TripLight wrote...
soignee wrote...
I am not talking about adjusted, nice men. I'm talking about Nice Guy Syndrome.
That's a great link Soignee!
Here's the TL:DR version for those too lazy to read:
They tend to befriend women in order to date them. Nice Guys don't usually just ask a woman out and at least make a pretext of friendship to use as a springboard. This is where they can get confused with actual
nice guys, who tend to also befriend women before dating them, but the difference is that the genuine nice guy appreciates women as human beings and enters into friendships mostly for their own sake rather than working them as an angle.
The Nice Guy, on the other hand, sees women mostly in sexual terms (although he will deny it or call it "romantic
terms") but doesn't have a lot of success with the direct approach, so instead he puts on a charming, harmless face in order to befriend women with the expectation that she will reward his niceness and friendship with sex.
Urgh. classsssssy. (Emphasis mine, btw.)
Modifié par soignee, 15 mai 2010 - 11:46 .




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