MissRedZelda wrote...
But, no matter what you do, it all ends disastrously. The Keeper becomes possessed and we have to kill her, and then the whole clan turns against Merrill and we're forced to kill them. What really gets me about it is how Merrill reacts to it all. She blames THEM and doesn't see the error of her ways. If anything, it makes her seem incredibly arrogent. Convincing them otherwise (as in, leaving without a fight) earns rivalry points from Merrill.
Yes, the Keeper becomes possessed because she sabotages Merrill's work and throws herself to the demon instead of letting the person who knows how to handle demons do her own work. She throws herself in front of the demon rather than offering to help Merrill repair the mirror like the girl wanted all along so she doesn't have to rely on the demon's assistence anymore. (Again, Merrill only turned to the demon when Marethari refused to help.)
Admittedly, while I see nothing inherently dangerous about Merrill reconstructing the mirror (again, Morrigan did the same with wonderful results), I believe Merrill's decision to consort with a demon to repair the mirror was a dangerous move. Just because Marethari refused to help doesn't mean she should have turned to a demon to give her blood magic. She could have been patient and sought help from other clans, tried to access lyrium, maybe contacted former Circle mages, tried to sneak people into the Circle to access their library... something else.
I think Merrill has a point about the clan never believing in her or trusting her. Think what you will about the demon, but the fact that they never trusted her instincts, knowledge or research on the mirror, never believed in her ability to handle it, never even gave her the chance to prove herself or her venture before vilifying and exiling her, directly sabotaged her carefully planned efforts and then blamed her when things went wrong (like igniting a gunpowder mixture before it's finished and then blaming her for the blast)... They contributed to the problems almost as much as she did.
Just because something is traditional to a culture does not mean it's right. I really hate bringing real life examples in, but I feel I need to. Sharia Law, for example, is supposedly traditional. However, some aspects of it would not fly in today's day and age. Especially the ones concerning the extremely chauvinistic treatment of women. I highly doubt it would be seen as right to stone a woman to death for supposed adultery in this day and age. Also, the Japanese position of Seppeku, and the assisting of it. That would be considered murder, tradition or not.
False analogies. We're not talking about social traditions, we're talking about physical artifacts that could be used to benefit a society. Lynching was a horrible social practice in early American history, but the rope used to make the noose was no more evil than ropes used to help build buildings or set up tents.
I would also feel that it's important to remember the less savory traditions of cultures, even if people don't practice them anymore. I would argue that it's important make sure we learn from it, rather than trying to bury it and pretend it never happened. (Like US history textbook companies trying to whitewash history by publishing textbooks that remove or downplay white Christian European travesties in times past like the slave trade.)
It just gets to me when people hide behind their culture as a means of justifying their actions. Regardless, what Merrill was doing was dangerous. She completely disregarded the fact that the mirror turned Tammlenn into a monster, and killed Mahariel (if you didn't choose him/her). Elven or not, one would not touch that thing with a ten foot pole if they were aware of that fact. Fighting Darkspawn is one thing. Fighting a demonic possession is another.
What are you talking about?
The mirror did not turn Tamlen into a monster. The taint in the mirror did it.
The mirror did not kill Mahariel. The taint in the mirror did it. Remove the taint and the mirror could not kill you or turn you into a monster any more than the arulin'holm used to repair it. Merrill recognizes this, the clan doesn't.
I really don't mean to debate ethics with you, Fae.
You're not debating ethics so much as throwing out fallacy after fallacy.
I like Merrill, I do. But there are just aspects of her character that get to me. It's a slippery sloap. As a friend, you want to look out for your friends, and make sure they are safe and making the right desicions. If they are straying, it's a friends duty to tell them so.
And, of course, you are conveniently the one who knows what the "right decisions" are, and your friend is automatically making all of the "wrong decisions" or "straying" just because you don't understand or agree with it.
If I heard my friend was messing around with a mirror that caused the death of two people she grew up with, I would be rightfully concerned.
Except when you wrongfully believe the mirror itself is dangerous when it clearly isn't. Except when you have such a low opinion of her that you believe she's just "messing around with" it rather than doing any legitimate research or reconstruction.
I wouldn't care if it was "a traditional relic of her people", my mind would firmly be on her safety. It's what friends do, they look out for each other. Not doing or saying anything would imply that I am not a caring friend.
It's one thing to say something, it's another to try to take the choice out of their hand and do it. It's one thing try to listen and understand and still decide that you just don't feel that what they're doing is safe. It's another to decide before even learning what the situation is that you know the what the "right decision" is and any way they disagree is automatically the "wrong decision." Especially when you won't even take the time to learn how and why they make the decision they do in the first place.
Modifié par Faerunner, 06 février 2013 - 02:55 .