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What's the (Romantic) Appeal of Zevran?


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#4401
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I'll stay out of the Taliesen thing, because I have my own feelings about that relationship, and I can't see it any other way. It aligns with Jaulen's in some ways, and I'm sorry, but I can not see it in another way. I do know that Zevran had sex with plenty of women and men, and for him it is purely a physical pleasure without emotions attached.

Maybe I can work my mind around the blockage, but in the meantime I'll do the Zevran-honored thing, and have my own interpretations :)

I do agree on the Rinna thing though. It is not only she, but a whole slew of things surrounding their relationship that make him suicidal. I also agree that Zevran starts feeling so much more for the Warden, once he hits a certain point of no return (for him). No wonder the poor guy is confused to heck and back. He is in utterly unknown territory. To identify a feeling, you must know the feeling, and he simply can't. He's never been loved, and in turn, he never loved anyone either.

He liked/respected/admired others yes, but never love. Even adoration is unknown to him, how much more confusing must love be then for him? I will always be touched by his huge sigh of relief when s/he chooses him. You know the conversation he opens once he is at 71+ and calls the Warden on the carpet.

As for the group, I agree with ES. "We are ridiculously awesome" is a fine name, and one of my favorite battle-cries of our elf.

Edited, because reading is a fine art. Sorry ES, I misread. "We are too awesome by far" is another good name, of course.

Modifié par Sabriana, 02 mars 2010 - 12:17 .


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Well, I went ahead and made one and actually, yes (sorry Sage) I went with the more well known battlecry. So now we're official: Team Zevran: "We are ridiculously awesome"

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I actually think his relationship with Taliesen, it really doesn't matter much whether they were friends or lovers -- he wasn't in love with Taliesen, though either way, there's strong feelings there. Not nearly as strong as his feelings for the warden, though, once he hits 71+ adore. It's obvious as there is no conflict there once the warden hits adore; there's no question, he is going to protect the warden from the Crows no matter what the cost to him personally (and killing Taliesen IS a huge price for him to pay personally). Right there shows that he feels more, at adore, for the warden than he ever felt for anyone else.



Sabriana wrote...



I do agree on the Rinna thing though. It is not only she, but a whole slew of things surrounding their relationship that make him suicidal. I also agree that Zevran starts feeling so much more for the Warden, once he hits a certain point of no return (for him). No wonder the poor guy is confused to heck and back. He is in utterly unknown territory. To identify a feeling, you must know the feeling, and he simply can't. He's never been loved, and in turn, he never loved anyone either.



He liked/respected/admired others yes, but never love. Even adoration is unknown to him, how much more confusing must love be then for him? I will always be touched by his huge sigh of relief when s/he chooses him. You know the conversation he opens once he is at 71+ and calls the Warden on the carpet.






This, this, so this. Had he loved Rinna, he would have been able to handle his love for the warden with far more grace. He most definitely would not have been so confused.



What really touches me, actually, is how quickly he trusts the warden who is a lover compared to a friend. The way Zevran's approval just jumps if you're in a romance with him, and then he'll talk about Rinna at 71+ at any point (as everyone here knows). If not romancing him, he will only tell the story at 91+ and after beating Taliesen -- it really is telling. He feels as close to a warden he adores as he does to a friend who saves him and who he trusts completely.



Oh, and good morning. More coffee. I'm completely squee when half asleep, obviously!


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Sresla wrote...

Well, I went ahead and made one and actually, yes (sorry Sage) I went with the more well known battlecry. So now we're official: Team Zevran: "We are ridiculously awesome"


YAY! I joined.  Thanks for starting this! :wub:

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No one will ask you to change your mind. I find others' perspectives interesting! I've certainly been corrected before, as well. lol



I think we all seem to see Zevran's relationships in much the same way, actualy, and are merely disagreeing on semantics. lol



See... caring about a friend is love, too. It's not the same as the love with the Warden...so it doesn't make that love with the Warden any less special or new to him, because it's such a very different kind. It's a base emotion... part of the essence of being. It's the expressions of it that are varied and can be casual, plutonic, mundane... or in the Romanced Warden case, romantic and passionate... 'true love' some call it.



Zevran's romance really is spectacular for that reason. I'm in no way denying that he's experiencing something powerful and new.



lol Whichever. XD 'too awesome by far' is just so Zev... not everyone structures their sentences the way he does... I love it.

