ejoslin wrote...
But you can play it from the start as a warden who wants a serious romance. It doesn't scare him off. The dialog choices actually are there. When he asks about the future, you can tell him you think you think you'd like for the relationship to continue after the blight. When asking him about old lovers, the choices could apply to either at the end could apply to either, and his dialogs are ambiguous enough that they could also support either. The new path he's on could refer to being in a monogamous relationship After the first time making love, you can ask him about love. Telling him you're happy he's with you is always good for an approval gain. When Leliana and Wynne ask about the relationship at adore, you can make it clear that you consider the relationship with Zevran exclusive and special. And when Wynne apologizes, you can tell her you saw the tenderness from the start.
Yeh, I'm leaving in the friendship for my own use. But it does change the lore considerably. But it is SO much better than the "more than friends" dialog.
And yes, as a friend, he is still more loyal and faithful than really is imaginable from when you first met him. And it's nothing to do with the oath -- that actually meant nothing to him. If you become friends with him, though, or his lover... Yeh, he's amazing.
Yes, you can play it as a warden who wants a serious romance and even as one who knows they are in love, but you can't really play as one who openly tells him that. I don't think those things that you can say are direct enough, though (for a warden who is openly letting him know she's in love, I mean). (I'm just using 'she' here, to save mixing pronouns). He's seems almost surprised when you do confess to more at the end.
If you ask about love after the first tent time, for instance, you're not actually saying 'I think I'm falling in love with you', and he doesn't seem to take it to mean that. The others are rather ambiguous too. There's nothing that he takes to mean 'love', not until the end.
I tried to go through them all once, just to see if there was a way of telling him you love him (or something close to that) before the earring offer - there isn't. Although I have had problems with that, I'm not complaining. As I said, I think that works very well for the story. I do like it that way. I would be very interested in a mod that changed it, but I think it would be completely changing the story.
ETA: Even
after the earring offer, you can ask him if he's in love, but you can't volunteer the fact that you're in love. Not until later. You always seem to ask that little bit more from him than you give. Even with the proposal, you can't actually propose - you have to push him to go first (leaving you able to reject him). When he offers the earring the first time, you still haven't recripocated his speech about being with you till the end (if you had that one). It's just impossible to play that way - to tell him openly how you feel. You always give a little bit less and a little bit later than him.
Modifié par Sannox, 02 mai 2010 - 06:12 .