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What's the (Romantic) Appeal of Zevran?


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Hmmmmm, Zevran does say that to a friendwarden. But I disagree that he is unaware of any feeling of love. That is one, though, that I have gone back and forth on -- when does Zevran have deeper feelings for the warden. I think it happens once he hits "adore."

Keep in mind, for Zevran to tell the story of his final mission to a friend, the Taliesen encounter has to be finished and the approval has to be high (+76 Friendly). The warden has saved his life and freed him from the Crows. The friendwarden has done more for Zevran than he probably ever thought anyone would.

However, he will tell this same story to a lover at Adore. That says to me that the feelings Zevran has to a lover before Taliesen are equal to that of a friend afterwards.

Edit: There are also a couple of times you can tell other people that you and Zevran are in love, even before the Taliesen encounter.  It can be played casually, but it my no means has to be.  But either way, Zevran has deeper feelings going on.  He trusts a lover, feels (s)he is more than he deserves, even before Taliesen.  I think by the time he hits "adore" he cares for the warden more than he's ever cared for anyone else.

Second edit: I wonder, though.  Maybe the reasons he will tell a lover/friend at those various times is because he is finally feeling valued as a person.  I don't think I could ever play it casual at that point, now that I think about that.


He could be aware that he's in love and hiding it, but I think I prefer to look at it as if he isn't (isn't aware, not isn't in love).  He only seems to start admitting it at the end, after Taliesin.   I think that if he was aware of it so early on, he'd feel afraid and uncomfortable.   I don't know what he thinks it is, if not love, but he seems to be able to think of it as good and life-affirming.  As for when love starts, hitting adore sounds right to me, even though it's early on (or has been when I've played.  I can't resist that tent.)    I believe him that he's been confused since he first came to the tent.

I'm not familiar with playing as a friend, but I think either way, no matter when that dialogue comes, he needs the warden.  He was different when he was with the Crows - who brought that line up yesterday about him slitting somebody's throat for saying the wrong thing?   And the way he was with Riinna - however, noble he is when we know him, he didn't act that way before the warden (although I think he had it in him).   He feels like he's nothing after Rinna, then the warden makes him feel like something, a better something.   I think.  His self-image depends on the warden.   I think that's not immediately obvious, because he is so -un-needy and independent, apparently, and asks so little.   But I think that if he was driven off, he would lose that feeling of being something, and there would not be a happy outcome for him, most likely.   Whereas Leliana (the only other lover you can drive off) would be fine, I think.  

It's difficult that he trusts so much so early with a lover, and yet you can't reciprocate.   I'm playing a Dalish elf at the moment, who I think wouldn't be nearly so clueless about love as my other characters, yet he can't say anything.  I suppose the point is that the warden has completely changed Zevran's life by that point, yet he hasn't changed the warden's life, not to anything like the same extent. 

Modifié par Sannox, 03 avril 2010 - 07:38 .


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Ooh, are we sharing dA pics? I'm kinda partial to this one...

http://tahara.devian...-Love-155964351

;)

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I concur!

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Oh my is it hot in here or is it just me? *fans herself*



Muahahahahahaa! I just installed the Forgotten armor mod on Daiya who is about to enter the Tower of Ishal, and man it's the best looking armor on a female elf I have seen.

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Sresla wrote...

Speaking of the Gauntlet (indirectly), I was perusing Wynne's dialogue (yes, I know, why oh Maker why, but I was looking at the Zevran is bad for you conversation) and found another "God I want to kick her in the teeth" moment. I hadn't ever gotten this one on my mage - I'm guessing because I never take her to Redcliffe - where she talks about Jowan and proceeds to tell the player (if they're a mage) how Jowan talked about you with resentment back in the Tower.

WTF is THAT. Why would you tell anyone that, even if it were true. Oh, by the way, the dude who you basically sacrificed your life for and might have gone to prison or been killed for helping if not for the Grey Wardens sort of hated your guts. I gotta say, I always thought Jowan and I were like, best friends and to just READ that made me go ???. ??? to Wynne for telling me and ???x2 to Jowan for just basically being an **** to me behind my back. I seriously wonder how a Warden might have made it through the game without Zevran (<3), considering how much crap we all end up having to deal with.

Metagaming note: No need to avoid calling Lily a cow next playthrough. <_<

Edit: Forgot to add the best thing - the VO note for that dialogue? Remembering fondly. Ya, FU too, you old biddy Glad to know that people hating on me is a fond memory for you... And you wonder why I might never want to go back there and/or wipe out the mages?


...Is there a "Slap Wynne" mod, yet? >_>;

@all the lovely pics: -is now hopping up and down and giggling- I have some new things to fav on devart, I see :D

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jenovan wrote...

