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[Khajiit Jzargo]

Well, here's the short version of the story. This chick has a sweet 16, she choose me to be her partner and courier, she's had a crush on me for years, but she never really admitted it. she's shy, but not to shy. Anyway today, a bunch of my friends and I hung over one of my friends house to watch movies on netflix. Then one of the girls there, told me a story (which is absurd and an obvious lie) that she and the girl who has a crush on me made a bet, they both loss, and now I'm forced to go to a double date with the girl that likes me and the other girl, my date, obviously being the girl that likes me.
This is manipulation (she has done similar things before)

-I can't say no because her sweet 16 is near
-I couldn't say no or make up an excuse there because I was surrounded by people.
-The story was very well thought out, so I couldn't accuse them for lying.

Now usually I have no problem, but the thing is that I might be entering a relationship soon with another girl, so that would be cheating. I'm in a very tight situation as I can't say no because it would make me look like a dick and would be messed up, but If I enter the relationship, it would be cheating.

What do I do?

[kirvingtwo]

You say "No", that you're not interested. End of story. It's not rocket science.

[Chromie]

Say no who the hell cares if her birthday is near?

[Kaiser Arian XVII]

Slap them, turn and leave the place like a boss!

[Tommyspa]

The only question I have is, how old are you? Should you be seen dating 16 yr olds? But you should go with the older girl, unless the younger girl is hotter.

[LPPrince]

You are very capable of saying no and having that be the end of it.

[breakdown71289]

Well what does your heart tell you?

[Rockworm503]

Khajiit Jzargo wrote...


-I can't say no because her sweet 16 is near

Thats where you're wrong my friend.
It sucks but thats how it is.  I quickly learned when my so called girlfriend (I'm using the term very loose here) was manipulating me and playing me for a fool and had no intention of returning the love I felt for her.  It was hard but it was so freeing when I finally said no and walked away.  If either of these girls truly like you then they'd let you choose with no tricks or strings attached.  Otherwise neither one of them are worth it.

[brushyourteeth]

Just say no. By October she'll already have a crush on another guy, and by this time next year she won't even remember what happened. I was a 16 year old girl once - trust me.

She'll hopefully also learn that manipulation is not a good way to get a guy, or at least not the way to catch your particular attention. If you're too scared to say no to this date, and then you go on it, where does it stop? Do you agree to be her boyfriend because you're scared of "looking like a dick"? Do you kiss her? A few years from now, do you marry her, all because you're scared to say no?

Naw, man - you've got balls, right? Use 'em.

[Cutlass Jack]

I'm a little confused on how thats a 'well thought out story.' Even if it were true they made a bet that involved you without your permission. You're not in any way obligated to do anything.

Just say no. Be polite but firm.

[xxBabyMonkeyxx]

This is my generation at work ladies and gentlemen!! Anyway just tell them no in a nice and firm way. And stick to your answer if and when the tears start.

[frustratemyself]

kirvingtwo wrote...

You say "No", that you're not interested. End of story. It's not rocket science.

^ This.

You have no obligation to someone if you're not interested.

Modifié par frustratemyself, 26 août 2012 - 07:54 .

[C9316]

Why the hell does it matter if it's her sweet 16? Tell her you don't want to date her, period..

[Olaf_de_IJsbeer]

Demanding that you date someone just because it's her birthday and trying to make you feel bad if you say no is a cheap and base trick. Don't give in.

Just be polite when you turn her down.

[RedArmyShogun]

Simple you fool, let me grant you the wisedom of the runes as handed down to me from Thor!

Oh Low and behold I haveth turnt the rune to page 53, neither 52 nor past into 54, and Thor Did speaketh to me...

First how is this a problem? All strong Warriors should seek a harem of many wives to beget many sons. The problem is the one you sneak for and the wretched cron of trickery and her man slave. Aye this is the challange.

First off you will agree to this parley, go with a long sword hidden under your dinner jacker or wool coat. Aye lad this is do-able I once seen a boy that had 8 pistols an Uzi and a shotgun hidden in his pants, you should learn from him! Now going with our plan before the agreeded date and time you must seek out a Wizard, normally dealings with wizards are to be shunned. However you are in need of two women and to get rid of a third and her manservent. So if Wizards be unappealing or you lack high mountains and book stores you may seek out an alchiemist, or as they are known now Drug Dealers, or street Guru's.

Once location of either be found ask for in this words alone "Yo Dawg I need some strong **** that will make someone flip out like crazy yo!" or in the case of a wizard or hobo ask as such "I need the elixer of internal madness to with forth I must fight a wicked witch!" Once the items are obtained you must start out on the "date" a date with fate!

Now at the dinner party or what have you, the man slave like all others will likely wish to get in his lady's pants tell him you have brought "magic" for him to pour in her drink. If however he seems a nobel man you must do this yourself, and pft I don't care if your all underage put it in the wenches tea!

Now we bide our time and switch the drinks for the woman who wants you...why not do that to begin with, simple seek challange in all things! Or hahaha mix it in both of there drinks! Once the combat starts draw your swrod and slash the witches head off in one stroke! Now however the man slave will either run or come to attack you, give your lady friend the sword and encourage her to kill him.

Once shes came back to her senses she'll be wanted for two counts of murder! *or more! Now she will have no choice but to run away with you, thus you can have a 2nd hidden family inside of a cave or your basement and have both women!

And thus did'th Thor Speak to me. And now I close the book of runes.

Modifié par Confess-A-Bear, 26 août 2012 - 03:36 .

[billy the squid]

Three simple words you should use. "I am gay"

Modifié par billy the squid, 26 août 2012 - 03:29 .

[Gibb_Shepard]

Produce and expel a rancid fart within her vicinity. If the Disney channel has taught me anything, it's that a nice waft of bum gas is enough to turn off even the most infatuated girl.

[Arch1eviathan]

Just be straight forward and honest. If you're not interested then so be it.If that upsets her than that is all on her.

[Cutlass Jack]

Gibb_Shepard wrote...

Produce and expel a rancid fart within her vicinity. If the Disney channel has taught me anything, it's that a nice waft of bum gas is enough to turn off even the most infatuated girl.

If Disney Channel has taught you anything, it should be that mentioning you watch it is enough to turn off the most infatuated girl.

[slimgrin]

Threesome.

/end thread

Modifié par slimgrin, 26 août 2012 - 04:00 .

[Cutlass Jack]

slimgrin wrote...

Threesome.

/end thread

16 years old.

/jail

[Babli]

If you know you are being manipulated then you must put an end to it. No way around it. No other solution.

Unless being manipulated by young princess is your thing.

Cutlass Jack wrote...

slimgrin wrote...

Threesome.

/end thread

16 years old.

/jail

Not in my country

[The Minority]

Option 1. Say no.
Option 2. Threesome.
Option 3. Fake your death, move to Puerto Rico, change your name to Pablo Ignacio Rodriguez. You will never see your family again.