CBGB wrote...
I'm a writer, and I've misread him. I missed an appeal Zevran must have, and I'd like to understand it better. What makes him click with you, if he does?
Zevran is respectul, understands no, charming not vulgar, and my current PC wants to have good sex without drama or complications. Unlike, my previous Dalish ingenue, she a mature woman not looking for prince charmings and adolenscent romance drama (Alistair).
What is surprising about Zevran is the romance, hard-earned wisdom and strength of his faith for the PC. No need to parent him, he is adult who has travelled many roads and met many people, the PC is not his first, but she is in his now. I like that about Zevran's character, he lives in the now, not dwelling on his horrific past, but negotiating his current situation. For him, life can be cut short without fanfare or warning, and so he is a bit emotionally guarded and not waiting for the perfect impossible future. He wants the PC, and heck my character needed some relaxation about hacking 150 darkspawn. Zevran is not a HS teen who will txt his buddies about his conquest of the PC. He is an adult who looks for others to adults to play in (with) his tent at night.
Also a relationship with Zevran or Leliana seems to offer more parity than Alistair or Morrigan, who have not been around the block (emotionally and/or physically) and are learning to negotiate the streets of their hearts for the first time and seem to hope that their relationships could develop in the perfect situation, therefore they both may sabotage their relationships with the PC.