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[RPGmom28]

I'm sorry that you've had so much difficulty meeting women who aren't shallow. As an average looking girl I had the same problem in high school. My sister was a popular, pretty girl and every guy we met would go straight for her. But one day I met my husband, and he enjoyed a girl who he could have fun with, that liked scifi and gaming and so on, and he was able to look past the fact that I wasn't a size 2 or a gorgeous blonde. He was a pretty much penniless exterminator and I didn't care. Don't give up. Really.

[Charaxan]

NeferiusX3 wrote...



Lol no. As my other post said. I'm not very good looking. I live in a small town filled with little blondes and the like. They all like cheerleading and being snobs. They enjoy "Bad" boys who will beat them and yell at them. I'm the opposite of that, ugly and nice. Not hot and mean. Thus, I only get dirty looks from women when I approach them. And the all too familiar "Why the #%@ are you looking at me" Look, and the "You wish!" look. And how dare you try and speak to them.

Yeah I know that but trust me:  you don't want those child a as gf. Yeah they are child's and yeah they will meet someone who will ask them to be their slave. You will never be him. But you will be someone for someone because of your maturity on it. Patience is not easy but it is everything.

You always see in movies the not so pretty girl friend looking after a man who watch only dumb stupid childish girls.

It is true. I knew that. And let me be clear I am not Apollo... but human beeping is looking to share (this thread is a good exemple) not to fit in cases as males and females, procreate, and die.

You have a lot to share.

You know that, I know that, you just have to wait someone arrive in your life and... who know that.

An old wise man said: you may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one.

Once you know that, you know your life is not wasted to try to be "like them".

[Omnifarious Nef]

ErrorTagUnknown wrote...

Seargent_Braken wrote...

ErrorTagUnknown wrote...

Seargent_Braken wrote...

NeferiusX3 wrote...

Believe it or not, nearly everyone I meet tells me I look like Jesus. XD True story. I guess girls don't like that though, 21 years old, and have never had a girlfriend.

Exact same boat here. You aren't alone.

Guys - i'm going to tell you your problem right now.   it's your state of mind.   we're so damn lucky as men because women's taste in men varies so much....
i honestly think - and i don't give a damn what you look like - that you are probably either (A) not putting yourself out there... or ( holding back and not showing interest so you give them the impression you're just being a friend.  if you try and move on that point then it's just startling.... but i get it - you don't want to come on too strong and make it come off awkward.
I dunno - i think i've just had good luck falling into relationships just where i meet someone and we hit it off.... but i can be kind of a passionate intense person, so i guess it kind of drives me....  but i'm not good at initiating things.   i'm 29, married with 2 kids -- i've had like... 4 girlfriends not counting my wife (because we were only dating 2 months before we got married.... 6 years ago almost)... and had brief... things.... with a half dozen or so other girls.... but i'm just absolutely terrible at seeing a girl, chatting her up, getting her number, asking her out, etc.  the few times i've tried it it's just gone terribly.
it's always been that i'll just meet someone through friends and we'll start talking, and hit it off -- maybe another time or two after that, then it just kinda happens.  (though one time ... at "Denny's" ... but that's another story for another time)
i think you guys might be holding back on those opportunities because you're afraid of making things awkward.... or you're just not getting out there and meeting people.
anyway - i wish you the best of luck and happiness.  don't stress, you'll meet someone someday - probably soon.
i wish i knew everything i know now back when i was younger and single - had the self confidence / lack of self consciousness i have now....it's just a matter of letting go of fear.

Man, never expected this kind of advice from video game forums.

Anyway, thanks. I'll preface this by saying I'm really surprised I'm willing to be open about some of this stuff on forums.

I'll be really honest, I know that I have horrible self-esteem, and am afraid of making things akward. I have trouble interacting with people, especialy females.

I was homeschooled 3rd to 7th grade, and online schooled 8th through 12th grade. So I never really had a good chance to experience social interaction, and that has not helped. Also, I am slightly Autistic, and that makes interacting with others more diffcult than normal.

So... yeah. I'm a little lacking in the social area.

Sorry for the potential TMI. I just, for some reason, felt like getting that out there.

it's cool man.   I've had doctors in my childhood want to put me on the aspergers end of the spectrum...  But things turned out alright for me i think?
Meh.  It's always when you stop worrying about it.  It's always when you go "meh when it happens it'll happen"....  i think you just interact with the world and take what comes more readily and don't overthink stuff.

It may not help some people. But doing just that has helped me in the long run. The day I stopped caring about all things, my life became much better. I can now sit in a room with a circle of people around me, degrading me while a car full of babies crashes through the wall, and it wouldn't so much as bother me. It's actually been quite fun. Most things that seemed serious or emotional before, just seem cheesy and tacky now. Mother hates me for it now though. You know, that's actually pretty bad when I think about. Everyone you know hates you included your own mother. XD Oh that's grand. There must be someone out there with one hell of a good life!

[Omnifarious Nef]

LennethValkyrie wrote...

I've seen alot of people with N7 shirts in this thread.. I might consider buying one too now..

I want an N7 sweater now. XD replace my old Harley one.

[Omnifarious Nef]

SgtMac20 wrote...

Variasaber wrote...

SgtMac20 wrote...


Deep and brooding . . .



but the ladies love me!

Reminds me of this guy.

Very classy second pic by the way, I'm impressed. Add in a Walther PPK and you'd be doing a great Bond impression  

I missed the "axe-murderer" comparison photo link the first time around.  Uh . . . thanks.  Although here is a more recent pic that might lend credence to your point:

I take your axe face, and raise you a Grude face sir!

[Omnifarious Nef]

Master Che wrote...

ShadowHound wrote...

My glory days

He awakens from a 27 year stasis...

"I'm surrounded by primatives..."

This picture is actually quite hilarious.

[Omnifarious Nef]

Charaxan wrote...

NeferiusX3 wrote...



Lol no. As my other post said. I'm not very good looking. I live in a small town filled with little blondes and the like. They all like cheerleading and being snobs. They enjoy "Bad" boys who will beat them and yell at them. I'm the opposite of that, ugly and nice. Not hot and mean. Thus, I only get dirty looks from women when I approach them. And the all too familiar "Why the #%@ are you looking at me" Look, and the "You wish!" look. And how dare you try and speak to them.

Yeah I know that but trust me:  you don't want those child a as gf. Yeah they are child's and yeah they will meet someone who will ask them to be their slave. You will never be him. But you will be someone for someone because of your maturity on it. Patience is not easy but it is everything.

You always see in movies the not so pretty girl friend looking after a man who watch only dumb stupid childish girls.

It is true. I knew that. And let me be clear I am not Apollo... but human beeping is looking to share (this thread is a good exemple) not to fit in cases as males and females, procreate, and die.

You have a lot to share.

You know that, I know that, you just have to wait someone arrive in your life and... who know that.

An old wise man said: you may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one.

Once you know that, you know your life is not wasted to try to be "like them".

Oh don't worry, patience and I are good friends. Wait, that controdicts my no friends statement. Hah, my friends consist of inatimite objects, old sayings, and myself. Perfect for a sitcom! But in all seriousness. I'm quite patient. If I want something, it won't be next week when I get it, it will be a few years. I've waited 10 years to get a computer. And it's an old 1982 Transport X3000, with wavy pastel colors and all. Back when 1Ghz, was a 2000 dollar computer. I found it in a dumpster. I'm sure there's some sweet innocent girl out there who loves video games and si-fi and all that. But in order to find her, I would have to leave this town, which isn't really an option per say. (I have no money)

[Omnifarious Nef]

And with that, I believe I have caught up with this thread. Here is a congratulatory picture of my late dog. (It was the only picture I could find)

[Derek Hollan]

Remember, you asked.

http://i.imgur.com/hMuy8.jpg

Cheers

Modifié par Derek Hollan, 25 juillet 2012 - 05:15 .

[Omnifarious Nef]

Derek Hollan wrote...

Remember, you asked.

http://i.imgur.com/hMuy8.jpg?1

Cheers

So that's the man behind the screen! Also, I have that exact same lamp in my trailer.

Modifié par NeferiusX3, 25 juillet 2012 - 05:15 .