Ooh, are we sharing dA pics? I'm kinda partial to this one...
http://tahara.devian...-Love-155964351
;)


:devil:  that's a good one.

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Sannox wrote...

It's difficult that he trusts so much so early with a lover, and yet you can't reciprocate.   I'm playing a Dalish elf at the moment, who I think wouldn't be nearly so clueless about love as my other characters, yet he can't say anything.  I suppose the point is that the warden has completely changed Zevran's life by that point, yet he hasn't changed the warden's life, not to anything like the same extent. 


It definitely seems like the dialogue options are limited for the PC (as far as the Warden letting him know that they feel more for him than just as a FWB), but then again, just mentioning love after the tent scares him a bit. It seems he's trying to keep his distance, considering that he still has his own tent... probably because that's how he's used to these types of (sexual) relationships going: have fun, have sex, leave. There's no reason he'd expect more when that's all he's used to.

Even if he's busy wrestling with his feelings from the beginning, if the Warden were able to hound him about their feelings, I think it might push him away. It's a lot of pressure to have someone dump their feelings on you when you haven't sorted your own out. Supporting him as a friend in your actions, by listening to him and sympathizing/ empathizing, I think that's ultimately a better way to ease under his shields. He starts out so up front and matter of fact about himself, I don't think he was expecting the Warden to be understanding and nonjudgmental. Going from neutral to warm (or interested to care) is probably a really big surprise for him. If you could pester him about your feelings, he might be too standoffish to open up to a person he's sleeping with.

I think you can RP it as Zevran changing the Warden if you want to (helping them find love for the first time or whatever), but I think you're right in that it's still not the same as the change Zevran goes through when supported by the Warden. His world is pretty much turned upside down: he's valued as a person, listened to, and finds either love or real friendship. He needs the Warden to accomplish this inner change, but it's mostly that the Warden's support helps uncover what he's already capable of, rather than the Warden suggesting to him how he should act.

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Woahhhh! This thread just boomed! I'm surprised the alistair-shippers haven't made their own thread yet.

Damn, the size of this thread is really tempting me to actually finish one of my fanarts and spread the love <3

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Juneya wrote...

Woahhhh! This thread just boomed! I'm surprised the alistair-shippers haven't made their own thread yet.

Damn, the size of this thread is really tempting me to actually finish one of my fanarts and spread the love <3


Three words, swooping is bad.

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The Alistair fangirls have multiple threads, I think..

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@ Senorfuzzylips Yes, I think that's one thing that makes it special, that you have to do so little beyond just existing and not being mean to him.

I'm not talking about pestering him or hounding him about feelings. I don't see any of my characters wanting to do that. But this one in particular, I think would like to reciprocate a little bit. I am a sad person, I know, but I went through the game looking at the conversations, and writing down the strongest responses you can give him to show approval, and the strongest responses he gives you. I listed and compared, and there was quite a contrast (I thought). By the end, after Taliesin and after the earring he still is surprised if you say that you think of him as more than a friend. That must be because there is no way to reciprocate when he tells you how HE feels. When he says that wants to live because of you, you can't give an appropriate answer. When he says he will be with you until death, again - no answer. It's very one-sided.

I'm not talking about an 'I love you'. There are ways to let him know he's special. In an earlier conversation, he makes it clear that he's open to being more than friends, if that should happen. I think that at any time after that, you would be able to say that you think you've now become more than friends. He has opened that door. I remember thinking that Oghren's 'You're just all right' was really sweet - that sort of thing would be fine to say.

This is very much a subjective opinion, but thinking about it, I don't think he would even run screaming from an 'I love you'. I don't think my wardens would say it easily, after hearing about Rinna (and knowing that it will remind him of the last time he heard 'I love you'), but if it slipped out ... I think he is more scared of his own feelings than the warden's. I think he would work his way to accepting the warden's feelings, somehow. His words about love if you ask after the first night (and I don't think most people would, after a first night) are about his own feelings.  He has difficulty accepting his own feelings, but never rejects yours.   By the time he's at 'adore' I think he's so devoted that he would have to accept the warden's feelings, even though it would scare him.

Modifié par Sannox, 03 avril 2010 - 10:53 .


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Juneya wrote...

Woahhhh! This thread just boomed! I'm surprised the alistair-shippers haven't made their own thread yet.

Damn, the size of this thread is really tempting me to actually finish one of my fanarts and spread the love <3

Most of the discussion is contained in the "We <3 Alistair" group. Over 600 members so far, which I'm told is soon going to rival the livejournal "Swooping is Bad" group. (I'm not a member of the latter so I couldn't really say.) I like to check this thread from time to time, but the sheer size of it makes it hard for me to keep up. I remember asking a question to someone in here, but the thread had grown so quickly that I couldn't remember what page the question was on and never knew if it got answered. Hey, my favorite romance is Kaidan and I can't even keep up with that thread!  Talimance fan thread is up to 5213 pages so far. Get cracking, people! :P

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what's this swooping stuff?



