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ejoslin wrote...

SusanStoHelit wrote...


Now, I acknowledge that if you romance him you find out much more about him and learn that, in fact, his lack of regret, his apparent callous attitude, and so on, are a mask he wears to fool himself as much as others. However, all of that requires metagame knowledge. If you don't know that he has those qualities before you start to romance him, why would you start a relationship? So, from a roleplaying perspective where only what your character knows matters, no 'good' character would choose to 'romance' him in the first place, because he's not a good candidate for a serious relationship. So I left Zevran strictly alone, at first.




(lots of snips)

I didn't metagame with my first romance with Zevran; I'm very glad I didn't.  Why someone would get involved?  Why not?  It's a video game and it's fun to play with various options.  As much as I love this game and love the characters, I guess I don't roleplay to that extent where the question of why is even an issue.

Edit: This came off as harsher than I meant.  If you want an in-game reason for romancing him, take him in your parties.  That was when I started really liking him, listening to the party dialog.  He definitely is a strong person, funny, and much smarter than anyone else you're travelling with.


I agree.  I don't metagame at all when I play.  I mean, reload my game several times just so that I can exhaust every single possible dialog option and find the 'best' combination?  Nope, I'm waaaay too lazy.  This was especially true during my first play through, where I was too busy wading through plot events to truly care about how my choices affected each character.

Yet, I still found that Zevran had his 'hooks' straight from the get-go.  I suppose it helps that I actually like his appearance.  I never thought his tan looked fake, or that his accent was silly, or that he had too 'lithe' a figure.  Appearance does have a lot to do with how someone interprets a character, so perhaps that has something to do with it.

I also think it depends on which origin you choose and what kind of character you decide to play.  As SusanStoHelit mentioned, 'good' characters are going to find Zevran's 'ways of life' hard to swallow and view him only as a ruthless killer who shows no remorse or regret for the lives he's taken.

However, I think the majority of PC's who romance Zevran lie more in the 'morally grey' area than 'good' or 'bad'. For them, this makes his assassin past almost a-none issue because they take what Zevran says and then fill in the blanks themselves.

For example, during the conversation where Zevran describes his life as an assassin (enjoying the kill, justifying his belief that some people just need to die) an opportunity arises for the player to ask Zevran if he's ever killed someone who was innocent.  He says that he has, but that he just tries to forget it.

From the perspective of my 'morally grey' city elf, this is what I gathered from that conversation: as an assassin, Zevran had to find a way to cope with the number of lives he'd taken.  If he stopped to regret every single one, he'd probably be dead several times over by now.  In order to survive, he had to find pleasure in his kills, and so he vilifies the murders of those who he thinks 'deserved it' and suppresses/forgets those who didn't.

To my city elf, finding a way to cope with his situation did not make Zevran any worse than anyone else in their party.

There are several other conversations like this that shed a great deal of light on his character WITHOUT the need for metagaming, but like I said, if you play a good character, you're less likely to pick up on them because you're playing from a different perspective, and in DA, perspective is EVERYTHING.

For that reason, I think people are twice as likely to enjoy the Zevran romance if they play as a city elf (they kill Vaughan because he needed to pay for what he'd done, Zevran mentions that 'some people just need to be killed), human noble (like the city elf, the human noble holds a deep grudge against Howe and wishes to see him pay), mage (forced into the life of a circle mage the way Zevran was forced into the life of an assassin) and dwarf commoner (very similar backgrounds because the two both do what is necessary to survive).

Once again, perspective is everything.

Modifié par MorningBird, 02 janvier 2010 - 02:51 .


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As a straight guy, I can't stand Alistair after 2 playthroughs, although in all fairness I haven't attempted to harden him yet. Especially the way he whines at the landsmeet....it actually felt good to tell him to just ****** off and I was seriously wondering why I even bothered to convince Anora she should let him live.



Zevran on the other hand....is funny. He's suave, has a mean sense of humour and my character for playthrough 3 (female human mage) is going to enjoy every last bit he has to offer.



