Lithuasil wrote...
Avejajed wrote...
They are never going to take us seriously unless we stop acting like half-wit orcs every time someone disagrees with us. I feel like they think we're some kind of big joke and I really can't believe any of you want that. I need to take my own advice sometimes too, I'll admit that. But these forums have really just become a really hateful place- it's one thing to get it from other forumites, it's another to get it from the devs themselves. A little respect for others goes a long way. It's a lesson I'm learning still.
As much as I can understand your desire for a little more harmony (or failing that, two semesters of Logic mandatory for everyone) around these parts - there's kind of a downward spiral here. Imagine you were a dev in a forum, were people abuse even threads like this to tell you how much your games suck - would you be able to muster up the patience to carefully consider each and every case individually, after years of this?
No, I see your point. It is our fault, really. But I do hope somewhere, they remember that some of us really -do- care, and we really -do- appreciate them and that they can remember that although this forum is an angry mob full of people with pitchforks, we're still here because at some point, they made an impression on our lives. I was in a bad place in my life when I started playing Origins. I was in a place where I felt very out of place, everyone I knew now lived 3000 miles away, and I was lonely. And someone at work suggested I play the game, since they knew I was a gamer and that I liked Fable a lot. So I picked it up, and after a long, annoying day at my new job, that I hated, I'd come home and be a hero. A lot of has changed since then, during my playthrough I met my now fiancee. I got a new, great job. When I play Origins now, I remember all the changes I went through- all those lonely nights when the BSN and my Warden were my companions. So yeah, maybe I'm a nerd, and maybe I do have stupid opinions, but I care about this place. The friends I have made here will be friends forever. Two are coming to my wedding. I'm vacationing next year with several more. Our husbands and boyfriends have become friends. So this place is special to me. And I have every right to not want it to become a place that is no longer welcoming. I know some of you are going to say that's awfully dramatic. That I'm reading way too much into a forum and maybe I ought to get out of the house sometimes. But I don't care. I'm not going to aplogize for being who I am.
Or thinking what I think.
Modifié par Avejajed, 29 septembre 2012 - 04:30 .