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My laptop is totally messed up. It gives me blue screens all the time, I can't watch youtube videos. So I have to re-install Windows and stuff. And the annoying thing refuses to copy my dragon age save files to a cd/usb/whatever. I hate the stupid thing, because this way my elven mage-Zevran romance is gone.



@Sabriana, got a Zevran-human kiss to sheer me up? :'(

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I think you're right, ES, we are disagreeing more on semantics.

Many people do believe, however, that Rinna was Zevran's "first love" and his anguish is over killing the woman he loves. There is so much more to that story, though. Killing Rinna was not what caused him to break. Learning she hadn't betrayed them also was not his breaking point. It was learning exactly what he was and what that meant that finally broke him.

By having him just be a killer who's tormented by killing the woman he loves, it cheapens what he is, I think. It also cheapens what love is for him.

I also think that his feelings for Taliesen are too easily brushed aside, because Taliesen is completely unlikable, especially to a warden who's romancing him. But even friendship, real friendship, is so much more to Zevran than whatever it was between he and Taliesen.

Edit: Was just going through my screen shots.  I have a LOT of Zevran killing the archdemon.  SO sexy! :wub:

Modifié par ejoslin, 02 mars 2010 - 12:53 .


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Oh man, that sucks! I'd be heart broken if I lost my Dalish-Zevran files. D: Do laptops have the non-destructive system restore option? On my desk top, that's what I use when worse comes to worse, because it keeps all your files and settings in a backup partition while it completely reinstalls your operating system.

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Yeah, that's how I see it too, Ejoslin. He definitely did feel something for Taliesen, something quite strong - exactly what, is open to every player's feelings. Isn't it great?

Yeah, those jumps are amazing. That's why my PCs don't even turn the romance on until later on. It just goes so quickly.
Trust is something he can identify. I think he trusted Taliesen, and he trusted the Crows up to a point. However, the trust he gives the Warden if romanced, is far greater. What a guy.

Ejoslin, am I imagining things, or does Zevran really ninja-approve? I swear he's driving me (and my PC) up the wall with his approval getting so high suddenly. I re-installed the game, and Leliana has behaved so far (knocks on wood). Don't tell me I got another bug instead. Although if it is one, I'm not about to do another re-install.

Lordy, Denerim is a busy town. I never saw that before. All kinds of people and dogs, and kids. Wow. Although it is nice to see, I do wish it was like before my re-install. It was devoid of casual people, but now my PC and her gang are stuttering their way through town. Really jumpy frames.

Good morning? Good afternoon, m'lady. Ah, time-zones. Ain't they great? :lol:

Btw, that's an amazing FAQ. Good job.

*Puts on hat and walks over to the 'groups' to see what Sresla is up to*

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Ramante wrote...

My laptop is totally messed up. It gives me blue screens all the time, I can't watch youtube videos. So I have to re-install Windows and stuff. And the annoying thing refuses to copy my dragon age save files to a cd/usb/whatever. I hate the stupid thing, because this way my elven mage-Zevran romance is gone.

@Sabriana, got a Zevran-human kiss to sheer me up? :'(


Oh, ouch. I'm so sorry, Ramante. I'll get that kiss asap. *Is spijt* (Sorry, my Nederlandse sucks, I haven't been there for a while.)

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EccentricSage wrote...

Oh man, that sucks! I'd be heart broken if I lost my Dalish-Zevran files. D: Do laptops have the non-destructive system restore option? On my desk top, that's what I use when worse comes to worse, because it keeps all your files and settings in a backup partition while it completely reinstalls your operating system.

I was thinking about taking my laptop save files and dump them on my desktop (is that even possible? o.o). Thanks for the tip, I'll have to see if I can find that restore option. The problem started with youtube (adobe flashplayer is broken and when I try to update it, it refuses).
One good thing: Friday I get a new, very good (and very expensive) graphic card. The game is going to be so much better.

Right now I have no time to fix my laptop, I'm 'studying'. Exam tomorrow!!! Problem is I check the boards every five minutes. Image IPB

@Sabriana, Thank you. ~Dank je. ;)

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I swear, I don't know Sabriana. It's crazy how fast his approval jumps. I have to be very careful, because I am prefer the lead in to the story about his last mission if he refuses to talk about it first. It just sounds more natural. But once you're going to the tent, you may as well just jump to 100 -- as you know, it happens that fast.