I'd definitely go for a beer with him irl, but only to make sure he was never, ever alone with the gf ;-)

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Accent, the voice often is enough to make our knees weak.



Attitude, he's a flirt and a bad boy, but he has a softer side and that is what appeals to us. If you work to get his approval up and listen to all of his stories, he's really just a very unhappy and lonely kind of guy.



Witty one-liners, for much the same reason we love Alistair.

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Pretty much everything I'd want to say has already been said, and in proper sentences! Better than I could have done >_>



So I'll just add my little $0.02 of: confidence + sense of humor + softer side + loyalty = *swoon*

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That conversaton was hilarus, and I have to say I wasn't surprised Zevran turned down the 'offer.'
It
did make me want to tease Zevran a bit, though.  (A bit self-conscious,
are we? Are you afraid the rumored elven 'parts' won't live up to the
fame? Suddenly shy?) But I guess Leliana already sounded smug enough
for two... or enough for everyone in the group. Revenge is sweet
sometimes.
I don't think he's very serious with his 'public'
(bedding) proposals, however. It's just that talking about sex is a
second nature to him. He seems slightly more picky when it comes to the
actual act (His reactions if you ask him into your tent right after you
meet him show both wit and reluctance.)
I never tried the
threesome/foursome/whateversome. What precisely are his reactions when
he's at adore and before? I think you mentioned he forces you to choose
between him and Leli.


I, too, don't believe he's completely serious about his flirting with the other party members, but I do think he would follow through if anyone else wanted to. I'm guessing that his intention in the conversation with Leliana was to make her uncomfortable and then he realized that it wasn't going to work. Or maybe he is just a "grower". :P

I think Zevran has the same reaction to the threesome/foursome no matter what his relationship to the pc is. I have never had him lower than interested when I met Isabela, but I know tha the only time he will turn down the experience is if you are in a relationship with a hardened Alistair and Alistair has already agreed to go along. Cheryl Chee said that she designed it that way since she thought that Zevran would "step down" in favor of Alistiar to allow  the other man to enjoy something that he himself has experienced before. Zevran assumes that Alistair would be uncomfortable with him there. I personally say boo to this... I wanted two guys in my virtual threesome. haha

Anyway... anyone who thinks Zevran "looks like a girl" should take off his armor and look. lol, now don't get the wrong impression of me. I just had him with me while I was doing the gauntlet and we had to walk through fire. Yes, he is shorter than humans. He is an elf and they are naturally shorter than humans in Thedas. However, his build is lithe and strong- more fitting to someone who sneaks around.

I also never thought his tan looked fake. "Fake" tan usually applies to someone who uses spray tanner. I doubt this sort of thing is avaiable in Fereldan. He either spends a lot of time out in the sun or (evidenced by the fact that his entire body is the same color) it's his natural skin color.

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I take Zev and Al everywhere. I've yet to hear this tattoo convo. Are there certain conditions for it? Like only romancing Zev?

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Sialater wrote...

I take Zev and Al everywhere. I've yet to hear this tattoo convo. Are there certain conditions for it? Like only romancing Zev?


I'm not sure of this myself. But the only thing that I can figure is that the warden may have to be male.

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Namirsolo wrote...

Sialater wrote...

I take Zev and Al everywhere. I've yet to hear this tattoo convo. Are there certain conditions for it? Like only romancing Zev?


I'm not sure of this myself. But the only thing that I can figure is that the warden may have to be male.


Zev and Alistair are staples in my (male PC's) party -- I'll be listening for this one, I've never heard of it before, either.   :happy:

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It may have been cut from the actual game? Seeing as how Zev's final in-game design is a lot less tattooed that his concept art? I've heard the lines on websites and such, but never in game, or on YouTube vids :/

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Sylph_14 wrote...

