paleobones wrote...
I just dumped Alistair for Zevran and I felt soo cruel he looked pretty broken up
. Strange thing is I only lost -3 approval so he is still all the way in the love zone. I still have his mother's amulet and I havent gotten the shield yet. Would either of those gifts rekindle the romance if I wanted to? The Zevran romance has been pretty enjoyable so far.
Aside from the poem, but at least he can take criticism 
Hmmmmm, with Ali, you may be able to rekindle the romance, though not necessarily, but you'd have to take the obvious dialog choice. If you have a choice that says something like, "Of course I remembered! You're special to me!" you'll rekindle. The good news about Ali is, unlike Leliana, you can't really accidentally start things up.
I've never had the option to start things up after dumping Ali for Zevran once Ali fell in love. But if he hadn't hit adore, then I think I was able to.
So did you tell Zevran after he told you the story of how he got the poem that he is a saint among men? Hahaha, that's one of my favorite lines in the game.