RinjiRenee wrote...
1. Marriage and love in Thedas have little to do with one another sometimes. There is literally no stigma against homosexual relationships in Thedas. You're also once again looking at the small percentage of people that we've been shown and assumed that all of thosepeople are all straight.
I did not assume anything. If you look at all the relationships we see in Thedas and compare the number of heterosexual ones and homosexual ones, you find that homosexuality is just about as common in Thedas as it is in our world (why should it be any different, anyhow?). And yes, I do assume that the percentage of people we've seen is somewhat representative of Thedas (or at least their country). The sample we've seen isn't all that small. Unless Bioware has been intentionally misleading us, the assumption is quite reasonable.
So yeah
Battlebloodmage wrote...
There are quite a few gay couples in Thedas
Julien and Nicolas
Branka and Hespith
Herren and Wade
Leliana and Majolaine
Anders and Karl
It's not that uncommon.
they're not all that uncommon, but they're not all that common either.
RinjiRenee wrote...
2. You'd be surprised to know that Thedas does not operate at all like the real world, present or past, when it comes to homosexuality. Note that there is nothing in Chantry doctrine that speaks against it (ie, it's not a sin). That's certainly not how homosexuality is viewed by all of the major religions of today.
I never claimed that they see homosexuality the same way. I was talking about their sexuality itself, not about how society sees it.
RinjiRenee wrote...
3. Uhhhh you're still missing the point here. The LIs do not and will never represent a percentage of straight/non-straight. Sure, in the real world the chances are small, but that doesn't mean it'd be impossible or unrealistic.
They will not. Doesn't mean they shouldn't.
RinhiRenee wrote...
You're operating under this strange notion that fantasy can't somehow have its own societal norms outside of real life history. In Thedas, women are allowed to hold seats of power, and people aren't shunned for loving someone of the same sex.
Yet again, I never said that. I said the norms should be plausible. Women having a better standing does have a reason that is somewhat plausible, namely the prophet of the major religion being female.
Battlebloodmage wrote...
The world is inspired by the Medieval Europe, not based on it, so kinda strange when you keep referring to their view on marriage like fire-breathing dragon or darkspawns are part of that history. The sexuality of the characters could be more like the ancient Greek culture in which sexuality is more fluid. I don't like how people pick and
choose which part is be realistic and grounded in reality to them.
Sexuality in Ancient Greece was different, not fluid. To penetrate was seen as masculine and strong, to be penetrated was seen as feminine and weak. That is why, for the most part, homosexual relations between men were only socially accepted in the form of an older, dominant male penetrating a teenage boy. This view is essentially the same view that causes homophobia. Homophobia is all about not being seen as weak.
The society in DA is nothing like the one in ancient Greece. Thus, it can not have Ancient Greek's view on sexuality. Having a feudal, medieval society with an ancient Greek view on sexuality
is unrealistic, no picking necessary.
h0neanias wrote...
Second, even if we do take our history into account, your conclusion about prosperity isn't a valid one.
I wasn't talking about homosexuality specifically, it was more of a general statement. Even in works of fiction where societal norms are pretty close to medieval society (or what we imagine when we think of medieval society), you often find the main characters and the narrative advocating egalitarian views as what should be.
I certainly agree that forms of mild egalitarianism do not necessarily require prosperity and technology. One should however not exaggerate the extent to which an egalitarian mindset can develop without these things. Women's rights are pretty closely linked to stronger law enforcement and receding importance of military service.
h0neanias wrote...
First, I vehemently disagree that the point of fantasy is to rehash each and every horrible mistake of our own past.
Certainly not. But whatever society it decides to portray should be believable and characters and narrative should be based on the moral code of said society, not on the author's view of what is morally right.
h0neanias wrote...
Fantasy should be more than just "history with magic". It should draw you in, make you want to be there, even if survival might not be easy. But that's why there are heroes -- they carry us through; they show us that a way through is possible.
I disagree wholeheartedly. I neither find wanting to be there nor the existence of anyone I'd call a hero necessary or desirable for fantasy.
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