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EpicBoot2daFace wrote...
My point was about the marketing and how they use it to attract women who would normally not bother with something like Dragon Age.


Why, pray tell?  :| Please.   Enlighten us.

This is assuming that they market romances for a female audience, which is false anyway.

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EpicBoot2daFace wrote...

Melca36 wrote...

EpicBoot2daFace wrote...

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EpicBoot2daFace wrote...


Furthermore, these 'romances' are just a cheap marketing ploy used by EA to attract female gamers who would otherwise play The Sims if the characters spoke a real language.



Romance were always present in Bioware's game though. And about the LI of the most recent Bioware games (ME2, ME3 and DA2), we have the LI like Isabela (big breast) Miranda (catsuit, high heels, asshots) Jack (nearly nude),  and Ashley (bigger boobs). While I know that those aren't the defining traits of those characters, they are created in a way to appeal the male gamers.

You're right, but they were always more subtle and a very minor part of the game. Think back to KOTOR and Jade Empire. But my point was that they want to find ways to appeal to female gamers. What better way to do that than through these romances?

Doesn't this thread and the (many) others talking about marriage and babies prove that this type of marketing has been successful?



Its 2012 not 1997. 47% of gamers are women. I suggest you learn to DEAL WITH IT! We're not going away.

My point was about the marketing and how they use it to attract women who would normally not bother with something like Dragon Age.


Dude. They've been snowing you with marketing ploys all your life, romance or not - male or female. Don't just point the finger at women and say, "There's romance in DA and it's a pointless marketing ploy." I can just as easily say, "There's excessive gore in DA and it's a pointless marketing ploy." 

As if Lara Croft's breast size wasn't a marketing ploy...


RinjiRenee wrote...


Why, pray tell?  :| Please.   Enlighten us.

This is assuming that they market romances for a female audience, which is false anyway.



THANK you. Men have emotions too. They enjoy romance too. They are not all robots, numb below the waist. 

Modifié par Trista Faux Hawke, 20 septembre 2012 - 06:49 .


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An optional wedding at the END of the game would be okay, as long as I can have it with my same sex love interest too.  That, in my opinion, would be an enhancement to the way endings have been handled lately.


that is part of why it probably won't happen. there are no same sex marriages in Thedas. http://www.gamebansh...m-activity.html

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EpicBoot2daFace wrote...


My point was about the marketing and how they use it to attract women who would normally not bother with something like Dragon Age.


Dictating what women generally like and what we would and would not bother with is not attempting to put us in a certain place at all.

Modifié par Emzamination, 20 septembre 2012 - 06:48 .


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The Hierophant wrote...

RinjiRenee wrote...

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I like the romances.   And I was really blown away with the wedding mod that was done.  My female elf rogue feels sad being a mistress now.  Too bad I couldn't get Morrigan a proper wedding with my male Warden, she came up with the rings and all, but she refused to have a proper Chantry wedding.


Good god man, did you even speak to Morrigan?


Using the gift system, you hardly have to.

lulz...

Who can resist a pair of soiled pants?

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Well, whatever. This thread got real stupid, real fast. I just thought it'd be a fun quest option (wedding quest), should a player choose it. And if they don't want it, they didn't have to choose it at all.

I love how I'm constantly reminded that gaming is still a boy's club and anything that might appeal to women (but apparently doesn't appeal to men - yeah right) is just pointless. I'm so sorry that women have interests too, as well as lesbians, and gay men, and straight men, and bisexual people, transgender, those of ambiguous gender and orientation, and so on and so forth. Each of these people have access to money, gaming consoles, and your local Gamestop. Their tastes are going to be varied. 

But - oh - the boy's club. That's right. For they have spoken!

People are so offended over this tiny suggestion of a wedding quest. Sad.

I'm bowing out, which is really disappointing since I created the thread to begin with....


Just because people disagree with what you're suggesting doesn't make
all of them stupid, defective, or sexist. Don't take it so damn
personally when someone disagrees with you.

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Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

Well, whatever. This thread got real stupid, real fast. I just thought it'd be a fun quest option (wedding quest), should a player choose it. And if they don't want it, they didn't have to choose it at all.

I love how I'm constantly reminded that gaming is still a boy's club and anything that might appeal to women (but apparently doesn't appeal to men - yeah right) is just pointless. I'm so sorry that women have interests too, as well as lesbians, and gay men, and straight men, and bisexual people, transgender, those of ambiguous gender and orientation, and so on and so forth. Each of these people have access to money, gaming consoles, and your local Gamestop. Their tastes are going to be varied. 