*is oblivious*

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Charsen wrote...

what's this swooping stuff?

*is oblivious*


Livejournal community. I confess I only poke my head in this thread and lurk on LJ for all my DA needs, but this thead is too awesome not to visit occasionally :)

There's loads there:


circle_tower is dedicated to mages.
dao_challenge For people who write DA fanfic, offers challenges and the like
dragon_age Pretty self-explanatory there, but oddly no one uses it...
dragonage_fic spammed with fanfic usually
dragon_age_icon for LJ icons
dragonage_kink Home of the infamous kinkmeme... Yeah like 4000 posts on filth, some of it is pretty bad though
dragonage_slash boy/boy funtiems
knickerweasels Anders fan comm
loghain_mac_tir LOGHAAAAAAAAAAIN older mans sexy times
makers_breath Leliana comm, it's very pink :D
nathaniel_howe Hmm, Nathaniel...
pigeoncrap Shale fan comm, mostly quiet
pornzammar Fine Dwarven crafts! Not just for porn, but all things dwarf-related. Note: I am moderator of this... COME JOIN IT IS AWESOME AND FULL OF GIFS AND GOODTIEMS
redcliffecastle Any and all things dealing with the Guerrins and their minions... Mostly it's people going OH GOD BANN TEAGAN AMIRITE? AMIRITE?
the_sten Sten comm. And his butterfly sword. And the people who like him...
swooping_is_bad <----afforementioned swooping. Alistair comm.
tis_only_i Morrigan comm, new and a bit quiet. I'm a moderator here too.

ANNNND FINNALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY <3<3:
zevran
Zevran fan comm

Modifié par soignee, 03 avril 2010 - 11:42 .


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SurrealSadi

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Charsen wrote...

what's this swooping stuff?

*is oblivious*

Whatever it is, it's bad.

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SurrealSadi wrote...

Charsen wrote...

what's this swooping stuff?

*is oblivious*

Whatever it is, it's bad.


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Gilsa wrote...

Juneya wrote...

Woahhhh! This thread just boomed! I'm surprised the alistair-shippers haven't made their own thread yet.

Damn, the size of this thread is really tempting me to actually finish one of my fanarts and spread the love <3

Most of the discussion is contained in the "We <3 Alistair" group. Over 600 members so far, which I'm told is soon going to rival the livejournal "Swooping is Bad" group. (I'm not a member of the latter so I couldn't really say.) I like to check this thread from time to time, but the sheer size of it makes it hard for me to keep up. I remember asking a question to someone in here, but the thread had grown so quickly that I couldn't remember what page the question was on and never knew if it got answered. Hey, my favorite romance is Kaidan and I can't even keep up with that thread!  Talimance fan thread is up to 5213 pages so far. Get cracking, people! :P


Nobody can defeat the Taliband.
I mean, even Harbr--ASSUMING DIRECT CONTROL

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Cuddlezarro wrote...

SurrealSadi wrote...

Charsen wrote...

what's this swooping stuff?

*is oblivious*

Whatever it is, it's bad.


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I was waiting for that. Thanks!:lol:

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LOL

Alistair disapproves
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Mimsypeach

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TripLight wrote...

LOL

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I wonder if she's trying to block out the talkage and face...or if she's enjoying it :huh: Hmmmm.......yeah, that expression will now haunt my dreams XD so ANGRY

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Mimsypeach wrote...

TripLight wrote...

LOL

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I wonder if she's trying to block out the talkage and face...or if she's enjoying it :huh: Hmmmm.......yeah, that expression will now haunt my dreams XD so ANGRY

Well considering that character romanced Zevran and I have a save of her in which she sacrificed Alistair (he wanted too!), and did the US achievement. It could have been either way but if you want to see her angry... Al has nothing on my Sena.

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TripLight wrote...

Well considering that character romanced Zevran and I have a save of her in which she sacrificed Alistair (he wanted too!), and did the US achievement. It could have been either way but if you want to see her angry... Al has nothing on my Sena.

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So much disapproval in the thread at the moment :lol: That is one angry elven lass. That's the "I'm about to pwn the archdemon!" angry face, innit?

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Indeed it is. And it was GLORIOUS.

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Archdemon disapproves -100

Not so glorious for the Archdemon...but plenty of fantastical awesomeness for the rest of us :D

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TripLight wrote...

Indeed it is. And it was GLORIOUS.


Yes, TripLight. A glorious moment for us all.

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