It may have been cut from the actual game? Seeing as how Zev's final in-game design is a lot less tattooed that his concept art? I've heard the lines on websites and such, but never in game, or on YouTube vids :/


Leliana still asks him what they mean and he offers to show her the rest of his body to explain to her what the tattoos are exentuating and she declines.

They also did record the audio for the Alistair/Zevran tattoo conversations (there are two) since I have listened to them. Zev and Alistair have another conversation that compares Fereldan women to dogs that I have never heard except in the banter mp3 that I downloaded. I assumed that they would only have this if the warden were male.

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Namirsolo wrote...

Anyway... anyone who thinks Zevran "looks like a girl" should take off his armor and look. lol, now don't get the wrong impression of me. I just had him with me while I was doing the gauntlet and we had to walk through fire. Yes, he is shorter than humans. He is an elf and they are naturally shorter than humans in Thedas. However, his build is lithe and strong- more fitting to someone who sneaks around.

I also never thought his tan looked fake. "Fake" tan usually applies to someone who uses spray tanner. I doubt this sort of thing is avaiable in Fereldan. He either spends a lot of time out in the sun or (evidenced by the fact that his entire body is the same color) it's his natural skin color.


You see, that's what I'm talking about.  Zevran's fitter than the majority of 'manly' men I know.  His physique isn't all that different from a human's, he's just shorter.

But different strokes for different folks, right?  At least, I think that's the saying most people have been using around here. Posted Image

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He's an elf so it's not gay.

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thegreateski wrote...

He's an elf so it's not gay.


No, no, no, the rule is:

"It's not gay if it's an elf."

You have to word it correctly. Posted Image

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I'll be sure to keep that in mind the next time I hit on Elves.

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Please tell me I'm not the only one who checked my party out when the game forced us all to go naked. :P

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Oghren looks bizarre.





So, no.

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@thegreateski:  Be sure to do that.  It is an essential part of the Elvin mating rituals that you don't want to muck up.

@Namirsolo: Honestly, I didn't even know my party WAS naked during that scene.  I thought I was the only one who stripped, I ran through the flames so fast! xD

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SusanStoHelit wrote...

Zevran is physically unappealing to me (I'm female IRL). I don't care that that he's blonde or has long hair, but his fake tan is just yuk, and he's short and slender and looks like a girl. Not my type at all.

I don't care that he's bisexual. As for sleazy, he is, but his childhood and training have left their mark - and lots of sexual experience in and of itself is not a problem. And Zevran is intelligent, witty, honest, and all those things.

What is a problem is that he doesn't regret being a killer, a murderer, an assassin. Doing what you have no choice in to survive is one thing - not being remorseful or regretful is another. If your character is evil, no problem. Maybe even neutral, though still unlikely, I feel. But a 'good' character starting a relationship with someone with that attitude? No way!

Now, I acknowledge that if you romance him you find out much more about him and learn that, in fact, his lack of regret, his apparent callous attitude, and so on, are a mask he wears to fool himself as much as others. However, all of that requires metagame knowledge. If you don't know that he has those qualities before you start to romance him, why would you start a relationship? So, from a roleplaying perspective where only what your character knows matters, no 'good' character would choose to 'romance' him in the first place, because he's not a good candidate for a serious relationship. So I left Zevran strictly alone, at first.

However, my elven mage decided to have a fling with Zevran. She is 'good', but also has just escaped from the tower, the lore tells us mages are pretty casual about sex and generally don't marry and have children, and she just wanted to have good time. Besides, she can keep him under her thumb by means of sex. And he's an elf. And she's suspicious of Alistair because he's a templar. And Leliana is a religious freak and also chantry obsessed (not appealing to my mage). So - Zevran was casual fling material.

This led, by chance, and without metagaming, to the discovery of the 'other side' of Zevran, and is developing into a romance. I haven't gotten to the endgame with her yet, though. However, I don't feel that this would 'work' for all origin stories. For those who know what Zevran's attractions are all about and who are happy to metagame to get to them - fine. But I'm not. Each character makes choices based on their background, their personality and experiences, and what is known to them ingame.