But - oh - the boy's club. That's right. For they have spoken!

People are so offended over this tiny suggestion of a wedding quest. Sad.

I'm bowing out, which is really disappointing since I created the thread to begin with....


Just because people disagree with what you're suggesting doesn't make
all of them stupid, defective, or sexist. Don't take it so damn
personally when someone disagrees with you.


I took it personally when gender came into play. Disagreeing is one thing. Blaming women (and trivializing their alleged interests) for suspected marketing ploys, while ignoring the fact that men enjoy romance too, is quite another thing. But regardless, I apologize for my heated reply.

Modifié par Trista Faux Hawke, 20 septembre 2012 - 06:53 .


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EpicBoot2daFace wrote...

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I'd like the option to connect two potential LIs to each other. For example, instead of wooing Alistair or Leliana, you could help them find each other. (Sort of like Aveline and Donnic, if both were also potentially romanceable companions).

Out of all the stupid romance bull**** on this forum, this is actually a pretty good idea. At least it would allow the player to become more involved without actually becoming involved.


It's not stupid, you're just bias.

The way people go on and on about it is stupid. Marriage and having babies? It's ****ing ridiculous. It's supposed to be a video game, not a life simulator. 

Furthermore, these 'romances' are just a cheap marketing ploy used by EA to attract female gamers who would otherwise play The Sims if the characters spoke a real language.


Why would EA want to take gamers away from the Sims?  EA owns the Sims, and they probably make the most money from that franchise given that the Sims Store seems to be a very popular place.

Some people think that romance adds to a story.  I certainly do.  Most great literature has love and romance, at least as a sub plot.  It gives the characters more depth.

edit: Besides, what is wrong with appealing to female gamers?  Our money spends just as well as yours, and there are an awful lot of us.  However, I know plenty of male gamers who enjoy in-game romances as well.  

Modifié par ejoslin, 20 septembre 2012 - 06:58 .


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Some people think that romance adds to a story.  I certainly do.  Most great literature has love and romance, at least as a sub plot.  It gives the characters more depth.


Even the Aubrey-Maturin series has romance.  The covers look like this:

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Draw whatever conclusions you want from these facts.

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Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

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Well, whatever. This thread got real stupid, real fast. I just thought it'd be a fun quest option (wedding quest), should a player choose it. And if they don't want it, they didn't have to choose it at all.

I love how I'm constantly reminded that gaming is still a boy's club and anything that might appeal to women (but apparently doesn't appeal to men - yeah right) is just pointless. I'm so sorry that women have interests too, as well as lesbians, and gay men, and straight men, and bisexual people, transgender, those of ambiguous gender and orientation, and so on and so forth. Each of these people have access to money, gaming consoles, and your local Gamestop. Their tastes are going to be varied. 

But - oh - the boy's club. That's right. For they have spoken!

People are so offended over this tiny suggestion of a wedding quest. Sad.

I'm bowing out, which is really disappointing since I created the thread to begin with....


Just because people disagree with what you're suggesting doesn't make
all of them stupid, defective, or sexist. Don't take it so damn
personally when someone disagrees with you.


I took it personally when gender came into play. Disagreeing is one thing. Blaming women (and trivializing their alleged interests) for suspected marketing ploys, while ignoring the fact that men enjoy romance too, is quite another thing. But regardless, I apologize for my heated reply.


It's cool, and I understand because I'm also a woman, but I just don't like being lumped-in with Bootstotheface just because I would rather not have a wedding. 

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i always thought TOR surprisingly did this well(might be the only one), had marriage off screen and talk about kids(a little tidbits about the relationship), however i would love DA to flesh out these scenes better, with of course choices to marry or not or whether or not to have kids, but i could see this being alot of development time just on different outcomes

Edit: i think marriage should be at the end(if companion and world makes sense) and engagement can happen at a certain point in the game

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Just because it can have a emphasis on marriage does not make it a feature exclusive to dating sims.Like I said, your looking for any type of similarity to back your stance.Every feature you've mentioned has been used in different genres.And with that logic, I could just as easily say I don't want romances moving towards action titles (prince of persia)


 I could ask that a director implement car chases into a romantic comedy. And someone could tell me "no, I don't want elements of action films in my romantic comedies". I would probably tell them "okay" rather than freak out and attempt to make some blanket statement about not every action film requiring car chases to be an action film. You could (for example) find stats and leveling up in most any genre you wanted (FPS, tps, sports, racing, etc). I'd still consider that particular element to be representative of the RPG genre. I would say "Oh, game X has RPG elements".