I am still cleaning up the FAQ. I keep saying I'm done, and then keep adding to it. I may have to add a table of contents, though I think it's still short enough that it doesn't need one. It is longer than I expected it would be (there is a lot more to the romance than I realized). I did add a note at the top regarding the kiss in the alley after Taliesen, though. That really does mess so many people up.

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ejoslin wrote...

I think you're right, ES, we are disagreeing more on semantics.

Many people do believe, however, that Rinna was Zevran's "first love" and his anguish is over killing the woman he loves. There is so much more to that story, though. Killing Rinna was not what caused him to break. Learning she hadn't betrayed them also was not his breaking point. It was learning exactly what he was and what that meant that finally broke him.

By having him just be a killer who's tormented by killing the woman he loves, it cheapens what he is, I think. It also cheapens what love is for him.

I also think that his feelings for Taliesen are too easily brushed aside, because Taliesen is completely unlikable, especially to a warden who's romancing him. But even friendship, real friendship, is so much more to Zevran than whatever it was between he and Taliesen.


I agree.  I think he cared about her, truly, enough that she made him feal such remorse for his cruelty towards her.  Enough that he wanted some sort of acnowlegement from his masters that he'sd done something wrong.  But instead he basicaly gets laughed at for being foolish enough to believe any of them have any value to their masters.  I think he truly already cared about people, but he'd never let himself get far enough to fall in love.  People who see it as a simple 'I will die for my love' scenario miss out on the depth of the psychology behind the character's actions.

I agree about the Taliesin issue as well.  People make the mistake of thinking Taliesin didn't mean that much, but that cheepens the sacrafice Zevran is making by choosing the Warden over Taliesin.  It also explains at least part of why a nuetral Zevran will side with Taliesin... wether he actualy even tries to fight or not.  So many people get pissed about that, and it's like, did you miss the fact that Zevran did have friends?  People think of such complex situations in such simple terms.  I love the fact that this game has the depth to challenge players.  Not your usual 'good action VS evil jackass action' ultimatums.

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Here ya go. I can't seem to get the right moment. Just imagine his look getting more smoldering, and the smile gets bigger. Right before he grabs her. This is amazon # 2, by the way. Look at those swords, wowse. Starfang, and the Highever sword (upgraded, "Of noble caste" mod)




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Here he grabs her. His other hand is around her middle. I think. But who knows with that elf, right? Anyway, she isn't complaining.



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"Such negativity" is his answer to Morrigan's "Anyone else feel like vomiting?" DT for the win.

Edited: Spelling, bleh

Modifié par Sabriana, 02 mars 2010 - 02:15 .


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Sabriana wrote...
Here he grabs her. His other hand is around her middle. I think. But who knows with that elf, right? Anyway, she isn't complaining.

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"Such negativity" is his answer to Morrigan's "Anyone else feel like vomiting?" DT for the win.

*no words* <3

I so have to start a new human playthrough... if my elven mage really dies with my laptop, I'm making a human mage. My DE has to sleep with Morrigan (achievement hunting) then he dies too... My MHN has to sleep with Leliana ("Anyone else feel like vomiting?") then he is also dead.

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Alright, I think I covered the bases in the new (and IMO) official new Team Zevran digs. I've got useful mods. Zevran based resources and fanfiction listings. I've uploaded some pictures... am I forgetting anything? Ah yes, that's right, I'm forgetting to go to bed. Oops.

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Glad I could cheer you up a bit, Ramante :)



G'nite, Sresla.

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@Ramante,

try uploading your files somewhere or just send them to your e-mail. Just make sure they're kept online, not on your hard drive. There's no way you could lose your saves then.

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ejoslin wrote...

I also think that his feelings for Taliesen are too easily brushed aside, because Taliesen is completely unlikable, especially to a warden who's romancing him. But even friendship, real friendship, is so much more to Zevran than whatever it was between he and Taliesen.

People really have to, at least once, see the scene where Zevran leaves.  There is a lot more of him and a bit more of Taliesin and it's so interesting.  Very much worth missing the squee of that "and I'm not about to let that happen."

I think if by that point you have any understanding of Zevran, though, you can see Taliesin in a better light, too.  The fact that Zevran tells him he has a choice underscores this.  Taliesin can't see it, because he's still trapped.  My mage, who is probably sitting around camp thinking about all this, can make a comparison to the Circle.  She wanted the Circle to burn, to use its sorry state as an excuse to dissolve it if possible, but couldn't bring herself to kill the other mages, and she pities rather than hates Wynne.  They're trapped in their own minds and it's only because of luck and Duncan- and her willingness to die fighting darkspawn rather than be caged- that she can see a different way.