So, my choice of a partner for romance is based not on what I (IRL) would choose, but on what the character would choose in those circumstances. Evil characters can romance (or use) anyone who is 'available'. Neutral or good characters are more limited, and choice will depend more on the factors I've already mentioned.



From what I gather, your main problem is not the romance between a good PC and Zevran, but starting the he romance and following up with it until you discover the 'softer' side of Zevran (i.e. during the phase where seems 'evil'.) Am I reading it correctly?

First, I think you're not taking all the possibilties in account when you speak of metagaming. For me, metagaming is necessary to construct my character better before and during the game. You learn much of the lore only after you've spent several hours gaming. When you start a new character, your character is supposed to have an established relationship with many NPCs, but you as a player are stumbling around it blindly.

Only after you learn more about what's going on, you can imagine what your character has been going trough, what he can or cannot know, which social norms he/she follows and which not. And only at that point you create a good and convincing backstory/psychological profile (that may or may not also cover some smaller or bigger inconsitsencies in game and gives enough reasons why your character acts dfferently for what you as a player would).
At least, that's how it works with many of my characters. I choose my character looks, voice, and name (sometimes even skills) based on what what kind of personality I think he/she should have. In turn, the personality is decided before-hand based on how I wish to play during that playtrough. While the actions of my characters often reflect my personal tastes, it is never inconsistent with what my character thinks and would do. (Unless I'm playing my character as confused, hypocritical, or dumb; he may be inconsistent then.)

Another reason why I think it's good to metagame comes from the limited choices in the dialogue. There is no hint on how your character delivers the lines, if it's serius, sarcastic, affectionate, so the way I percieve a certain line is not necesarily how the devs intended it, and usually you don't have to option to say, "But that's not how I intended it."
Second, in many cases dialogue options end the same way, maybe with a small reaction to the PC's lines and then the conversation plays normally regardless of your choices. I try to convey my character's reasoning not only one line at the time, but trough the conversation as a whole as well.
For example, my smartest and prettiest half gave up on the game because the dialogues don't give him the option to play his character's personality as he imagined it; can't keep it constant enough, because there's no enough dialogue options for that.
It's a matter of what your viewpoint is and on how exigent you are about roleplaying.
So you may dislike metagaming, but if you say that metagaming means breaking your ingame character or maybe not even developing it in first place, I have to disagree.

As for good characters starting a aromance with Zevran, here too you have to first know your definition of 'good' as a player and then your character's definition of 'good.' (Regardless of whether you choose an alignment or no.) There are many instances in the game where you could decide one thing is good or it's the exact opposite.
Is it good to help a childhood friend, even when he might be involved with blood magic? Is it good to rat him to the First Enchanter? Is it good to try and save everyone at Radcliffe, even if that means risking the death of more people? Is it good to sacrifice one life for the other? Which life is worth more? Is it good to kill Vaughan? Is it good to kill someone who betrayed/lied you? Is it good to lie to spare someone's life? Is it good to lie to kitty or is it good to risk the girl's life? Is it good to keep the Joining secreet? Is it good to kill to ensure it? Which sacrifices are good to stop the Blight? And so on...
Those are questions each player should answer for himself.

Then, your character, wherever he/she originates, has been trough a life-changing/traumatizing events, and while he may be good, his reasoning might have changed a little compared to the beggining of the game.

Another thing - is your character only good, or perfect as well?
Does it have weaknesses, doubts, blind spots, certain idealistic notions, does it need comfort, is accepting the events difficult for it? Is it easily persuaded? What are its opinions about casual sex? Does it have a broken heart? What were its past romantic/sexual encounters like? How does it view the dilemma of duty VS personal opinion/feelings? Which is eventually the measure for 'good?'
Each of the above can play a part in why the PC could be romancing Zevran.
(Uh, I wanted to avoid using 'she/he' every time, and instead ended with a weird 'it' talk in pure Shale style.  :o )

