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errant_knight wrote...

I guess I don't know what you mean by easier. It sounds like we did things in the same order, and I made no particular effort, making all the choices I would have made anyway, made almost no use of gifts.... What could be easier?  It seems to me that all you can really say is that with a different kind of character, it's just as easy to get him to negative 100.


Ok, it's FASTER, far faster, to get him to 100 negative.  I went to Lothering with a huge negative (I think 28) and Redcliff sealed the deal.  By the time that arc was done, my PC  was negative 100. You can get much larger approval drops from Alistair than approval gains, which I suppose is true of all characters.  I may go into Redcliff without him hating my PC just to see what kind of drop you really do get with the same ending -- all I know is it took me down to negative 100.  I was expecting to have to do a few more story arcs and have to murder knife Genetivi and tell him to shut up and follow when recruiting Zevran. Turns out, unnecessary.  I probably could have picked up Dog and still gotten it maxed.

After a few play throughs, it's just fun to see another side of the game.  

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ejoslin wrote...

errant_knight wrote...

I guess I don't know what you mean by easier. It sounds like we did things in the same order, and I made no particular effort, making all the choices I would have made anyway, made almost no use of gifts.... What could be easier?  It seems to me that all you can really say is that with a different kind of character, it's just as easy to get him to negative 100.


Ok, it's FASTER, far faster, to get him to 100 negative.  I went to Lothering with a huge negative (I think 28) and Redcliff sealed the deal.  By the time that arc was done, my PC  was negative 100. You can get much larger approval drops from Alistair than approval gains, which I suppose is true of all characters.  I may go into Redcliff without him hating my PC just to see what kind of drop you really do get with the same ending -- all I know is it took me down to negative 100.  I was expecting to have to do a few more story arcs and have to murder knife Genetivi and tell him to shut up and follow when recruiting Zevran. Turns out, unnecessary.  I probably could have picked up Dog and still gotten it maxed.

After a few play throughs, it's just fun to see another side of the game.  


Okay, faster I can buy. It's not like he doesn't have a temper lurking under that easy-going exterior. ;)

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errant_knight wrote...

ejoslin wrote...

errant_knight wrote...

I guess I don't know what you mean by easier. It sounds like we did things in the same order, and I made no particular effort, making all the choices I would have made anyway, made almost no use of gifts.... What could be easier?  It seems to me that all you can really say is that with a different kind of character, it's just as easy to get him to negative 100.


Ok, it's FASTER, far faster, to get him to 100 negative.  I went to Lothering with a huge negative (I think 28) and Redcliff sealed the deal.  By the time that arc was done, my PC  was negative 100. You can get much larger approval drops from Alistair than approval gains, which I suppose is true of all characters.  I may go into Redcliff without him hating my PC just to see what kind of drop you really do get with the same ending -- all I know is it took me down to negative 100.  I was expecting to have to do a few more story arcs and have to murder knife Genetivi and tell him to shut up and follow when recruiting Zevran. Turns out, unnecessary.  I probably could have picked up Dog and still gotten it maxed.

After a few play throughs, it's just fun to see another side of the game.  


Okay, faster I can buy. It's not like he doesn't have a temper lurking under that easy-going exterior. ;)


And my original point was this:  As much as Alistair hated my PC, and he was most definitely hostile, he still confessed who he was at that point.  Whether or not he tells you have nothing to do with approval and everything to do with whether or not he's in your party when traveling to Redcliff for the first time.

I am not sure I have the heart to continue this play through.  I feel genuinely awful about Redcliff . . . and since I don't have to murder knife Genetivi, I'm planning on leaving the dragon alive.  This epilogue is going to be depressing :(

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ejoslin wrote...

errant_knight wrote...

ejoslin wrote...

errant_knight wrote...

I guess I don't know what you mean by easier. It sounds like we did things in the same order, and I made no particular effort, making all the choices I would have made anyway, made almost no use of gifts.... What could be easier?  It seems to me that all you can really say is that with a different kind of character, it's just as easy to get him to negative 100.


