BongMong wrote...
To an RPGer there is no such thing as a competent or incompetent build. They are all just character builds. Stating that an RPGer could/should make a 'competent' build and then design a char around it makes no sense in an RPG context. All builds are competent if they fit the role. Goal achieved.
Ever play a bard or paladin or monk in Third Edition D&D? There's no good justification for a wizard taking any of those people along with him to solve a serious problem, unless it's from a cynical desire to have some warm bodies around in case he loses initiative. (And even then, he'd have been better off with a druid, whose animal companion is cheaper to bring along and easier to replace.)
All characters are not equally competent, and in
any RPG the players who claim to care the most about roleplaying are usually the first ones to break the fourth wall by insisting that their characters have a right to be part of the group regardless of how despairingly bad they are.
Personally, I see ME3 as being at the conscription stage of the war, Total War style. What may be considered 'elite' by the time Earth is ripped apart is anyone who can use military weapons.
Anyone who can hold a gun is likely being pressed into service during this phase of the Reaper War, but that doesn't make him or her a member of an elite special forces unit. There has been no point in human history where a conscript army hasn't also had well-trained, well-equipped units to accomplish critical tasks.
To bring this back around to the topic: the reason some randoms get on other players' nerves is that they're so
bad. They're welcome to play whatever they want in whatever way they want, but in Gold almost every team needs to work together--and that's impossible to do when one player either doesn't understand the game or is (for whatever reason) deliberately hitting under his or her weight class.
To me, it's not about elitism, it's about courtesy and recognition of one's own limitations. (This is, among other reasons, why I don't play Platinum.)