A Dalish and city elf may be good but wary to start a relationship with a human and therefore gravitating naturally toward Zevran. A dwarf commoner may feel additional symphaty toward Zevran's position and may think Zevran would want to change his life right away. A human and dwarven noble may think of paramours alongisde his/her duties as of the most natural occurence.
A human/elf mage form the tower, maybe also the Dalish could be naive enough to think that Zevran doesn't really mean what he says, or on the contrary, like Wynne, your PC may be wise enough to think he regrets his way of life deep down inside. A good PC may want to convince Zevran of how wrong his ways are and end up persuaded to come into his bed instead. If your PC has little or no sexual experience, it may find Zevran's open talk about sexuality confusing or attractive enough to momentarily put aside other doubts.
If it takes sexual relationships very casually, it may not think of joining Zevran as something of importance (the case of your mage).
There are many options.

Bottom line is, you know your characters best. If you think none of your good ones would find a reason to romance Zevran, then I don't think they should romance Zevran.
Nevertheless, I personally can imagine a perfectly good reason for my good PCs of whichever origin to do so. It actually comes as the most natural thing at that point, a matter of actions and consequences.

EDIT:
If I were choosing my romances in the game based solely on what I'd choose IRL, I'd probably be single in every playtrough.

Modifié par Carliw, 02 janvier 2010 - 10:20 .


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Carliw wrote...


EDIT:
If I were choosing my romances in the game based solely on what I'd choose IRL, I'd probably be single in every playtrough.


I laughed so hard when I read this -- I'm with you on that!  My husband is nothing at all like either of them thank goodness!  

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People tend to forget, when discussing whether their characters would spare Zevran (roleplaying wise) that when you get the chance, he is knocked out. My good characters always feel a big distinction between killing someone in battle while they can defend themselves and killing them when they are neutralized and helpless.

My female human noble spared him because she knew how impossible her task of building an army was and she knew she needed all the help she could get. She also tried to make the bandits in Lothering follow her, and anyone else that she got the option to ask. She saw him as possibly helpful and was not threatened by him at all. If he had tried to kill her again he would be dealt with the same way that he was before.

My female city elf (who was more pragmatic than good) spared him because she was intrigued by him as an elf who was seemingly living on his own and not serving anyone (although she quickly found out different). His charm and attractiveness had a lot to do with her decision and she thought she saw something worth taking pity on in him.

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Namirsolo wrote...

I, too, don't believe he's completely serious about his flirting with the other party members, but I do think he would follow through if anyone else wanted to.


You're probably right, but I think it might be also a matter of his standing with the PC. At +100 love, I think he might not have sex with others, at least not just for the sake of it and not if it doesn't come from the PC's initiative. (Hm, Zevran will feel like he has to end the relationship already if the PC doesn't feel the same way as him at that point, so I'm not sure how to interpret those two things together.)



Namirsolo wrote...

Cheryl Chee said that she designed it that way since she thought that Zevran would "step down" in favor of Alistiar to allow the other man to enjoy something that he himself has experienced before. Zevran assumes that Alistair would be uncomfortable with him there.


Now that's interesting.



ejoslin wrote...

I laughed so hard when I read this -- I'm with you on that! My husband is nothing at all like either of them thank goodness!


I'm really glad to hear this. Nothing like a comparison with fictional characters to come to the conclusion that your actual partner is way better/cooler/hotter. :D



Namirsolo wrote...

People tend to forget, when discussing whether their characters would spare Zevran (roleplaying wise) that when you get the chance, he is knocked out.


Yes, I didn't have any character that would be so paranoid/evil/not pragmatic to slay him at that point (or after Zevran awoke). I may do it in future, but I'm really not looking forward to it.



Janet Shepard wrote..

I'd definitely go for a beer with him irl, but only to make sure he was never, ever alone with the gf ;-)


Well, he doesn't persist if it's made clear to him that his advances are not welcome (if he has been serious with the proposal anyway), so if your gf said, "Thank you, but no, thank you," I think she'd be fine... I mean, as long as she didn't agree, I don't see Zev doing more than teasing... (Would she be a party member or the leader? Zevran does seem more serious with the leader. ;))

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Carliw wrote...

