As an aside in this thread- I would love a Guild Wars 2-esque difference of body types (even if it's just two or three model variations) along with a height slider. I'd like my sword-and-board, plate-wearing tank to be a bit more muscled than a lithe rogue or a sedentary mage.
I realize that height differentials make some of the programmers go pale when romance cutscenes/kisses are done, but in DA:O we could have a dwarf!PC getting smooched by a taller human or elf- heck, some folks even made mods for the LI to kneel when kissing a short lil' dwarf Warden.
And please, please, no more hip-swaying walks. Or if you're inclined to go that route with animations, let us pick a set of animations in the CC that suit our playstyle. My tough warrior Hawke doesn't sashay around town in plate- she runs like a soldier.