Antigone2283 wrote...
Namirsolo wrote...
I don't think Zevran was trying to be genuinely helpful, anyway. I think he was being catty.)
I think you are mistaken then. Zevran seems to me like the type of person who wants everyone to enjoy sex more.
I might buy that if Zevran wasn't one of the NPCs that gets surely when you try to kiss Alistair outside of camp. (And by the by, Alistair takes pleasure in annoying Morrigan by kissing in public)
This is my definition of the word prude. A prude is not someone who refuses to never ever have sex. It is usually a religious person who is "saving it" either for marriage or "the one". They want it to be perfect and special and therefore would not just discuss it with anyone. That is exactly how Alistair is (except if he's hardened, haha the puns...).
Maybe I'm misunderstanding you, but it seems like you're labeling anyone prude that is unwilling to talk about sex with someone other than their sexual partner and/or anyone who is unwilling to give up their virginity casually. Why should Alistair want to talk to Wynne or Morrigan about sex? Would you want to talk to your grandmother and 'that girl you hate from work' about their sex lives and their mother's sex lives? And what if some person you barely knew, and didn't at all like, started questioning your sexual ability and offering unsolicitied advice on sexual positions (in front of everyone, no less...)? It's not like Alistair waited for marriage, or even waited that long...my noble had him in the sack after completeing the mage tower quest, but BEFORE returning with the Urn. That's probably what....given travel times, a month spent together? So it's not like he's been saving it up for years and years for just the right moment: as he explains, this is really the first time in his life it's even been an option. He's pretty easy, really. All you have to do is laugh at his jokes and tell him you like his flower and enjoy his company, and the next thing you know, he's asking you to spend the night. You don't have to wear his abstinence ring or do it through a sheet or anything.
I'm not sure how to use this quote system completely yet, lol. I don't know what you mean by Zevran getting "surely" when you kiss Alistair in front of everyone. If you kiss Alistair in front of Zevran, Zevran will say "Don't mind me, I won't stare" and won't lose any approval. In fact, he never really has a problem with you sleeping with Alistair while you're sleeping with him (or at least he never says if he does.) His objection to you having both romances at once is that he doesn't want to hurt Alistair and that he's "not a cheat".
It's not that I want Alistair to have an intimate details conversation with everyone who tries to talk to him about sex, but it's that he balks when the subject is brought up at all. Wynne says something like "Mages aren't forbidden from having sex" and his response is basically "ew that's awkward." She was not asking him to talk about every detail of it. A simple response of "oh" from him would have sufficed. All Morrigan said was "Mother... kept company." and he's like "Ew, I guess I don't want to hear about that." when he could have you know.. just not said anything. It just seems like all of his banter implies that he does think sex is dirty.
To Zevran he could have said "Thanks but no thanks" (at least to the root part) without the immature "I can't hear you" line. I agree going into sexual positions is taking it a little too far, but that's Zevran. I guess I am taking issue to the way he articulates himself. I just find it really immature. When it comes down to it, Alistair's attitude about sex is a turn off to me. That's really all I was trying to say this whole time.
Oh, and one more thing.. Alistair does say in the course of the romance (I think it's only just after you've done it, so around 75 approval?) "You're the first person I slept with and if I have it up to me you'll be the last" so this to me seems to mean that he is equating sex with love.
It's really a personal philosophy difference, I guess. I just don't feel that way personally and find it a turn off.
I guess you and I will have to agree to disagree because I personally LOVE Zevran's accent. Alistair's got on my nerves until I realized he has the exact same accent as Jude Law, and then I liked him more. haha
Well, I'm not a lady in real life (surprise, surprise) but I
playthrough most of the time on a female character. And I have to say,
this game has some sorry male romance options. I mean, Alistair or
Zevran? I didn't like either of those guys. I romanced Alistair on one
of my playthroughs just because I wanted the achievement and I figured
my female PC needed some loving, but both were just awful. Absolutely
awful.
Compare them to Morrigan and Leliana. Who has the more compelling options? Male PCs or female?
Well, I can't speak for every girl but there are a lot of pages here where many of us feel strongly about either Zevran or Alistair being the better love interest. I think that means that we're quite happy with our options. I've always thought Bioware does an awesome job of writing romanceable males. I was pretty taken with Carth in Kotor, too.
I think that if you are a straight male, it may be that Zevran and Alistair were written more to appeal to females. I guess gay guys could correct me on this if I'm wrong. It makes sense for Alistair since he's only romanceable if your character is female, but Zevran can also be romanced by a male. Also, if you want your female character to have someone she can romance Leliana.
I have have done as much of Leliana's romance as possible until she gets jealous of Zevran and I "having been intimate" as she puts it, and find her pretty shallow, actually. I don't want to hear about hairstyles and shoes. I love her stories, but that's not really part of the romance. I also don't care for her "asking you into her tent" dialogue because she's trying to play coy and she's really not good at it all. Also, if you're propositioning someone for sex I think you should be a little more direct about it.
Morrigan is a neat character and I like her personality, but I have no idea what additional dialogue her romance gives you.
Modifié par Namirsolo, 29 décembre 2009 - 06:42 .