Hence why I find your responses funny, since they're so obsessed with attacking the dating simulator comment, which wasn't even the important aspect of my post: the dislike of romance in Bioware games. I do not believe a wedding to be a necessary part of a dating simulator. I do however consider anything which builds towards an emphasis on finding a partner, wooing a partner, or otherwise focusing on romantic relationships to be something similar in focus to a dating simulator. Bioware games have had (increasing) elements of this than in the past, even if I wouldn't say that Bioware games are dating simulators. Again, the comparative degree of adjective is an important aspect of grammar to know.
 
"Bioware games are more like dating simulators" is not even remotely "Bioware games are dating simulators".

Modifié par Il Divo, 20 septembre 2012 - 07:16 .


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Well, whatever. This thread got real stupid, real fast. I just thought it'd be a fun quest option (wedding quest), should a player choose it. And if they don't want it, they didn't have to choose it at all.

I love how I'm constantly reminded that gaming is still a boy's club and anything that might appeal to women (but apparently doesn't appeal to men - yeah right) is just pointless. I'm so sorry that women have interests too, as well as lesbians, and gay men, and straight men, and bisexual people, transgender, those of ambiguous gender and orientation, and so on and so forth. Each of these people have access to money, gaming consoles, and your local Gamestop. Their tastes are going to be varied. 

But - oh - the boy's club. That's right. For they have spoken!

People are so offended over this tiny suggestion of a wedding quest. Sad.

I'm bowing out, which is really disappointing since I created the thread to begin with....


Just because people disagree with what you're suggesting doesn't make
all of them stupid, defective, or sexist. Don't take it so damn
personally when someone disagrees with you.


I took it personally when gender came into play. Disagreeing is one thing. Blaming women (and trivializing their alleged interests) for suspected marketing ploys, while ignoring the fact that men enjoy romance too, is quite another thing. But regardless, I apologize for my heated reply.


It's cool, and I understand because I'm also a woman, but I just don't like being lumped-in with Bootstotheface just because I would rather not have a wedding. 


Trust me, you're not. You didn't turn it into a gender issue.

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And furthermore, for everyone who has their panties in a tangle over a wedding option - I SAID IT WAS AN OPTION. You know, like, you also have the option to not do it.


Not to belabor a point, but being optional doesn't really alter the issue. Sure, it's good in that a wedding wouldn't actively detract from my enjoyment. But when you consider the long term, that any resources could be used to something you want, at best it's resources which you don't see back in any form. If those wedding resources could instead go to more party dialogue or a side quest similar to Jade Empire's Imperial Arena (for example), there's no reason to support such a feature for anyone uninterested.

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lol.

I kind of hope Bioware devs read this thread and say, "To hell with it!" and throw in a "Get Married" optional side quest just to rub some people the wrong way who pick on female gamers (for some weird reason), and insist weddings etc. are fluffy, marketing ploys for women only. I also hope they work in some sarcastic character banter about men, women, and romance. 

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Depends on the character. I don't think every character would like to get married. Some would, some won't.

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Il Divo wrote...

Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

And furthermore, for everyone who has their panties in a tangle over a wedding option - I SAID IT WAS AN OPTION. You know, like, you also have the option to not do it.


Not to belabor a point, but being optional doesn't really alter the issue. Sure, it's good in that a wedding wouldn't actively detract from my enjoyment. But when you consider the long term, that any resources could be used to something you want, at best it's resources which you don't see back in any form. If those wedding resources could instead go to more party dialogue or a side quest similar to Jade Empire's Imperial Arena (for example), there's no reason to support such a feature for anyone uninterested.


Ahh so the inability to share a bit of resources is what drives people to object. Mmmk.

(lol. "It's mine! All mine!")

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If Bioware includes a wedding as part of the game I'll guarantee that it'll be a big set up for some giant disaster/attack/betrayal. They have to make sure their Tears of Despair ™ storage tanks stay full.