Ok, it's FASTER, far faster, to get him to 100 negative.  I went to Lothering with a huge negative (I think 28) and Redcliff sealed the deal.  By the time that arc was done, my PC  was negative 100. You can get much larger approval drops from Alistair than approval gains, which I suppose is true of all characters.  I may go into Redcliff without him hating my PC just to see what kind of drop you really do get with the same ending -- all I know is it took me down to negative 100.  I was expecting to have to do a few more story arcs and have to murder knife Genetivi and tell him to shut up and follow when recruiting Zevran. Turns out, unnecessary.  I probably could have picked up Dog and still gotten it maxed.

After a few play throughs, it's just fun to see another side of the game.  


Okay, faster I can buy. It's not like he doesn't have a temper lurking under that easy-going exterior. ;)


And my original point was this:  As much as Alistair hated my PC, and he was most definitely hostile, he still confessed who he was at that point.  Whether or not he tells you have nothing to do with approval and everything to do with whether or not he's in your party when traveling to Redcliff for the first time.

I am not sure I have the heart to continue this play through.  I feel genuinely awful about Redcliff . . . and since I don't have to murder knife Genetivi, I'm planning on leaving the dragon alive.  This epilogue is going to be depressing :(


Heh, I didn't mention that part because I agree, it's a plot point and will always happen.

I couldn't have got as far as you did with that kind of playthrough. It really would be totally depressing. I always leave the dragon alive. It's just a dragon being a dragon. If the Chantry has no sense, well, that's not my fault. I killed it once, but was ashamed of myself and reloaded. ;)

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errant_knight wrote...

Heh, I didn't mention that part because I agree, it's a plot point and will always happen.

I couldn't have got as far as you did with that kind of playthrough. It really would be totally depressing. I always leave the dragon alive. It's just a dragon being a dragon. If the Chantry has no sense, well, that's not my fault. I killed it once, but was ashamed of myself and reloaded. ;)


It is depressing.  I also romanced Leliana in the beginning to see the four-way (funny dialog there).  I'll lose her at the Urn though, most likely, as my coercion isn't that high.  From a hetero woman's point of view, all I can say is I have new sympathy for men.  Wow, are all women that confusing?  My husband says, yes!

A lot of people get on Alistair for not telling them about being Maric's son, and from the conversation people seemed to think that it was related to approval.  But since Alistair is asking to go to Redcliff, and says he knows the people there, it makes sense to have him in your party then anyway.  He puts off telling you until the last possible moment, but that doesn't mean he's avoiding it.

I'm hoping to get his approval high enough that he'll tell my PC about Goldanna.  He will be so unhappy if he's an unhardened king :(  Even though he's not my romance partner (except to dump him of course), I do like the character!  Poor guy is just in totally over his head.

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ejoslin wrote...

errant_knight wrote...

Heh, I didn't mention that part because I agree, it's a plot point and will always happen.

I couldn't have got as far as you did with that kind of playthrough. It really would be totally depressing. I always leave the dragon alive. It's just a dragon being a dragon. If the Chantry has no sense, well, that's not my fault. I killed it once, but was ashamed of myself and reloaded. ;)


It is depressing.  I also romanced Leliana in the beginning to see the four-way (funny dialog there).  I'll lose her at the Urn though, most likely, as my coercion isn't that high.  From a hetero woman's point of view, all I can say is I have new sympathy for men.  Wow, are all women that confusing?  My husband says, yes!

A lot of people get on Alistair for not telling them about being Maric's son, and from the conversation people seemed to think that it was related to approval.  But since Alistair is asking to go to Redcliff, and says he knows the people there, it makes sense to have him in your party then anyway.  He puts off telling you until the last possible moment, but that doesn't mean he's avoiding it.

I'm hoping to get his approval high enough that he'll tell my PC about Goldanna.  He will be so unhappy if he's an unhardened king :(  Even though he's not my romance partner (except to dump him of course), I do like the character!  Poor guy is just in totally over his head.


