3DandBeyond wrote...
Apparently you have also failed to understand what Applepie is talking about. My suggestion here has always been to find a way that would allow those who like the EC as is to keep what they now have, but for those that don't to add to what is now there-optional content. I have suggested ways to do this and have also suggested that those that are unhappy here would pay for this compromise from BW. We compromise by paying, they by addressing one way to at least make the game and an ending playable for us. I've asked for nothing from those that claim to like what they now have-in what I think is an unselfish stance, I did not want to take anything away from them.
There's a difference between demands and sugestions. Applepie isn't open to sggestions.
3DandBeyond wrote...
For making suggestions and merely asking BW to take another look at all of this and in trying to get the tone a bit less acidic, I've been called all kinds of names. This is in explanation to you and not because I'm saying, "poor me." I've been called selfish many times for making suggestions and for telling BW that my goal is to help them continue making a profit from this series, to help make DLC more popular and desirable for many that right now don't have any interest, to bring back a huge crowd of people to make more ME and ME type games possible, and to tone down the hatred and the noise. I've expressed the real love I've had for these games and for BW for making them. For all of this, I've been called all the same old buzz words meant to enflame-hater, whiner, blah, blah, blah.
Suggestions can be made and questions can be asked, but once the demands appear then the middle ground can't be reached.
3DandBeyond wrote...
I've been told (seriously) that this suggestion would be wrong because too many people would want it-and that's bad, how?
I've been told that Bioware doesn't take requests-this from someone who currently has a poll up and an almost month old thread that s/he keeps bumping for attention, where s/he is requesting things from BW related to the endings, mostly cerberus fights in all.
It's been stated that I am stupid, don't understand the endings if I don't like them, and that I don't understand what real life is all about. I've been told that I don't understand what WWII was about, though several members of my family fought in it. I've been told that I don't understand real war, though I have personally known of young people (who could be my children) who have sacrificed much or all in real war. I've been told that I can't make tough choices and when I've given an example of where I have made such tough choices I've been accused of lying, insulted, and had my example called a fake.
I have experienced many things in my life (as have many others so I am not unique) and yet, I can honestly say I have not experienced such repeated hatred before (that some try to claim is not hatred) and this over a game. And over suggestions for things that are not nasty items. These people act as if I'm suggesting some horrible acts be committed at the end, when what I'm saying is that for many of us the endings require we commit what in our opinions are those horrible acts. We are asking for something a bit kinder and satisfying and authentic-even with real consequences. We are asking for something that affirms what we see as a realistic version of life worth living, diversity, unity, and redemption. We aren't asking for anything hateful, but hate is being thrown around.
I've hoped that all people could tone down the nastiness a bit and for expressing things like love and life and great characters and all, I get responses that seem to indicate personalities that I think are from another planet. I can't be nice about this. It's like if I say I really love babies and I'm getting told I'm an idiot because only dead babies are great. That is what this all feels like. I can't relate to people that call me selfish when I've expressed myself otherwise, and when they come here and are the best examples of selfishness I've ever seen. I can't relate to people that think that death is artistic and that tell me I don't understand the real world or war because in saying that I think they are proving that they are the ones that don't understand it.
Agreed.
3DandBeyond wrote...
In light of this, all I can do is repeat my wishes and my hopes and determine that things can still change for the better. The best qualities in people are brought to the surface when they adhere to a willingness to compromise and shift their positions ever so slightly. It's the only way we can get beyond any certain point and the only way we can learn to work together. To not do so, diminishes us all.
There's no real problems here especially when you are willing to conpromise.