After reading through the whole awesome thread (kudos to all the contributors) I've decided to add my two bits from another POV you might find interesting. To me, the whole Alistair-Warden-Zevran dynamic resembles the main relationships in the opera Carmen (wiki/google it if you like).
To make the paralells visible in bullet points:
Alistair/Don José - a young soldier longing for a (return to) life with his family, with only a single close friend to give him any semblance of belonging. Thrown together with a strong woman by circumstances, he falls in love and ends up following her every whim. His proclamations of love are insistent, but he's ultimately weak and can't honor his promises properly/ends up killing his lover after she leaves him. <_< Major difference: Alistair remains steadfast in his devotion to the Wardens, while Don Joseé gets so weak he can't even be moved to go see his sick mother.
fem!Warden/Carmen - a strong, indepentent woman using her cunning to get out of messes. She trusts her instincts, faces death without shirking away from her beliefs. Also, she's not above twisting the rules to suit her purposes. Depending on your playthrough, there's more, but from a Zevran-romancing Warden POV, it's possible she eventually realizes the total dependence of Alistair/Don José on her and practically dismisses him.
Zevran/Escamillo - a renowned assassin/bullfighter, he's an apparently free-spirited and open-minded man, taking things in stride. This includes the initial rejection of his advances towards the heroine, but he continues actively trying to win her favor. :)When he wins her love, he seems most content and is apparently genuinely in love with her as well (open to interpretation in the opera). He likes her as who she is, not idealizing her or trying to change her.
You have to look at the plot a little to see the connections, but the game is set up similarly - you meet Alistair first, which makes his romance likelier for first-time players. One gets the feeling that whereas Alistair/Don José isn't able to let go of his love because he can't imagine life without her, Zevran/Escamillo is determined to find happiness in the moment it presents itself.
Yes, opera singer-in-training here. Which is why I totally adore Maferath's ram-horn helmet. Stock parody of Wagner ftw.

Edited because the formating is weird.
Modifié par FaeriesBite, 22 janvier 2010 - 08:22 .