Let me get this straight. I'm about to undertake an extremely dangerous mission, and you want me to trust my life to a random stranger with absolutely no knowledge of them whatsoever? I might as well shoot myself in the head right there, because that's stupid. You don't pick someone for a task based on their looks, especially if it's life or death. You ask them "hey, either of you know how to shoot a gun, either of you know anything about hand to hand combat," etc.Xenharmonic wrote...
daecath wrote...
You're half right. No one should be ashamed of their natural qualities. People are much much more complex than the configuration of one chromosome. Saying that there's such a thing as a behavioral or personality trait that is based entirely on a physical characteristic like what is between a person's legs is just as backwards, just as caveman thinking as saying that there's such a thing as a behavioral or personality trait that is based entirely on a physical characteristic like the color of a person's skin or their hair or their ethnic background. And yes, there are still some that believe that, who think that just because you look a certain way, you must be a certain type of person. Most of us however have evolved past that, and see that type of thinking for the sheer stupidity that it is. Yet somehow, gender stereotyping, which is exactly the same thing as stereotyping by race or any other physical characteristic, is still prevelent and widely accepted.Xenharmonic wrote...
daecath wrote...
"Masculinity" and "femininity" are simply societal imposed stereotypes. Seriously, how stupid do you have to be to believe that with over a hundred billion nerve cells in the brain, dozens of neurochemicals, and 46 chromosomes with over 6 billion base pairs in our DNA, that the entire spectrum of humanity can be shoved into one of two boxes.
Don't worry about "masculinity" or "femininity", just be yourself. The world would be a lot happier place if everyone did that.
Masculinity and Femininity are the natural characteristics of males and females respectively.
Neither gender should be ashamed of these natural qualities.
Hold on, the existence of stereotypes isn't necessarily a bad thing.
Understanding that an individual belonging to a group is likely to behave a certain way (women, men, people from different countries etc) can be helpful.
Let me give you a concrete example. Let's say you have to choose a squadmake to undertake a dangerous mission with. You can either choose a random man, or a random woman. Which would you pick?
My brother is 6'3", weighs 200+, and looks like he could break you in half with a sideways glance. My sister is about 5'6", weighs probably a buck 20 in a heavy rainstorm, and looks like she'd snap in half if you look at her funny. I would pick my sister in a fight over my brother any day of the week and twice on Sunday. He's a teddy bear, she's a mountain lion. Yet looking at them, you would assume the opposite. And you'd be an idiot for doing so.
Yes, if you are ever in a situation where you need to make an instantaneous decision based on almost no information, you're going to have to rely on past experience and play the odds (which usually results in stereotyping). But how often are you in that kind of situation? Relying on and perpetuating stereotypes, even in those situations, is fundamentally detrimental. It could lead you to overlook crucial information simply because you're not open to seeing it. For instance, in the scenario you present, if you assume that the man is the better option because he's a man, and thus more capable of physicality and violence, then you would miss more subtle clues, like the fact that the man is wearing $200 loafers, and the woman is wearing army boots.




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