What is this fan club??  I didn't even know there were such things.  I haven't explored the site much beyond this board.

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ejoslin wrote...

I swear, I don't know Sabriana. It's crazy how fast his approval jumps. I have to be very careful, because I am prefer the lead in to the story about his last mission if he refuses to talk about it first. It just sounds more natural. But once you're going to the tent, you may as well just jump to 100 -- as you know, it happens that fast.

I dunno, for my current game it has worked out perfectly.  She gave him the gloves and though she didn't flirt with him, did accept his flirting happily (via the "do you stare at everyone like that?" route)  Then she got involved with Alistair, so that slowed things down.  She also sided with Branka and got big smiley faces there from everyone in the party (Oghren, Morrigan and Zev)   Now she told Zevran she wants him to stay and gave him the boots, but is still only at +67.  I'm actually really pleased how it has worked out.  It fits my story line quite well for them to be falling in love but still hanging back for their individual reasons.

I think the big approval leaps with Zevran are when the PC flirts with him.  That's when things get out of control fast.  It is a total oxymoron, but in his own way, Zevran is shy.  Without encouragement, he's so hesitant and unsure of himself.  Over in the theme song thread, I posted that I think of Sarah Maclachlan's "Building a Mystery" with him.  There is the apt line "a beautiful f*cked-up man," but also the line "so careful when I'm in your arms."  That says it.

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Addai67 wrote...
I dunno, for my current game it has worked out perfectly.  She gave him the gloves and though she didn't flirt with him, did accept his flirting happily (via the "do you stare at everyone like that?" route)  Then she got involved with Alistair, so that slowed things down.  She also sided with Branka and got big smiley faces there from everyone in the party (Oghren, Morrigan and Zev)   Now she told Zevran she wants him to stay and gave him the boots, but is still only at +67.  I'm actually really pleased how it has worked out.  It fits my story line quite well for them to be falling in love but still hanging back for their individual reasons.

I think the big approval leaps with Zevran are when the PC flirts with him.  That's when things get out of control fast.  It is a total oxymoron, but in his own way, Zevran is shy.  Without encouragement, he's so hesitant and unsure of himself.  Over in the theme song thread, I posted that I think of Sarah Maclachlan's "Building a Mystery" with him.  There is the apt line "a beautiful f*cked-up man," but also the line "so careful when I'm in your arms."  That says it.


Now that's a great way to put things. It's true, though. He's  not shy with anyone but the Warden. Simply because he's experiencing feelings that uplift him, and at the same time, scare him to death. Very well put, Addai.

P.S. I so totally blame you for my warrior addiction, by the way :lol:

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Addai67 wrote...

ejoslin wrote...

I also think that his feelings for Taliesen are too easily brushed aside, because Taliesen is completely unlikable, especially to a warden who's romancing him. But even friendship, real friendship, is so much more to Zevran than whatever it was between he and Taliesen.

People really have to, at least once, see the scene where Zevran leaves.  There is a lot more of him and a bit more of Taliesin and it's so interesting.  Very much worth missing the squee of that "and I'm not about to let that happen."

I think if by that point you have any understanding of Zevran, though, you can see Taliesin in a better light, too.  The fact that Zevran tells him he has a choice underscores this.  Taliesin can't see it, because he's still trapped.  My mage, who is probably sitting around camp thinking about all this, can make a comparison to the Circle.  She wanted the Circle to burn, to use its sorry state as an excuse to dissolve it if possible, but couldn't bring herself to kill the other mages, and she pities rather than hates Wynne.  They're trapped in their own minds and it's only because of luck and Duncan- and her willingness to die fighting darkspawn rather than be caged- that she can see a different way.

What is this fan club??  I didn't even know there were such things.  I haven't explored the site much beyond this board.


I agree that the scene with him leaving shows so much.  Seeing that, and seeing how heartbroken Zevran is later back at camp if you question him about Zevran's feelings towards Taliesen.  You can also ignore that choice and either do the standard one or just stay on the "you shouldn't have left me" task, neither of which show, though, how sad he is about Taliesen's death, but also how you see him finally put that part of his life completely behind him.

It actually highlights, as well, how close those two really were, and makes it more understandable why Zevran sided with him over Rinna.  If you choose to look at it as a triangle (which I don't, actually -- I don't think it was done out of jealousy or spite), you still have Rinna on the outside, with their mutual infatuation being more shallow than the bond between those two.