I'm all for this angle, actually.  For me personally, a story's not good unless it punches me right in the feels.  Not the good feels, the bad feels.  Happy endings/stories do nothing for me.  But a story/ending that sends me through a range of emotions....rage anger despair woe happiness depression....that's a good story.  I think I might quite like a wedding that ends in death, murder, and betrayal.  AND WEIRD I'M A WOMAN AND WOULD RATHER HAVE BLOOD AND GORE THAN PUPPIES AND BUNNIES.

That's why I love you so much Bioware.  You never fail to punch me right in the feels.  You punch me real good.

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Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

lol.

I kind of hope Bioware devs read this thread and say, "To hell with it!" and throw in a "Get Married" optional side quest just to rub some people the wrong way who pick on female gamers (for some weird reason), and insist weddings etc. are fluffy, marketing ploys for women only. I also hope they work in some sarcastic character banter about men, women, and romance. 


If there is a 'get married' optional side quest thrown into the game, it will be more a Red Wedding style quest than a 'happily ever after' and it won't be the tears of people picking on female gamers the writers will be feasting upon.

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Bioware need to take the Skyrim approach to relationships, cold, soulless and straight to the point.

This obsession with relationships and in game smoochiness in general is getting out of control.

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Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

Ahh so the inability to share a bit of resources is what drives people to object. Mmmk.

(lol. "It's mine! All mine!")


Well, you know how it starts, I make an exception for you, then I make an exception for the next person who wants the Arcane Warrior back in its original incarnation, so on and so forth. Seems a rough time choosing what features I wouldn't want in the next game, but am willing to share with.

But I'm not hypocritical; I don't expect other people to support what I want just because I want it. I argue what I want, you argue what you want, Bioware decides the rest or ignores us completely.

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kingjezza wrote...

Bioware need to take the Skyrim approach to relationships, cold, soulless and straight to the point.

This obsession with relationships and in game smoochiness in general is getting out of control.


Nah. It just seems magnified because we're on a forum where people tend to fixate. It's different when we sit down and play the game. I personally believe there's a bigger picture there that everyone enjoys. The Internet is just good at masking that for the time being.

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Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

Il Divo wrote...

Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

And furthermore, for everyone who has their panties in a tangle over a wedding option - I SAID IT WAS AN OPTION. You know, like, you also have the option to not do it.


Not to belabor a point, but being optional doesn't really alter the issue. Sure, it's good in that a wedding wouldn't actively detract from my enjoyment. But when you consider the long term, that any resources could be used to something you want, at best it's resources which you don't see back in any form. If those wedding resources could instead go to more party dialogue or a side quest similar to Jade Empire's Imperial Arena (for example), there's no reason to support such a feature for anyone uninterested.


Ahh so the inability to share a bit of resources is what drives people to object. Mmmk.

(lol. "It's mine! All mine!")

Bioware doesn't have infinite resources or time when developing a game.(E.g. Dragon Age 2 or Mass Effect 3 to a lesser degree.)

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The Hierophant wrote...

Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

Il Divo wrote...

Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

And furthermore, for everyone who has their panties in a tangle over a wedding option - I SAID IT WAS AN OPTION. You know, like, you also have the option to not do it.


Not to belabor a point, but being optional doesn't really alter the issue. Sure, it's good in that a wedding wouldn't actively detract from my enjoyment. But when you consider the long term, that any resources could be used to something you want, at best it's resources which you don't see back in any form. If those wedding resources could instead go to more party dialogue or a side quest similar to Jade Empire's Imperial Arena (for example), there's no reason to support such a feature for anyone uninterested.


Ahh so the inability to share a bit of resources is what drives people to object. Mmmk.

(lol. "It's mine! All mine!")

Bioware doesn't have infinite resources or time when developing a game.(E.g. Dragon Age 2 or Mass Effect 3 to a lesser degree.)


I didn't say they did. I'm just laughing at the metaphorical "hogging" of all the legos. It's all a bit silly to worry about, really. These threads are full of hypotheticals, that's all.

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Tasmen wrote...

Trista Faux Hawke wrote...

lol.

I kind of hope Bioware devs read this thread and say, "To hell with it!" and throw in a "Get Married" optional side quest just to rub some people the wrong way who pick on female gamers (for some weird reason), and insist weddings etc. are fluffy, marketing ploys for women only. I also hope they work in some sarcastic character banter about men, women, and romance. 


If there is a 'get married' optional side quest thrown into the game, it will be more a Red Wedding style quest than a 'happily ever after' and it won't be the tears of people picking on female gamers the writers will be feasting upon.


I like the way you think... :kissing: