Remember to be positive, for not making a move you spared yourself from bogus sexual harassment charges, especially if you had started the conversation with any kind of compliment.
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Remember to be positive, for not making a move you spared yourself from bogus sexual harassment charges, especially if you had started the conversation with any kind of compliment.
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This is just pathetic. Women aren't an alien species that will devour you alive if you talk to them. The fact that you're worked up so much over a stranger shows a lot of insecurity that should probably be resolved in therapy and not on a public forum.
Wait... this is a two year old thread. Bad necromancer.
This is just pathetic. Women aren't an alien species that will devour you alive if you talk to them. The fact that you're worked up so much over a stranger shows a lot of insecurity that should probably be resolved in therapy and not on a public forum.
Wait... this is a two year old thread. Bad necromancer.
You'd think we have the common sense to come to that conclusion. For some reason, our relationship problems and our behavioral problems intertwine and manifest as public posts in this forum.
This is just pathetic. Women aren't an alien species that will devour you alive if you talk to them. The fact that you're worked up so much over a stranger shows a lot of insecurity that should probably be resolved in therapy and not on a public forum.
Wait... this is a two year old thread. Bad necromancer.
No but feminists are...
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Guest_TheDarkKnightReturns_*
You can reminisce at how many dime pieces you let walk away or you can do something about it. Choice is yours. My problem, and I have no problems admitting it, is I just can't tell when a girl is feeling me. At all. So I end up holla'n at the wrong girl more then I'd like.
Lol coming from my little pony boy? This Travis is more likely you. When'd you decide to create a new profile?
I am the OP of this thread, and didn't even know that people were still commenting on it since I posted it in 2012...
Oh, I forgot to ask. How did things work out, Travis?
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Sorry to disappoint you, but I've never seen that person again. But I have made a lot of progress in terms of my social skills.
I graduated college with a Bachelor's, and I am currently still in college pursuing a Master's degree. I also managed to find a pretty good job while in school, and I was able to learn Japanese and travel to Japan and speak to people there.
I don't have any anxiety when it comes to speaking professionally (like at work or in school when I have to present a project), but I still cannot speak to anyone on an interpersonal level (especially females). It is something that I have learned to accept and realize that is just isn't for me, which isn't too bad I guess. But my increased social skills has gotten me pretty far and I am happier than before.
Sorry to disappoint you, but I've never seen that person again. But I have made a lot of progress in terms of my social skills.
I graduated college with a Bachelor's, and I am currently still in college pursuing a Master's degree. I also managed to find a pretty good job while in school, and I was able to learn Japanese and travel to Japan and speak to people there.
I don't have any anxiety when it comes to speaking professionally (like at work or in school when I have to present a project), but I still cannot speak to anyone on an interpersonal level (especially females). It is something that I have learned to accept and realize that is just isn't for me, which isn't too bad I guess. But my increased social skills has gotten me pretty far and I am happier than before.
Almost like you. I can salute and farewell girls and women and hardly speak about studies and work but still nothing more than that. I become red and sweat a lot while talking with them, so it's not very comfortable to talk with them like that!
My father said I should consume some kind of anti-anxiety pill because I have a hard time while driving too. Maybe we should take the pills.
Oh, wow, would have commented but it seems like an old post. lel
So, how have things been going for you regardless?
Almost like you. I can salute and farewell girls and women and hardly speak about studies and work but still nothing more than that. I become red and sweat a lot while talking with them, so it's not very comfortable to talk with them like that!
My father said I should consume some kind of anti-anxiety pill because I have a hard time while driving too. Maybe we should take the pills.
Use call girls for practice, and then see if that helps.
When it comes to women, failure is one of the best things that can happen to you. sure, you go up to them, chat, and it doesn't pan out. It just gives you more practice for when you go at it the next time. Failure not only a good way at evaluating your mistakes, but can even create a determination to help push you to get better at talking and acting around them, leading to better results in the end when it finally pans out.
95% of people that say they have no anxiety about approaching people they would like to socialize with are liars.
95% of people that say they have no anxiety about approaching people they would like to socialize with are liars.
True. People are always had to socialize with in some sense.
Interesting conversation, all. Just remember, to socialize effectively you must be fraudulent.
As an aside, it's interesting to see how many users left the site.
Still less dead them my old forums. god help me. lel
.... My problem, and I have no problems admitting it, is I just can't tell when a girl is feeling me. At all. So I end up holla'n at the wrong girl more then I'd like.
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Remember to be positive, for not making a move you spared yourself from bogus sexual harassment charges, especially if you had started the conversation with any kind of compliment.
You have to admit, a lot of those guys were pretty damn creepy. Especially the guy who kept walking beside her for like five minutes.
Not that I expect much else from a place like Manhattan. No offense to people who live in NYC but that place...
Dear God who resurrected this abomination of a thread?
Hopefully the OP was murdered by hobos.
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Dear God who resurrected this abomination of a thread?
Hopefully the OP was murdered by hobos.
I don't know.
Shall I commit intervention?