The Ethereal Writer Redux wrote...
It's been seven to ten years since the mage origin.
He seems to have still been shy around ladies in Enemies Among Us, where he's very bashful about his attempts at talking to the ladies there.
Still, those happen in a relatively subsequent timeline -- roughly a year or two -- so perhaps he has grown out of it. Maybe he can talk to women he finds attractive -- or are very Isabela-esque in what they say -- and has no problems with it.
And for reasons I don't know, I just can't fathom that being the case. It seems so... un-Cullen. I truly can only see him as a person that can't talk around women. That's part of his character to me.
One thing that I think is overlooked for this thread, among many others is... everyone has to be approaching their 40's at this point!
Morrigan, Cullen, Sten, Allistair, the Warden... they were all 20-something's in DA:O, I'd wager. Well, its been ten years since then. Which puts them all in their 30's, possibly in their late 30's.
Now, nothing is wrong with people in their late 30's, but I think people are just forgetting that if we get a new protagonist, chances are they will be a fresh face in their early 20's again (just like always), so a Cullen LI will be robbing the craddle, more or less.
Just an observation. People seem to forget that a lot of time has actually passed between the first game and the third, time which has aged all of the characters.