Allan Schumacher wrote...
To play Devil's Advocate here, these ARE people from a different culture. I am not a resident of Thedas, that I know of. In addition, my character is often speaking to characters with whom the Common tongue is not their native language (Qunari, Antivans, Rivani, Orlesians, etc.,etc.).
To counter devil's advocate, you shouldn't be taking "Fast Jimmy's" perspective on things since even in DAO, you're playing a character that IS the resident of Thedas.
To Arret a bons temps your counter, the PC would still be regularly coming into contact with cultures s/he had never met previously. There were no alienages in Lothering, yet Hawke communicated with City Elves as soon as he got in the city. There were no Thaigs nearby or surface dwarves that we saw in Lothering in DA:O, yet Hawke talks with the Dwarven companion right off the bat. Not to mention nearly every non-refugee that Hawke talks to is from a foreign country to Hawke, one that just happens to use Common as its main tongue.
I feel like giving some of my perspective on speech and human reaction here. My job often requires I attend events where people come up to me and I talk to them about my business. I don't have a rehearsed script, but I do have a dozen or so conversation lines I go into out of habit, because they are the most information and efficient ways of telling the people I am talking to who I am and why I am there.
These responses I can almost say in my sleep, since I'll spend hours each day daying them over and over again. I use nearly the same words almost every time, use a tone that is always professional and friendly and occassionaly pepper it with more personable additions, but essentially keep it the same. Yet, depending on people's moods, people's preconceptions about my business and people's past experiences, my responses range wildly from familiarity, to inquisitiveness, to non-interest, to outright hostilitiy. And, before I open my mouth and begin talking, I have very little idea what to expect from these people.
This is hardly the embodiment or pinacle of human communication, but it has shown me that regardless of how you say something, either through word choice or tone, people will react in ways you don't expect. I've also found that more miscommunication happens when conveying new information, or conveying emotionally charged information.
Asking your friends if they watched the game last night is rarely misunderstood. Explaining who Descartes was to a freshmen English major or talking about how a change in a law will result in someone's tax rate going up can often lead to misunderstandings and to reactions or outbursts one would not always expect.
Just adding my two cents in.