DoomsdayDevice wrote...
In destroy, (whether the results we see are real or not) you do what you came to do. You stay your ground. You're not dissuaded by Reaper propaganda. You keep fighting.
You didn't come to choose among suspicious options presented to you by the enemy. You didn't come to eliminate synthetics as a threat. How many did TIM "sacrifice" in the name of stopping the Reapers? How did that work out?
Destroy can be another wrong choice. I'm not saying it is, but it
can be. It's in the hands of the writers.
In refuse, you give up. You're disheartened by the choices presented to you and don't even want to fight on. You don't even want to destroy the Reapers anymore.You can't make the hard choices. Which means death of character for every Shepard.
Deciding
not to use the Crucible
isn't a hard choice? The fact that the so-called Catalyst prefers Destroy to Refuse doesn't give you pause?
Disobeying makes sense. Being suspicious as hell and remembering Anderson's words ("there's always another way") makes sense. I aim to misbehave.
I would even say refusing is stupid, because you doom the entire galaxy to extinction because you don't want to sacrifice EDI and the Geth (both of which have stated they are prepared to die for the cause).
I'd say this is metagaming. If IT is true, I say Shepard should wake up, keep fighting.
In literal, since Shepard didn't stupidly (try to) kill himself because the enemy convinced him it was necessary, Shepard is still in that war.
And don't give me that "no conventional victory" assertion. When you accuse
others of giving up, you don't get to use that argument.

Raistlin Majare 1992 wrote...
The difference I still think
is that Destroy is not an option presented by the Starchild in proper:
"I know you have thought about destroying us." It seems less like he is
presenting it and more like he acknowledges the choice existence too me
at least.
Except he explains in detail what will happen.
Damn thing knows too much. I
liked IT better before the extended Catalyst.
Beyond
that Destroy is not a compromise. Shepard came to destroy the Reapers
despite what sacrifices might be necesary, he is not agreeing to
anything but his own mindset and doing what he always came to do when
choosing Destroy.
Think of it this way:
After "Child" says synthetics would destroy
all organics, Shepard is willing to sacrifice
all synthetic life. Was he always? Or is he being influenced? Either way, I don't
particularly want to be that Shepard. It's no longer simply war, it's a
crime against sentience.
IT seems to forget just how nasty it is because "hey, hallucination, remember!"
"We destroy the Reapers or the Reapers destroy us". That's what we want. Instead, what we got is,
"We
destroy all synthetics (destroy) or the Reapers destroy us (reject)".
Then we go for destroy, wake up and oooooops, the Reapers are still
there. Bad day (oh, and Javik has the right idea. Bring me geth and an
airlock!!).
That is a joke...
Mostly playing devil's advocate here, as I don't have a Shepard that picked Reject anymore.