Isichar wrote...
I am not merely about you specifically, infact, I have had quite a number of destroy enders make this argument to me.
The point is what your are willing to sacrifice and whether the cost is worth it comes down to personal ideals, and if people want to question mine, or lack of, then I will do the same, which usually results in them telling me how right they are and how wrong I am.
As for your question, I did not make the choice based on whether or not people would be greatful to me, I made it based on what I believed to be best for the galaxy, and I fully believe that anything to do with the crucible and catalyst is not in the galaxy's best interest. The Catalyst's actions have done nothing but cause misery and suffering to everyone and everything, and I refuse to help it continue its actions even if that means sacrifing my cycle.
And yes I feel just as justified making that choice as anyone who decided to fire the crucible felt.
The question isn't whether you thought they'd be grateful, the question was do you think they would think you were selfish in saving their lives. As far as I'm concerned, the only justification I need for choosing an ending, or choosing to not choose, is because I felt it was what my Shepard would do. I don't have to tell everyone that they are selfish for choosing something other than what I chose, or that they are stupid, or any of the other items that get thrown around on a routine basis. It just so happens that being selfish is exactly why my Self Righteous Paragon would choose Refusal. He doesn't believe the galaxy is worth saving, and his opinion is all that matters. That's all I need to say, people can agree, or disagree, they can see the logic, or not, it doesn't matter to that Shepard, as he's basing it entirely on the morals/motivations that I have assigned to him to get to that point.
In short, if you're confrontational, as the OP here is, people are going to respond accordingly, nature of the beast. If you are assigning morals to your Shepard, and telling everyone that they should believe what you believe, they are going to respond accordingly. Nothing that you do in game adversely or positively affects my game. We are playing the same game, in alternate universes. It's not like it's an MMO, and what you do kills all my characters.
I do, however, find that some of these conversations can be enlightening, and some can even be fun. The problems start when people refuse to see any other view than their own as valid. You have come across this way, from the OP on. Is it surprising that people will vehemently disagree with you? I have actually come to have common ground with people here that disagree with some of my ideas about varying topics. Why? Because I don't believe in absolutes in a CRPG. I can, and will look beyond my experiences, and can and have stated that I would, for example in this topic, choose Refusal, although I did clarify that I don't see it as the morally right thing to do. I understand the consequences for the galaxy, and have chosen it specifically because of them, if I ever get to where I actually finish that game, anyway.