.

I cared that he was so forward with it, essentially forcing a confrontation.

He basically says that you're the only one he's interested in.

And then you're all "Nah, sorry brah".

Which made me feel like a dick for turning him down.

You do know the player triggers that scene, right? He only admits his feelings for male Shepard if you buy him a bottle of whisky while he's in the hospital. If you don't give him the gift, he'll just tell you he values your friendship instead.


Ah now that's just great.  I cannot buy a friend a gift EVEN IF HE IS IN THE HOSPITAL without making him hit on me.  I suppose if you give him the gift of the Swim Suit Edition that would set him right though...  OK, so we all have to simply be circumspect about what gift we give our hospitalized guy FRIENDS.  No booze, just girlie mags.  No way to misinterpret THAT.

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Really? Kaidan is gay? My femshep is going to have to have a talk w/ that boy. This is not cool, stringing her along like that.

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SavageNoble wrote...

Zkyire wrote...

SavageNoble wrote...

Zkyire wrote...

I didn't care that they made Kaidan bi.

I cared that he was so forward with it, essentially forcing a confrontation.

He basically says that you're the only one he's interested in.

And then you're all "Nah, sorry brah".

Which made me feel like a dick for turning him down.

You do know the player triggers that scene, right? He only admits his feelings for male Shepard if you buy him a bottle of whisky while he's in the hospital. If you don't give him the gift, he'll just tell you he values your friendship instead.


I never gave him a gift. I got some bottle of booze but I'm pretty sure I shared it with Chakwas.

Must've been a bug on my playthrough.

Chakwas buys the bottle of booze you share with her. Remember, she said in ME2 she was buying next time? 

The booze you buy in ME3 is for Kaidan.


See, that was a lost opportunity there too.  Chawkwas was eminently bangable.  The first time you drank with her should have ended with your male Shepard bending her over one of those hospital beds...all for a Kelly Chambers "friend with benefits" thing.

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SavageNoble wrote...

Zkyire wrote...

SavageNoble wrote...

Zkyire wrote...

I didn't care that they made Kaidan bi.

I cared that he was so forward with it, essentially forcing a confrontation.

He basically says that you're the only one he's interested in.

And then you're all "Nah, sorry brah".

Which made me feel like a dick for turning him down.

You do know the player triggers that scene, right? He only admits his feelings for male Shepard if you buy him a bottle of whisky while he's in the hospital. If you don't give him the gift, he'll just tell you he values your friendship instead.


I never gave him a gift. I got some bottle of booze but I'm pretty sure I shared it with Chakwas.

Must've been a bug on my playthrough.

Chakwas buys the bottle of booze you share with her. Remember, she said in ME2 she was buying next time? 

The booze you buy in ME3 is for Kaidan.


Ah, I've only played the SP campaign once, memory must be a bit foggy.

But even still, it's a bit ridiculous. Buy a friend who is in the hospital a gift.. he assumes you're sexually interested. Could have been handled better.

:?

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Getorex wrote...

Ah now that's just great.  I cannot buy a friend a gift EVEN IF HE IS IN THE HOSPITAL without making him hit on me.  I suppose if you give him the gift of the Swim Suit Edition that would set him right though...  OK, so we all have to simply be circumspect about what gift we give our hospitalized guy FRIENDS.  No booze, just girlie mags.  No way to misinterpret THAT.



Zkyire wrote...

Ah, I've only played the SP campaign once, memory must be a bit foggy.

But even still, it's a bit ridiculous. Buy a friend who is in the hospital a gift.. he assumes you're sexually interested. Could have been handled better.

:?



As far as I'm aware, the only thing the gift does is trigger the romance path. Seems to have just been stuck in there for that reason.

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SavageNoble wrote...


Getorex wrote...

Ah now that's just great.  I cannot buy a friend a gift EVEN IF HE IS IN THE HOSPITAL without making him hit on me.  I suppose if you give him the gift of the Swim Suit Edition that would set him right though...  OK, so we all have to simply be circumspect about what gift we give our hospitalized guy FRIENDS.  No booze, just girlie mags.  No way to misinterpret THAT.



Zkyire wrote...

Ah, I've only played the SP campaign once, memory must be a bit foggy.

But even still, it's a bit ridiculous. Buy a friend who is in the hospital a gift.. he assumes you're sexually interested. Could have been handled better.

:?



As far as I'm aware, the only thing the gift does is trigger the romance path. Seems to have just been stuck in there for that reason.


Well, in fact it was never going to be an issue for me.  I ALWAYS chose Ash for the win.  Her butt was so prime, as were her other girlie curves (though EXACTLY the same body as Liara's...just without the kalamari head).

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SavageNoble wrote...


Can I just say, I admire your patience SavageNoble. 

It's amazing games aren't frozen in 1986, when you see the resistance to include new opportunities, new fans and even a different gender from the male one. 

I applaud you. And Bioware too, for trying to navigate forward, despite the storm.

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It's funny, you can btch and moan till the cows come home, it doesn't change jack. My mShep can still romance Kaidan and that is not going to change.