I totally get why he doesn't want to tell you until absolutely necessary. He tells the PC exactly why. I mean, who would want to tell someone something that had always had a negative result in the past--especially if he's interested?

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I stand corrected. :D

I suppose that I assumed that Alistair always confessed because I'd gotten to know him. I always get to know and converse with all my companions (even those who annoy me or whom I don't much like - not that Alistair is one of those).

But you're right, the other constant is having him in your party when you arrive at Redcliffe. And I always do - even when I'm a tank. It just seems right. The story makes it clear that there is a very strong connection there for Alistair, so I've never left him in camp at that point.

Thanks for pointing that out. Mea culpa.

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Lotion Soronnar wrote...

If you consider not fighting the blight betrayl, then you should hunt down every ferelden man and woman who fled the blight and kill them.


The argument there is that it's a betrayal for either of two reasons (or both of them, of course). Please note that I don't necessarily agree with these opinions, I'm just pointing out why people see it as different.

1.  It's a betrayal because he's so close to you, you've been through so much together, etc - in other words, it's a personal betrayal.

2. It's a betrayal of the Grey Warden oath. None of those fleeing Fereldens are Grey Wardens who took the oath. They're just civilians.

I have problems with the first one because it conversely means that if you spare Loghain it's a personal betrayal of Alistair for the very same reason - therefore it's a null argument.

The second is more reasonable. Those people fleeing are just innocent civilians. And would have no hope of fighting the darkspawn or the blight successfully. It isn't the same thing at all. However, the Grey Warden oath argument does have something going for it.

*   This oath everyone mentions though. I never took one - and I have 11 characters so far.  At the Joining, Alistair gives a little speech - almost a prayer really - about the prospective recruits 'joining' the Grey Wardens. Nowhere am I asked to state that I agree with certain statements. Nowhere am I asked to repeat certain phrases that would indicate the taking of an oath.  Nowhere, ingame, am I asked anything that indicates to me the taking of an oath - whether I join the Wardens willingly or reluctantly (both of which I've done). There may be something in the books about an oath (I don't know, I haven't read them) but it's irrelevant anyway - I simply do not take an oath ingame. And if I didn't, then I see no reason to assume that Alistair did either.

     Is simply participating in the Joining ritual meant to indicate some kind of implicit (as opposed to explicit) oath? You know, by drinking you indicate agreement with ... This is certainly not made clear to the character either. Oaths can be verbal - in which case they are spoken aloud, generally in a public forum in front of witnesses - or they can be written, and the oath taker must sign a pact. My characters did neither. Based only on what is in the game there simply isn't any oath. And if there isn't an oath - Alistair can't be betraying his oath.

     Now, even if he isn't betraying/breaking an oath, is he betraying his commitment to the Wardens. This I think he is doing in a way. He wanted to join, and the wardens are committed to destroying the blight etc 'at all costs'. But he's young, he's impulsive, he's incredibly angry, and you personally betrayed him (see above) by making this choice. I don't blame him at all for leaving your party. Should he go on to fight the blight alone, then? In my opinion - yes, he should. But he's given little time to reconsider. And when he does have time to reconsider - too late to change his actions - he regrets it. Is it really such a crime to be young and angry and hurt and so make a mistake? Not in my view. Otherwise the vast majority of people who have ever lived are basically very bad people who've committed unforgiveable sins, and we should cease forthwith to have anything to do with them.

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Alistair had me from "You know, one good thing about the Blight is how it brings people together."



He is a well-written character, full of small flaws and realistic responses to stimuli. He's also written with some major virtues like compassion, trust, fidelity, and honesty . It also helps a lot that the voice actor has an extremely rich, expressive instrument. The accent doesn't hurt either.




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lets se if we can get to 400 posts : )

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SusanStoHelit wrote...

Lotion Soronnar wrote...


If you consider not fighting the blight betrayl, then you should hunt down every ferelden man and woman who fled the blight and kill them.


The argument there is that it's a betrayal for either of two reasons (or both of them, of course). Please note that I don't necessarily agree with these opinions, I'm just pointing out why people see it as different.

