I'm being manipulated to date this chick.
#76
Posté 27 août 2012 - 11:51
#77
Posté 27 août 2012 - 11:51
2) Could it be a friendly date? Like as friends or what ever?
3) You could just date this girl maybe you two will like each other, get married, have kids, etc.
4) Just be honest to a certain extent?
5) Ask one of your bro-friends to date this gal for you?
6) Just say no?
7) Come out of the closet?
#78
Posté 27 août 2012 - 11:56
#79
Guest_Logan Cloud_*
Posté 27 août 2012 - 11:56
Guest_Logan Cloud_*
"Should I go out with a girl I hate because it's her birthday? Or a girl who I love, and who loves me back?"
You REALLY have to ask that question?
#80
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:01
#81
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:02
Milan92 wrote...
Maybe the guy is insecure. So instead of acting like a jerk, you could atleast pretend to be nice. You get a lot futher in life when you do that.
That's debatable.
#82
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:04
#83
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:05
Milan92 wrote...
No it isnt.
Yes it is. Productive conversation.
#84
Guest_Logan Cloud_*
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:05
Guest_Logan Cloud_*
#85
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:08
#86
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:11
Milan92 wrote...
Ever heard of "If you cant say anything nice dont say anyhing at all"?
An ideal. Meaning it does not exist in actuality.
#87
Guest_Logan Cloud_*
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:20
Guest_Logan Cloud_*
But this thread is at 4 pages. Everyone's said the exact same thing. There's absolutely no point whatsoever in me answering seriously at this point in time.
Now let's continue to be honest. This was a stupid f*cking question. There's a perfectly good reason as to why everyone has said the exact same thing. Because the answer is obvious.
#88
Posté 28 août 2012 - 12:35
DuckSoup wrote...
Be a man and say no. It's the decent thing to do.
So much this. You are always the voice of reason.
#89
Posté 28 août 2012 - 01:01
DuckSoup wrote...
Be a man and say no. It's the decent thing to do.
How is that being the man? Being the man is ending up with a threesome amirite?
#90
Posté 28 août 2012 - 02:08
Skelter192 wrote...
DuckSoup wrote...
Be a man and say no. It's the decent thing to do.
How is that being the man? Being the man is ending up with a threesome amirite?
This.
Modifié par wsandista, 28 août 2012 - 02:08 .
#91
Posté 28 août 2012 - 02:43
Khajiit Jzargo wrote...
Well, here's the short version of the story. This chick has a sweet 16, she choose me to be her partner and courier, she's had a crush on me for years, but she never really admitted it. she's shy, but not to shy. Anyway today, a bunch of my friends and I hung over one of my friends house to watch movies on netflix. Then one of the girls there, told me a story (which is absurd and an obvious lie) that she and the girl who has a crush on me made a bet, they both loss, and now I'm forced to go to a double date with the girl that likes me and the other girl, my date, obviously being the girl that likes me.
This is manipulation (she has done similar things before)
-I can't say no because her sweet 16 is near
-I couldn't say no or make up an excuse there because I was surrounded by people.
-The story was very well thought out, so I couldn't accuse them for lying.
Now usually I have no problem, but the thing is that I might be entering a relationship soon with another girl, so that would be cheating. I'm in a very tight situation as I can't say no because it would make me look like a dick and would be messed up, but If I enter the relationship, it would be cheating.
What do I do?
Well, personally I think the whole "sweet sixteen" celebration is a pointless and overly-dramatic celebration. Yes, sixteen is a milstone but 21 is a bigger one. Ax the weet sixteen and introduce a tubular twenty-one, where everybody gets together with a limo and gets drunk as hell.
That would be better.
As for your dilema, explain that you can't do this because you are with someone and you are faithful to her. Basically, you should respectfully decline. Also, you don't know that this isn't a set up to see if you stay loyal to your current girlfriend. Don't do anything stupid. Better to say no and hurt her feelings than to cheat on your girlfriend and ruin your relationship. This girl will get over it. Just tell her no, but be nice about it.





Retour en haut