It's a situation and a story that is far more complex than it first appears.  It's a sad story if you take it on its surface, but the details most people seem to glean from it don't jibe with the relationship with the warden and the things Zevran says to her later.  It just doesn't go with either Zevran completely not understanding his feelings towards the warden, and also his telling the warden that this is the first time he's ever had a friend.

When Zevran says that Taliesen was a good friend and more, but then tells the Warden that in the crows they don't have friends, what does that actually mean?  When he says that Rinna was special when the warden asks if he loved her, but then tells the warden at a later time that he doesn't even know what love is, but everything he taught says that his feelings for her is wrong but he can't help it, it's apparent, at least to me, that before, the feelings he had for others were shallow, illusions of relationships to kind of quote him (but badly and out of context).

Whatever he had experienced before had real meaning to him.  It was the warden who showed him, though, that there was so much more.  As both a friend and a lover.  Zevran's "I like you," carries so much meaning to me.  I actually like it that his romance dialogs have that instead of, "I love you," because when he says that, you know there is a genuine caring there.  I'm not sure if he says, "I like you" in friendship dialogs -- I think he says good things about the friendship instead (Addai67 will correct me on this if I'm wrong).

Enough rambling!  :wub:  For the moment at least :blush:

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Sabriana wrote...
P.S. I so totally blame you for my warrior addiction, by the way :lol:

LOL  That's ironic.  On another thread I've been trying to convince people that even when wielding DW, the warrior class sucks compared to DW rogues.  I so much prefer playing a rogue to warrior.  It has nothing to do with the ridiculous thrill I get from setting up dual-rogue stealth ambushes with Zevran, of course.

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soulsweeper87 wrote...

I remember reading in some other thread that approval values are actualy dynamic, at least with some talks. They're set to bring you to the next level of relationship. For example, if you need 5 points to reach 'adore', that's what you get. If you need 10, you get 10. It also works the other way around with approval loss. Can anyone confirm that?


As far as I know, the values don't change... But I could easily be wrong. From the times I've played with that conversation, I've always come out with the same approval for the answers. If anyone can clarify this, then please do!

EccentricSage wrote...

I think we all seem to see Zevran's relationships in much the same way, actualy, and are merely disagreeing on semantics. lol


Aww, just what I was going to say. Just because you said it 5 hours before me doesn't mean it wasn't mine first! =P (Sheesh, this is what I get for being in the latest time zone of anyone here.)

ejoslin, I do agree with you on all your points. And regardless of whether or not he 'loved' her (I use quotations because I really don't mean LOVE by it), you're very right about what that event actually meant to him. If he had just lost someone he cared about, I don't think he ever would have left the Crows. By that time, the Crows were basically his lifeblood, his honor, his pride, his 'family.' I think he easily could have left her in the dirt and moved on. He would have felt sorry, but he still would have had the things that made him feel important, so he wouldn't have lost himself in the way he did. I think it's much sadder when you get past the 'love' aspect and start looking at all the different factors playing in, because it's not just a simple 'heartbroken from lost love' story, it's about losing your entire purpose as a person and realizing everything you built your life on has been false.

Here's hoping my mage can keep his approval down when I get to her! I like this, it makes it a challenge. B)

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*loves Rogues* I will be so hard pressed to enjoy playing a Warrior....they seem so SLOW!

But now that I'm learning how to level Alistair and Sten up.....Go team Death Squad, Go!

Sten, when configured properly is so friggin' awesome! He has some really 'sexy' kill sequences.

(pommel strike to face, turn so his back is to victim, run said victim through with large sword, then whith back still turned, kick dead body off large sword)



Don't know how the DE did it last night (oh yeah, she had sex with him), she got Zevran up to +94, still has all his bars of precious metals, boots and gloves. Got approval from Zevran for sparing the Dalish (OMG, all the sighs and the sound of relief in his voice...how could ANYONE think he's not honorable? Ah! I replayed that a couple of times just to hear his voice and how he sounded (sad at the tought the PC would do it and make him do it too, relief when the PC decides not to kill the elves).

And as a DE talking to Zathrian.....much longer convo with him than with a CE, plus he seemed to capitulate faster in the fight (or we were just that awesome!). The conversation there was so much better....heck, the whole warewolves/Zathrian thing had so much more of an impact as a DE.



And *yeah!* to the Zevran group, love the FAQs (thanks ejoslin!!!)