1.  It's a betrayal because he's so close to you, you've been through so much together, etc - in other words, it's a personal betrayal.

2. It's a betrayal of the Grey Warden oath. None of those fleeing Fereldens are Grey Wardens who took the oath. They're just civilians.

I have problems with the first one because it conversely means that if you spare Loghain it's a personal betrayal of Alistair for the very same reason - therefore it's a null argument.

The second is more reasonable. Those people fleeing are just innocent civilians. And would have no hope of fighting the darkspawn or the blight successfully. It isn't the same thing at all. However, the Grey Warden oath argument does have something going for it.

*   This oath everyone mentions though. I never took one - and I have 11 characters so far.  At the Joining, Alistair gives a little speech - almost a prayer really - about the prospective recruits 'joining' the Grey Wardens. Nowhere am I asked to state that I agree with certain statements. Nowhere am I asked to repeat certain phrases that would indicate the taking of an oath.  Nowhere, ingame, am I asked anything that indicates to me the taking of an oath - whether I join the Wardens willingly or reluctantly (both of which I've done). There may be something in the books about an oath (I don't know, I haven't read them) but it's irrelevant anyway - I simply do not take an oath ingame. And if I didn't, then I see no reason to assume that Alistair did either.

     Is simply participating in the Joining ritual meant to indicate some kind of implicit (as opposed to explicit) oath? You know, by drinking you indicate agreement with ... This is certainly not made clear to the character either. Oaths can be verbal - in which case they are spoken aloud, generally in a public forum in front of witnesses - or they can be written, and the oath taker must sign a pact. My characters did neither. Based only on what is in the game there simply isn't any oath. And if there isn't an oath - Alistair can't be betraying his oath.

     Now, even if he isn't betraying/breaking an oath, is he betraying his commitment to the Wardens. This I think he is doing in a way. He wanted to join, and the wardens are committed to destroying the blight etc 'at all costs'. But he's young, he's impulsive, he's incredibly angry, and you personally betrayed him (see above) by making this choice. I don't blame him at all for leaving your party. Should he go on to fight the blight alone, then? In my opinion - yes, he should. But he's given little time to reconsider. And when he does have time to reconsider - too late to change his actions - he regrets it. Is it really such a crime to be young and angry and hurt and so make a mistake? Not in my view. Otherwise the vast majority of people who have ever lived are basically very bad people who've committed unforgiveable sins, and we should cease forthwith to have anything to do with them.

acutally, wasn't alistair exiled? he can't fight the blight if he's forced to leave the country...

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SusanStoHelit wrote...
Now, even if he isn't betraying/breaking an oath, is he betraying his commitment to the Wardens. This I think he is doing in a way. He wanted to join, and the wardens are committed to destroying the blight etc 'at all costs'. But he's young, he's impulsive, he's incredibly angry, and you personally betrayed him (see above) by making this choice. I don't blame him at all for leaving your party. Should he go on to fight the blight alone, then? In my opinion - yes, he should. But he's given little time to reconsider. And when he does have time to reconsider - too late to change his actions - he regrets it. Is it really such a crime to be young and angry and hurt and so make a mistake? Not in my view. Otherwise the vast majority of people who have ever lived are basically very bad people who've committed unforgiveable sins, and we should cease forthwith to have anything to do with them.

[applauds]  I think these are excellent points.  He spells out to you exactly why he's leaving, and by the time he's had a minute to cool off and rethink his very, very public choice and consider slinking back with his tail between his legs, you're on the march to Denerim and either dead or a Daddy (or Loghain is).  Can you imagine how humiliating it would be to suck it up and come back after that scene in front of the entire Ferelden nobility?  :(

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Later in the game Alistair proves himself to be a right prat. I wish we could have had Duncan instead.

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ya i just could not believe the way he acted the guy wouldnt stand a chance IRL

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To the OP's original question: I like him because thats my opinion,get over it! :P

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What had me fall for him was the dress remark...

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Eruanna Guerrein wrote...

