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Even if I was inclined to romance Merrill, I wouldn't.
It's one thing to be naive. It's another to still be that way after living in Kirkwall for seven years.
Merrill is so thoroughly detached from reality at times that I'm tempted to think she has some sort of developmental disorder. Most of Hawke's innuendos and flirtations soar clear over her head. I struggle to believe that she even knows what sex is[/b]. I could never romance her because I'd feel like a predator.
But I don't think that Bioware is going to just rehash a character they already did, so I think we're fine.
Merrill is intelligent about a plethora of issues, especially magic. She can identify if a person is possessed, and can distinguish the type of demon inhabiting the Profane Abomination. Sometimes, people think Merrill is naive because of her Dalish views, especially her views about spirits. The conversation between Anders and Merrill makes it clear that the distinction is Andrastian (religious), which is why Merrill doesn't share Anders view:
Anders: Maybe you don't really understand the difference between spirits and demons.
Merrill: Did I ask you?
Anders: Spirits were the first children of the Maker, but He turned his back on them to dote on His mortal creations. The ones who resented this became demons, driven to take everything mortals had and gain back the Maker's favor.
Merrill: Your "Maker" is a story you humans use to explain the world. We have our own stories. I don't need to borrow yours.
Why would Merrill share Anders' view when it's made clear that the distinction between spirits and demons is strictly religious? The Dalish believe in the Creators, not the Maker, so they wouldn't see spirits and demons as the Children of the Maker. In fact, Merrill acknowledges that the denizens of the Fade are different, but doesn't think that means the Chantry is correct in their religious views:
Anders: Do Dalish honestly not recognize the difference between demons and beneficial spirits?
Merrill: We've never thought of the Fade as the home of our gods. It is another realm, another people's home. No different or more foreign than, say, Orzammar.
Varric: You can say that again.
Anders: But have you never studied the types of demons? They break down very clearly into different sins--
Merrill: Spirits differ from each other, just as you and Hawke and Isabela are all human. More or less...
The fact that Merrill acknowledges that the denizens of the Fade are different, but that the Dalish don't see them as spirits and demons (in Andrastian terms), is a point that many people miss. Merrill deals with culture shock when it comes to human culture, but she's a very intelligent person.
Does this seem like a woman who is ignorant about everything, who doesn't know what sex is? Come on now. I bring up these quotes because Anders also assumes that he knows better than Merrill, but he's wrong. She's clearly an informed, intelligent woman:
Merrill: Are you all right?
Anders: I nearly killed an innocent girl. How could I be all right?
Merrill: I'm sorry.
Anders: You're sorry? For me? This could be you! You could be the next monster threatening helpless girls!
Merrill: Anders... There's no such thing as a good spirit. There never was. All spirits are dangerous. I understood that. I'm sorry that you didn't.
You may think Merrill is simply ignorant, but you're wrong.