Namirsolo wrote...
I, too, don't believe he's completely serious about his flirting with the other party members, but I do think he would follow through if anyone else wanted to.

You're probably right, but I think it might be also a matter of his standing with the PC. At +100 love, I think he might not have sex with others, at least not just for the sake of it and not if it doesn't come from the PC's initiative. (Hm, Zevran will feel like he has to end the relationship already if the PC doesn't feel the same way as him at that point, so I'm not sure how to interpret those two things together.)


He stands down when Leliana comes onto him -- he has to be at 100 love for you to have the conversation with her about joining in (I'm not talking about the 3 or 4 way, but where you're talking to her and subsequent party dialog), so that may have something to do with it.  And it all makes perfect sense, together.  I read the ending when you sacrifice yourself that he never sleeps with anyone again (I honestly don't see how it's read the other way, but other people see it differently).  But also, would you want to love someone completely and have them not feel the same?  I'd break it off as well.  I can't imagine anything worse than being in that situation.

Before he falls in love?  Well, his advances for the most part don't seem serious.  Now, his flirting with Oghren and Wynne of course seem less serious and just designed to make them uncomfortable, and part of his flirting with Morrigan is a bet he has going on with everyone else.

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fake tan =orange=Zevran





I wish they would make him physically more appealing I think I will try the mod on my next playthrough so

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Aseya wrote...

fake tan =orange=Zevran


I wish they would make him physically more appealing I think I will try the mod on my next playthrough so


I have him modded.  I have everyone modded actually, but just for variety.  I really like the way Zev looks originally; I don't think he's gorgeous, but there's something very appealing.  Especially when his expression starts to soften.  The mod I'm using I find him almost too good looking -- it makes him a little too . . . perfect?  Compelling?  Anyway, there's all sorts of mods out there.  I tried one  with Alistair that made him look more haggard and a bit older, but that did NOT work with his facial expressions in his romance scenes.

Modding the characters just gives the game a bit of a different feel.  There's a lot of them out there.

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ejoslin wrote...

He stands down when Leliana comes onto him -- he has to be at 100 love for you to have the conversation with her about joining in (I'm not talking about the 3 or 4 way, but where you're talking to her and subsequent party dialog), so that may have something to do with it.  And it all makes perfect sense, together.  I read the ending when you sacrifice yourself that he never sleeps with anyone again (I honestly don't see how it's read the other way, but other people see it differently).  But also, would you want to love someone completely and have them not feel the same?  I'd break it off as well.  I can't imagine anything worse than being in that situation.

Before he falls in love?  Well, his advances for the most part don't seem serious.  Now, his flirting with Oghren and Wynne of course seem less serious and just designed to make them uncomfortable, and part of his flirting with Morrigan is a bet he has going on with everyone else.


What do you mean 'stands down?'
I probably should try for myself to see, but if I can avoid checking out Isabela's cabins, I will.
I think the ending can be interpreted in both ways, but I admit I find your interpretation more appealing.
Some epilogues are so vague (that traveling/staying together 'for a time,' for example).

No, I completely understand why he would break off. Being seriously in love when the other side considers it plain amusement is very difficult to take, and Zevran's little heart  has been broken, tortured, and twisted too many times already.
(But for that matter, I wouldn't want to involve others at any stage of the romance.)


Aseya wrote...

fake tan =orange=Zevran


I wish they would make him physically more appealing I think I will try the mod on my next playthrough so


I didn't mind the tan, but how his eye shape + wrinkles make him look creepy/dirty minded.
I tried one mod (there are some really nice morphs out there), but then the horror, I couldn't see him as Zev anymore. It seemed wrong to have Zev with a differend head, as pretty as that head was... Maybe in the future. XD

Modifié par Carliw, 03 janvier 2010 - 12:04 .