He's sensitive, a good guy, a lot of fun, sexy with a sexy accent, sweetly romantic, and tough - despite his despair he still gets out there and does what has to be done.

I think it's funny when he tries to act all childish with Wynne to get her to darn his shirt or whatever. It totally fits his sense of humor and it's obvious she sees it the same way or she wouldn't let him get away with it. I think it's awesome that he's not so macho that he's afraid to show his emotions and it's entirely understandable that he would be devasted over the loss of yet another person he loves, one who likely wasn't going to willingly abandon him. And given that he's someone who likes to please people, it's understandable that he'd have a fear of leadership after being told his whole life that he was nobody and not to get any ideas otherwise. Even when Eamon first suggests him as king, Teagan asks if he is sure and Eamon responds that it's a sad day when it's come down to this but here it is, even with Alistair standing right there. Talk about a kick in the balls!


I agree.
Why I like him; ( and I'm a woman)

He's more realistic.

Alistair is one of those guys that's like the underdog who comes out shining on top.I feel like he reacts the way a normal person would in a bleak or dangerous situation.He's not necessarily weak and whiney, he gets upset about the things that happen but he wants to do something about it.And that's whats important.Can the same be said about some people? No. So Alistair does have....... a set. lol
-He's romantic.
-He's funny in a sweet-sarcastic-corny kind of way.It's surprising how he keeps a sense of humor after being around those Chantry priests,stiff templar's and all the other bad things that happened to him.
-He's attractive for a game character in a average guy way. He doesn't look like Sephiroth or Alucard or any of those guys.It's refreshing.
-He wants to be liked for who he is and not for who his father is.

If he sucks in the party then you're not setting up his talents correctly.

Why is it that guys keep posting about how much they hate Alistair and why they don't understand why us women like him?
We all have our personal preferences.

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amethyst_rose2009 wrote...

  But when a Brit says something, no matter how silly or trivial it is, I'm like drooling all over and swooning. Image IPB  It's so embarassing. Image IPB


Same lol :whistle:

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Leliana died the most in my game. Alistar does suck, specially since I played a warrior and had Shale. Then you get the dwarf. Too many warriors.

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I cringe when giving Alistar gifts he likes. He's too prissy.

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Why do ladies like Alistair? Hmm let me see.

He's loyal and they get to boss him around all the time. The game also gives the impression that Alistair is not really smart compared to the PC. He doesn't want sex all the time, he just want's to be kind and sweet.
They can also convince him to marry even though he doesn't want marriage.

I think I just described a man that all women will want in real life. :P

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oh cool more answers
 Well thats  it i need to work on an accent thenImage IPB

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Y'know I'm certain that there are as many people who like Alistair as like the other characters. In fact given what I see on other forums and on blogs, more. And yet, while there are multiple threads devoted to fandom of Zevran, and less prolific, but still frequent threads devoted to Leiliana and Morrigan, there are few attempts to discuss Alistair anymore. Now why do you suppose that is? Could it be that it's impossible to start such a thread or have any such discussion at all without a tidal wave of mockery and character hate? I suppose the real question is, why do people feel such a need to do that at the expense of others?

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errant_knight, the Zevran fans get the trolls as well. The big difference is we for the most part either ignore them or, if they bring up a valid issue, discuss that issue seriously, which usually is the last thing a troll wants. If you have a bunch of people getting offended and/or jumping to Alistair's defense, the trolls will keep on.



Anyway, I'm doing the Alistair romance right now, and some of his lines are just so sexy. The first kiss. Wow. I love the look he gets after he kisses you if you tell him it's too soon to tell before. SO unsure of himself yet so adoring. (I'm trying to help here!)

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ejoslin wrote...

Anyway, I'm doing the Alistair romance right now, and some of his lines are just so sexy. The first kiss. Wow. I love the look he gets after he kisses you if you tell him it's too soon to tell before. SO unsure of himself yet so adoring. (I'm trying to help here!)


OMG If you hold out until he asks you to his tent instead of vice versa, it's the most romantic thing I've ever heard. I almost died right then and there. Image IPB