wright1978 wrote...
Of course they have to be still stranded. They've been thrown out of FTL onto some uninhabitated garden world with the relay network damaged. it will take them quite some time to get back. Think it would be quite simple to fabricate memorial plaques on board and they have been doing so all through the game(adding Mordin's name etc). Your logic makes no sense because if they knew Shep and Anderson's fates why on earth would they create a Shep plaque in the first place. They clearly are out of communication and merely are assuming both died.
They are not using the Relay to reach rendezvous point (at least it is not shown, all fleet uses FTL) and Sol Relay is the first one damaged. But you're right about funeral taking place on the emergency landing world, since it goes like this in the cutscene: landing - funeral - taking off. But why they would be out of communication, if the high EMS red light space magic energy isn't destroying the electronics, and rendezvous point was agreed on beforehand, so there are others nearby? My interpretation is that they receive "we found Shepard!" information during the funeral - that's what makes LI change his actions compared to lower EMS, and is reinforced further by breathing scene.
Anyway, if you want your Shepard to die after the breathing scene and interrupted funeral, please be my guest. But that is your headcanon. Headcanon starts after the game ends, but game ends with Shepard being alive, ambiguity starts after that.