Shepard Cmdr wrote...
At the end of ME1 I felt victorious
Same with ME2
ME3 left me feeling like I had lost even post EC
I do not play a game to lose I play it to win.
Ditto. I mean, really, the first two games set Shep up against completely unrealistic odds of survival, let alone victory, but Shep managed to get it done and 'win'. All the commentary about 'knowing Shep was gonna die, knowing the end was gonna be bittersweet', well most of it is from folks I'd never seen post a thing prior to explosion after the game was released. I don't recall seeing a single thread prior to the game coming out where somebody demanded every ending of ME 3 MUST have Shep martyring him/herself. I know there were some that said there should be an OPTION for Shep to die, or that they figured there'd be an ending where Shep died(and one where the Reapers won), but I don't recall a call to arms for Martyr Space Jesus Shep. But I'll admit, FTL forums, I may have missed posts like that BEFORE the game came out.
And before the hog pile of 'my Shep didn't die'... Yeah, they did. Initially. Counting an easter egg that was offered up only to those who played MP or Apps - items which were NOT available to all players - is erroneous, IMO. Of course, post EC, many more SP only players can see the chest pump NOW, but not at the original games end, which is where my opinion was formed and the EC did nothing to change that.
Still felt like I lost the game. I mean, bittersweet is one thing in a movie I spend maybe two hours watching or even in a book which I spend the same time on. Totally different if it's at the end of a hundred plus hours of involvement. LMAO, crazy as it is, having people suggest I should be thrilled with the Shep's dead, suck it up(or Shep's barely hanging on but you won't ever know if s/he is ever 'right' again, let alone with his/her LI, na na na na na na speculate) because it's bittersweet and that's like AWESOME makes me quirk a brow, shake my head, and wonder.
Bittersweet hasn't ever been a flavor of choice for me, mostly since bittersweet generally isn't good. It's good to start, but leaves a bad taste in one's mouth. And most humans tend to remember negative things much longer and in more detail than good things. We're wired that way for good reason. Eat that berry that tastes good to start with, but turns acrid, and then makes you puke your guts up and nearly die - well, better to remember how bad it tasted and how sick you got than that it tasted great... at first.
FWIW, YMMV.