Cuddlezarro wrote...
...its official my casteless dwarf dumped leliena like yesterdays newspaper for zevran
I just couldent take romancing her any more her character does NOTHING for me >_<
her character annoys me, I had to mod her so she doesnt look like generic NPC #212341, I cant stand her voice and bah her entire character just makes me want to fall asleep or mock her
people get on Zevran for being a cold bastard who enjoys killing but Leliena didnt have the "I was sold as a slave and sexually abused when I was a child" excuse Zevran has she murdered people because she loved another woman and only gave up that life *because* said woman betrayed her and unlike Zevran who does show some regret if you pick certain options leliena shows NONE
and then theres the whole clingy and possessive thing since its next to impossible NOT to end up kick starting the romance no matter how many times you tell you arnt interested and she gets on your back for cheating on her when THERE WAS NO US in the first place
I honestly dont see whats appealing about her other than the typical HAWT LESBIAN ACTION guys seem to have but shes not even that good looking(infact I think she looks like Imoen from baldurs gate 2 except with orange hair instead of pink) and the sex scene is the same as the guys 
Well, there are a few parallels between Leliana and Zevran.
Zevran voices his regrets (discretely) because they're
fresh. He only recently learned that his life meant nothing to the Crows, whereas Leliana was betrayed perhaps a year (a few years?) ago. She's had time to cope, she was 'healed' by the Chantry, and she's already attempted to put herself on the 'right' path and make up for her past. She's made steps to redeem herself (in her mind) that Zevran hasn't had the opportunity to instigate yet.
Also, Zevran may have been sold to the Crows as a slave (which is horrible, no matter HOW you look at it) but both were betrayed. Zevran by the Crows, and Leliana by the woman she LOVED. You can't really down play that as, "Zevran was a Slave, Leliana should suck it up, she had it way better."
Marjorlaine ruined her. Leliana's reaction to her betrayal is a testament to how invested in the relashionship she was, and in a matter of seconds she realized that said relationship was almost entirely one-sided (not unlike how Zevran's loyalty to the Crows was completely one-sided).
Leliana's 'clingy-ness' could easily be attributed entirely to this falling out, I think. She was played once, and it's hard to fall in love again without expecting the same results. If that pushed you away from the relationship, fair enough. Similar occurrences happen in real life, after all, but I don't think its fair to condemn the entire character because she needs an extra bit of attention to know that you're not going into the relationship halfway like her crazy, paranoid ex.
For the record, I'm a girl, and I like her voice, appearance, and character, so it's not just the 'hot lesbian action' that draws people to Leliana.

In fact, it's the similarities between Zevran and Leliana that probably made me an avid fan of both characters.