[KiraTsukasa]

My two cents on the subject...

I want a Kira/Lacus, Lloyd/Colette, Emil/Marta, Kirito/Asuna relationship where there may be disagreements, but at the end of the day it's a holding of the hands, small smile, silent but warm understanding that prevails over all.

I probably won't ever have that, but settling for anything less would be a disservice to my heart.

And that, as they say, is that.

Modifié par KiraTsukasa, 25 juillet 2012 - 05:21 .

[RedJohn]

Derek Hollan wrote...

Remember, you asked.

http://i.imgur.com/hMuy8.jpg

Cheers

He was playing ME3! 

Look at one of the screens reflexed in his glasses


Also, this picture should be upload to the Balance thread with the words "deal with it baby"

Modifié par RedJohn, 25 juillet 2012 - 05:27 .

[Derek Hollan]

RedJohn wrote...

Derek Hollan wrote...

Remember, you asked.

http://i.imgur.com/hMuy8.jpg

Cheers

He was playing ME3! 

Look at one of the screens reflexed in his glasses

Well, why not?

[RPGmom28]

It's like an Easter Egg. You could be saying, "Here is my pic, and BTW, I am awesome."

[Homey C-Dawg]

Haha what an interesting thread. Wonder how I missed it before now. Guess there's no harm since a pic of me is less revealing than my personal info, which is already floating all over the net.


^Me a few months ago with my new duster. I feel like Indiana Jones with that thing. Coincidentally my last name is Jones too lol.

[Derek Hollan]

RPGmom28 wrote...

It's like an Easter Egg. You could be saying, "Here is my pic, and BTW, I am awesome."

If I were awesome, I wouldn't need to say it.

[darkchief10]

adding my 2 cents
i want some who will be loyal, that's it
unlike my ex who ran back to canada when i was at work and only emailed me a year later telling me our relationship was a lie and that she was actually her best friends mistress the whole time we were dating long distance before she came down to texas to live with me for 2 years( same guy who she ran back to even though he's married. idiot.
YAY!
Edit: so i can't post pics of my self from my laptop? so how do i post pics then?

Modifié par darkchief10, 25 juillet 2012 - 05:31 .

[RedJohn]

darkchief10 wrote...

adding my 2 cents
i want some who will be loyal, that's it
unlike my ex who ran back to canada when i was at work and only emailed me a year later telling me our relationship was a lie and that she was actually her best friends mistress the whole time we were dating long distance before she came down to texas to live with me for 2 years( same guy who she ran back to even though he's married. idiot.
YAY!
Edit: so i can't post pics of my self from my laptop? so how do i post pics then?

Don't worry, if you get something here and do the same we will hater her all together

[KiraTsukasa]

darkchief10 wrote...
Edit: so i can't post pics of my self from my laptop? so how do i post pics then?

You'll have to upload them to something like Photobucket, then from there link it with img tags.

[SgtMac20]

NeferiusX3 wrote...

SgtMac20 wrote...

Variasaber wrote...

SgtMac20 wrote...


Deep and brooding . . .



but the ladies love me!

Reminds me of this guy.

Very classy second pic by the way, I'm impressed. Add in a Walther PPK and you'd be doing a great Bond impression  

I missed the "axe-murderer" comparison photo link the first time around.  Uh . . . thanks.  Although here is a more recent pic that might lend credence to your point:

I take your axe face, and raise you a Grude face sir!

I'll see your Grude face and raise you . . . Father O'Blivion!

[spirosz]

The guitar is me -

[darkchief10]

ok it should work now this me with halestorm:devil:

[DragonRacer]

Derek Hollan wrote...

Remember, you asked.

http://i.imgur.com/hMuy8.jpg

Cheers

Awesome! Thank you for accepting my challenge!

[Rafahil893]

Eh why not. Hotness that is me:

http://img.photobuck...08112007012.jpg

Modifié par Rafahil893, 25 juillet 2012 - 06:22 .

[Seargent_Braken]

Here's a pic of my orange cat, Buddy.



Here's one of my oldest, Snuggles.



And, as a bonus... (My father will most likely kill me for this. )